Trying for a Baby Part 7

Lily_The_Legend

Birdie85 wrote: »

I've been told to eat a spoonful of local honey every day for Hayfever. Not tried it as I don't suffer too much (only when the pollen count is really high) and I don't like honey but some people swear by it.

Thanks Birdie, I'll have a look for some local honey x

blacksta

tea_lover wrote: »

We're just lazy:rotfl: We're both fine once we get going but it's the intial effort that seems like hard work! It's not that we don't want to, just that having a nap also seems like a good plan

LOL

I know that feeling - :j I am guessing both parties will have to want babies so bad to break that laziness barrier:D

mrsj28

tea_lover wrote: »

We're just lazy:rotfl: We're both fine once we get going but it's the intial effort that seems like hard work! It's not that we don't want to, just that having a nap also seems like a good plan

tea lover, are you sure you're not talking about me and my DH there? :rotfl:

QQ - I love looking at baby stuff online. DH was using my ebay account the other day and I hadn't cleared the recent searches :eek: He thinks I am even madder than he originally thought...

QQuaver

blacksta wrote: »

I cant understand why men have an issue WANTING to BD all the time - In my own case my Wife is THE slacky one - Although when we start , she is on another planet and it is just that initial kickstart that gets her going.

Wish my DH was like you:o My DH has always been an once a week(end) man:mad:

Birdie85 wrote: »

An ongoing issue with us too is that he works too hard so when he comes home at 10pm he's too exhausted to BD.

I can understand that, morning BD?

men used to put a lot of effort into making sure that their wives were 'enjoying' themselves because they thought that a woman had to orgasm in order to 'release the seed'! Shame they still don't think that! :rotfl:

Orgasm will help suck up the sperm inside:cool:

mrsj28 wrote: »

QQ - I love looking at baby stuff online. DH was using my ebay account the other day and I hadn't cleared the recent searches :eek: He thinks I am even madder than he originally thought...

DH doesn't have same ebay/amazon etc accounts as me, nor does he use my PC:cool:

Birdie85

QQuaver wrote: »

I can understand that, morning BD?

Not a chance! I get up at 7 and he stays in his pit until about 8, when I'm already at work! I've never been into morning BD really... too much of a rush!

I had heard the tip about orgasms helping to suck the sperm up but once OH is finished he's of no use to me! So tempting to whack out a vibrator one day just to see the look on his face! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

blacksta

QQuaver wrote: »

Wish my DH was like you:o My DH
Orgasm will help suck up the sperm inside:cool:

:cool:

huh?

Why did yiu get that one from

dont know how to put this in crude way but i always make sure wifey comes before i lay my eggs or else i get a mouthful if explode without her exploding first hence i am guessing the above theory of Orgasm sucking up juices wont work for us. :rotfl:

dizsiebubba

Hugs to those struggling to get their OH to BD.

We tried a method that may seem a little odd to you at first, but the psychology of it meant that OH felt less under pressure so therefore we BD a lot more often.

So that it didn't feel so clinical I suggested that sometimes we would have s*x using a c*ndom or toys. This meant that OH didn't feel under quite so much pressure and still enjoyed the raw passionate side of it without thinking too much about making a baby which can put alot of men off.

However, I was clever about it and make the candle lit / dressing up nights around the time of OV where there wasn't time for him to think about the baby thing because of the passion and therefore less pressure and when he instigated the s*x if it was in the 2ww I suggested it be a c*ndom night or a night using toys.

It sounds odd but it worked for him and he has since admitted he is glad I wasn't talking Ov and cycles to him stressing him out more!

tea_lover

blacksta - the muscle contractions during orgasm can help the sperm get where it needs to go.

blacksta

tea_lover wrote: »

blacksta - the muscle contractions during orgasm can help the sperm get where it needs to go.

Makes Logical sense - but in my own case :mad: I am exploding :eek: after Wife has already exploded.

tea_lover

blacksta wrote: »

Makes Logical sense - but in my own case :mad: I am exploding :eek: after Wife has already exploded.

I wouldn't worry, I'm sure plenty of people get pg doing things your way round . Just keep making sure your wife gets her 'turn' and I'm sure you'll get there in the end :rotfl: