Trying for a Baby Part 7

mrsj28

tattoo- wrote: »

Morning everyone! how is everyone? hugs for those who need them!

The hospital called me back yesterday, everything is fine, it was just the way the letter was worded :j

:j:j:j That's great news!

tea_lover wrote: »

Was an utter cow to OH last night. It’s like the closer I get to possible ov, the more of a b*tch I become until there’s no way he even wants to speak to me let alone anything else. We had a massive argument at midnight as I thought he was just trying to get out of BDing. Then we ended up having the most horrible BD where we clearly both thinking ‘let’s get this out of the way so we can go back to not speaking’. I feel like I almost bullied him into it. Not my proudest moment.

And my temp still hasn’t really risen so I think we need to go again today to make sure… but if last night’s mood was anything to go by he may well have moved out by the time I get home.

((hugs)) - I get really irritable around OV too, I think it's the stress and pressure of ttc Hope you manage to BD tonight and enjoy it

Wish I had a magic wand to wave for all of us to get BFPs!

mogwai

lilymay1 wrote: »

Eeeek.

Mog - my pre-ov temps are that range too, slightly lowet infact. My post ov ones are only at 36.5? I did a temp at 5am this morning and it was 36.2 (although my last 5am temp was 35.7 so it's a post-ov low temp) so havn't bothered to plot it. It's so annoying. I'm getting really fckued off at the inconvinience work is now bringing to my TTC plan!

I just don't get why it was so easy before, and now seems very hard.

Quick question: I have had EWCM (really noticable) today and yest. Should I still have it if i've ov'ed?

lilymay my post ov temps are something like 36.5 too, though 36.2 is really low - are you around 2-3 DPO? I get this too, its called a fallback rise apparently, before it goes back up to normal post ov temps. Still, we both have quite low temps it seems - have u got any known thyroid problems? Low temps are a sign apparently - i wouldnt be surprised, Ive put on 2 stone over the last year and a half - I used to be skinny waaahhh

About EWCM, I generally dry up after ov, might get watery but thats it. Might it be 'leftovers' from BD as someone else put it before! :rotfl:

mrsj28

clearing_out_my_pockets wrote: »

Sorry to be a pain QQ, but I'm CD5 today

Oh and there I was thinking I had a cycle buddy!!

vesper

No I defintely don't have an eye mask QQ, will have to get hubbie to replace mine. I've only been on a plane twice once to Belfast and once to Italy. I haven't ever been on what I call a proper holiday either, meaning 1-2 weeks away abroad.

Another one that gets snappy at OV here aswell. Always have done.

Hope everyone has a great weekend, I'm working all weekend again. Thought I had no work at all this weekend, but find out there's a cricket game and a football game. Boo.

Oooo I would love to go to Ritz. We tried to organise going to london incorperating the Ritz for my friend's hen party, but she has decided that she wants her mum to organise it instead. May hint a lot for our one year anniversary or something. Afraid to say hubbies idea of romance is a chinese takeaway at home.

Lilymay hide the xbox lead. My hubbie isn't a games console sort but is terrible for his laptop for playing Championship Manager. I just hide the lead or disk.

lilymay1

vesper wrote: »

Lilymay hide the xbox lead. My hubbie isn't a games console sort but is terrible for his laptop for playing Championship Manager. I just hide the lead or disk.

Oh my goodness. OH plays that ridiculous game too. I finished early @ 2pm today, got home and it didn't look as though anything around the house had been done, although I kept schtum..

I sit down to turn the TV on he left it on the sodding xbox channel. Furious. Again. His Xbox has now been confiscated. Lazy tramp. I don't know what's come over him...he's usually really good. Erugh.

QQuaver

I've put myself at the bottom of the list now. 14 days to CD1 as I'm on a pill to reset my cycle to stop all hormones (ready for egg transfer IVF):shocked:

clearing_out_my_pockets wrote: »

Sorry to be a pain QQ, but I'm CD5 today

Ooops, don't know how it happened:o

mogwai wrote: »

Hmm Ive been thinking about lunaception but am I right in thinking its only really useful if you dont always ovulate, or ovulate late in the cycle??

It works for chickens, so I suppose it should work for anyone?

What does that say I wonder? SHould have asked.

Sounds like the needles are doing its job:cool:

One interesting thing she did say was that my body temps are generally quite low, and it may be that that may affect my ability to conceive.. i usually only reach 35.9-36.4 pre ovulation..

Apparently higher temps are better for conception. But people get pg with variety of temps, so don't worry too much:o

Always good to have higher temps anyway though, faster metabolism and all that:cool:

lilymay1

QQuaver wrote: »

Always good to have higher temps anyway though, faster metabolism and all that:cool:

My pre-ov temps are lower than mogwai's..Now I finally have an excuse to be tubby :D:D

zcrat41

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Oooo I would love to go to Ritz. We tried to organise going to london incorperating the Ritz for my friend's hen party, but she has decided that she wants her mum to organise it instead. May hint a lot for our one year anniversary or something. Afraid to say hubbies idea of romance is a chinese takeaway at home.

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So is my hubbys - so I bought him Tea at the Ritz followed by tickets for Chicago (which ahem, I might have wanted to see for a while!) for his birthday!!!!!

Love being able to buy him presents I really want. It's his own fault - he doesn't want anything!!

tinkwings

OH :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

time2deal

zcrat - have fun tomorrow. We are off to Australia in December to see family, so we need to book soon.

TeamLowe: I know what you mean. The forum helps to at least feel like you are doing something.
I don't really talk to anyone about it. I tried with a male friend recently, and I ended up crying, so I really don't want to do that with any other friends. I hate people pitying me.

mogwai: At the start I would promise myself to wait to POAS, but I'd end up worrying so much anyway, I may as well know rather than rushing to the loo over and over to see if the cramps were AF or symptoms. Always AF...

I might treat myself to reflexology on Sunday if AF shows. Someone here said reflexology isn't good if you are pregnant, so I have been avoiding it in the 2ww.

Re OH dramas - we definately have our ups and down, especially around ov. Mainly because I didn't tell him, and so he didn't know why it was important, and why I was a moody mare but seemed to want to sleep with him! But I must admit we are happier now than we have been over the years. I just hope that we can move to the next step soon and make a little family.