Trying for a Baby Part 7

tea_lover

Was an utter cow to OH last night. It’s like the closer I get to possible ov, the more of a b*tch I become until there’s no way he even wants to speak to me let alone anything else. We had a massive argument at midnight as I thought he was just trying to get out of BDing. Then we ended up having the most horrible BD where we clearly both thinking ‘let’s get this out of the way so we can go back to not speaking’. I feel like I almost bullied him into it. Not my proudest moment.

And my temp still hasn’t really risen so I think we need to go again today to make sure… but if last night’s mood was anything to go by he may well have moved out by the time I get home.

time2deal

My multi quoting hasn't worked - but thanks everyone. Life just isn't fair.

I was positive yesterday. No matter what I try to say to myself, and no matter the cramps etc, I still hope. I am still hoping of course! PUPO and all that.

AF probably won't show until Sunday, which means I still won't drown my sorrows.. and I try not to drink on Sundays for work reasons..

zcrat41 wrote: »

Time2Deal - I second that about wanting Nicki back on the thread:T Some of us are still here though. Summer is indeed on its way here today - it's lovely and sunny. We're off to London for Afternoon tea at the Ritz tomorrow - I don't know whether to wear my smart summer dress (white with gladiator sandals - might be too summery) or my smart winter dress (thick serge pinafore type thing with black tights and knee high's - might be too wintery!) If I'd been organised I should have bought myself a smart spring outfit!

That sounds great fun! I love Afternoon teas. It should be warm here tomorrow, I say the white dress! White looks lovely and summery on everyone. Have you got some bright jewellery to dress it up? Actually it is pretty warm today - lovely and sunny as I look out over the Gherkin.

Onwards and upwards. Now I can at least book my holiday in December. I couldn't before as wouldn't be able to fly if I was that late pregnant or with a small baby. Not likely to be a worry now, but I REALLY hope I am at least pregnant by then!

nessie216

Could i ask a question from you lovely ladies please?

Is anyone ttc after stopping the depo injection? What are your experiences with AF etc.?

zcrat41

Time2Deal - I'm leaning towards the white dress. I have a lovely blue cardi and a matching hat (it's actually my honeymoon outfit that I wore to go on the Orient Express) and I feel like a film star when I wear it!

Go book that holiday and book something amazing! Where are you thinking of going?

Massive ((hugs)) to Marie.

Nessie - I don't have any experience of that I'm afraid but I'm sure someone will have here and will be along soon.

TeamLowe

big hugs to those who need them

thanks for your kind words ladies, i've been a bit emotional about it all recently and knowing that you ladies understand has really helped. and that you give specific support, odd as that sounds, my parents, and to some extend DH, generally support but in a 'it'll all turn out fine, you'll see' sort of way, not in a 'this test will help!' way can't remember who mentioned it but it had never occured to me that i might get pregnant before my next appointment, just shows how down i was feeling about it.

zcrat, always go with what makes you feel good, i'd love to have an outfit that made me feel like a movie star!

i agree, stark white tests are just horrible, i seem to see it as a pass/fail not positive/negative so feel bad when it's negative cos i feel the little strip is judging me :cool: x x x

QQuaver

Testing list

Monday 21st May - lilymay1
Wednesday 6th June - Sequeena

May graduates

Welshgirl78 (33) TTC#1 since 12/11 (mc 02/12) BFP 06/05/12:j


May BFP predictions

lilymay - 5
TTC40 - 6
vesper - 7
COMP - 7
Squ1rrels - 7
QQuaver - 8
Time2deal - 8
Tattoo - 8
mrsj28 - 9
Birdie85 - 10
zcrat - 10
rumfeeble - 14
maire - 15

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD56 Mrs Toast - 35DPO :cool:
CD43 Leopardlady - 27DPO :cool:
CD32 Primmer* - 20DPO :cool:
CD24 MrsHappy - 13DPO :cool:
CD29 Maire1 - 12DPO :cool:
CD24 time2deal - 12DPO :cool:
CD23 lulu75 - 10DPO :cool:
CD24 good vibes - 9DPO :cool:
CD25 Gizmodo - 8DPO :cool:
CD25 claire16c - 6DPO :cool:
CD18 tattoo - 4DPO :cool:
CD20 claretsgirl - 4DPO :cool:
CD24 lilymay - 3DPO :cool:
CD16 tinkwings - 1DPO :cool:
CD14 zcrat - 0DPO :cool:

CD? dibdabb - Awaiting ov
CD97 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD92 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov
CD90 Lily_the_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD78 bigmomma - Awaiting ov
CD75 MERFE - Awaiting ov
CD75 butterfly72 - Awaiting ov
CD71 Natterjack88 - Awaiting ov
CD71 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD64 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov
CD54 GorkyPark - Awaiting ov
CD44 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD37 Penguin 83 - Awaiting ov
CD33 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD32 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD28 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD24 skintchick - Awaiting ov
CD23 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD22 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD20 oxclaireox - Awaiting ov
CD19 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD16 TeamLowe - Awaiting ov
CD15 becca0417 - Awaiting ov
CD15 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD13 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD13 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov
CD11 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD11 apple*pie - Awaiting ov
CD10 Flee - Awaiting ov
CD10 2ba3c - Awaiting ov
CD9 Loulou123 - Awaiting ov
CD9 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD9 babymonster2 - Awaiting ov
CD8 Sequeena - Awaiting ov
CD8 mogwai - Awaiting ov
CD8 Nicki - Awaiting ov
CD7 codemonkey - Awaiting ov
CD6 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD6 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD5 COMP - Awaiting ov
CD4 mrsj28 - Awaiting ov
CD3 Metranil Vavin - Awaiting ov
CD3 i love holidays - Awaiting ov
CD2 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov
CD2 scarly* - Awaiting ov
CD25 QQuaver* - 14 days to CD1

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart

QQuaver

Hello everyone, weekend is nearly here!:j

tea lover, I've never had hycosy, only HSG. Like with everything, everyone's different:o Mine was like a smear, but longer. I did have some AF like cramps but that was about it. I know some say it was painful_pale_

Make sure you take your pad with you, as they may give you gigantic ones:p
mrsj28, fingers crossed 'relaxed ttc' will do the trick:cool:
time2deal, it's not over yet, fingers crossed you won't get to enjoy the wine:o
I haven't done any hpts this year, it's too depressing:(
Good luck with the weight loss, mine's a disaster zone:(
Birdie, have a relaxing holiday:wave:
vesper, perhaps it's time to treat yourself with a new eye mask:p Are you sure you haven't got one already? Like from a long haul flight? (Virgin Atlantic give it out sometimes).
lilymay, :mad: re your OH & xbox. Some men never grow up:o
Tattoo, Yay for the all clear!:j
zcrat, hope you having a wonderful time in London:)
maire, (((hugs))), my three full years is coming up in June:(
But it's not over yet for you:o
tea lover, (((hugs))), we all seem to become b!tches near ov:o
But the fact that you BDd seems to indicate your OH still wants a baby with you:o
nessie, I've never had depo, but stick around, I'm sure someone must've had one:)

mogwai

time2deal wrote: »

Needing a few hugs today. BFN this morning. I suppose I knew it would be, but still has really got me down. That stupid shiny single line, and brilliant white where the other line should be is getting very boring.

I don't get why it just doesn't work. Feeling quite weepy this morning, but need to focus on work and can't really wander off for a good cry. Sigh..

((hugs)) t2d - thats why ive stopped poas-ing until at least the day before AF is due. I was getting mighty fed up of the blank tests too! It does help take your mind off it - in fact the best thing to do is prob just to wait for AF and take your cue from there..

Hmm Ive been thinking about lunaception but am I right in thinking its only really useful if you dont always ovulate, or ovulate late in the cycle??

So I had my first acupuncture appt today -very interesting experience! For some reason the needles in my right foot were really painful, the ones she stuck in my ovaries may as well have not been there! What does that say I wonder? SHould have asked.

One interesting thing she did say was that my body temps are generally quite low, and it may be that that may affect my ability to conceive.. i usually only reach 35.9-36.4 pre ovulation..

Am feeling low on energy now, supposedly thats an effect of acupuncture so it must be doing something!

clearing_out_my_pockets

QQuaver wrote: »

Team Sticky!
CD4 COMP - Awaiting ov

Sorry to be a pain QQ, but I'm CD5 today