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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • lilymay1
    lilymay1 Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    BB - if its any help, i text family and friends after my daughter died because i couldn't face speaking to anyone. The only person i wanted near me was my husband because he was the only one who had lost what I had. That said, i did specifically say that i didn't want peoeple to reply to the text and that it was just to let them know what had happened.

    Do you have any mutual friends that may know? Hope you get it sorted :(
    14th October 2010
    20th October 2011
    3rd December 2013
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    BB - so sorry to hear that. I hope you manage to work out who it's from. Do you have mutual friends for your pg friends you can speak to? A horrible thing for anyone to go through, hugs to you and your friend.

    Feel a bit naughty today as am supposed to be working from home (feel and look c.r.a.p so haven't made it to work) but am totally just watching daytime tv with my feet up. I get used to not working far too easily, haven't been in the office since friday and now can't imagine ever going back there lol.
  • *BigBird*
    *BigBird* Posts: 1,000 Forumite
    Thanks for the suggestions all. I managed to work out who it was. So sad, they'd only announced the pregnancy a couple of weeks ago :( So I am sitting here sniffling into my hanky now. I've never had a mc and really don't know how those of you who have manage to cope. This is actually the first friend to have a mc since I've had a child myself, and I don't think I ever really appreciated how traumatic it must be when I had never been pregnant.
    You can do anything, make anything, dream anything. If you change the world, the world will change.
  • zcrat41
    zcrat41 Posts: 1,799 Forumite
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    That's really sad BB.

    Welcome to the newbies - Olliesmum and I think I missed one other.

    Hugs to skintchick.

    Make use of that High on CBFM Primmer!

    I thought I was back to healthy again but this morning I woke up with the itchiest skin in the world and 2 eyes that looked like I'd gone 5 rounds with Mike Tyson. Weird as I never get ill or hayfever or anything. Think it must be something to do with liles we've got in the house at the moment. Not happy if it is cos Lily was my 1st choice for a baby girl but I'd have to change that if I've started getting allergic to them.

    Love the idea of picking up a pregnancy. Personally though, I think I'd even skip the Tesco finest and buy Waitrose. I love that place. I feel nice about the world in there.

    Day 18 and still a low on CBFM for me. Looks like I won't ov this month now as I only have a 28 day cycle. It's still asking for tests - should I still do them or give up till next cycle do you reckon?
  • mrsj28
    mrsj28 Posts: 1,287 Forumite
    zcrat41 wrote: »
    That's really sad BB.

    Welcome to the newbies - Olliesmum and I think I missed one other.

    Hugs to skintchick.

    Make use of that High on CBFM Primmer!

    I thought I was back to healthy again but this morning I woke up with the itchiest skin in the world and 2 eyes that looked like I'd gone 5 rounds with Mike Tyson. Weird as I never get ill or hayfever or anything. Think it must be something to do with liles we've got in the house at the moment. Not happy if it is cos Lily was my 1st choice for a baby girl but I'd have to change that if I've started getting allergic to them.

    Love the idea of picking up a pregnancy. Personally though, I think I'd even skip the Tesco finest and buy Waitrose. I love that place. I feel nice about the world in there.

    Day 18 and still a low on CBFM for me. Looks like I won't ov this month now as I only have a 28 day cycle. It's still asking for tests - should I still do them or give up till next cycle do you reckon?

    I thought about that as soon as I'd written the post - Waitrose would definitely be my shop of choice!!

    I'd keep testing as you might OV late this cycle - is there anything that could have delayed it (stress, illness, etc?).
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    If I could buy a pregnancy I'd go all out and visit Harrods.
  • zcrat41
    zcrat41 Posts: 1,799 Forumite
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    I've been more ill this month than I have been in my whole life! I had a bout of food poisoning followed by wisdom teeth being pulled out then they got infected - so I do think my body is rebelling a bit!

    Think I'll try for a few more days and then give in.
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    :j:j:jCongratulations BezzyK!:j:j:j
    BFP BFP BFP BFP BFP!
    smiley_pregnant.gifsmiley_pregnant.gifsmiley_pregnant.gifsmiley_pregnant.gifsmiley_pregnant.gif
  • lilymay1
    lilymay1 Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    I just had a phone conversation with my new boss and now i'm a bit worried about TTC :(

    He basically set down a list of whats expected, my targets etc etc and I can't help but feel he (and the company) would be wholly unimpressed if I were to fall pregnant anytime soon.

    I just don't know what to do. I worked hard for this opportunity and it will so good for me, and for my family, but I want more children sooner rather than later. :(

    P.s - QQ, i LOVE that bfp sticky <3
    14th October 2010
    20th October 2011
    3rd December 2013
  • lilymay1
    lilymay1 Posts: 1,597 Forumite
    Oh, and its CD1 for me too :(
    14th October 2010
    20th October 2011
    3rd December 2013
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