Trying for a Baby Part 7

time2deal

2ba3c wrote: »

I am so FRUSTRATED.

I just want to sit in a corner and kick my feet on the floor and scream with this whole process.

I try to keep up the PMA, but I know exactly what you mean. This has to be the single most frustrating, uncontrollable, unpredictable thing I have ever tried to do. And to NOT be able to do something that it feels like everyone else can only makes it more annoying.

Sorry you are having such a hard time with everything, life isn't fair sometimes.

QQuaver

I won't be here until the 16th, so be good:wave:

Testing list

Sat 10th Mar - Scarly
Mon 12th Mar - TeamLowe
Sat 17th Mar - dundeediva
Fri 23rd Mar - kavics

March graduates- Winners of Feb BFP predictions (9) kavics, Primmer, Birdie, Secretdebts, Twigglett35 & Scarly:T

CherryDrop (23) TTC#1 since 10/11 BFP 09/03/12:j
cmills16 TTC#1 since 11/11 BFP 08/03/12:j


March BFP predictions

MrsHappy - 8
COMP - 9
Vesper - 9
Definitely Blonde - 9
Squ1rrel5 - 9
twigglett35 - 9
QQuaver - 10
Maire - 10
TeamLowe - 10
Birdie - 10
TTC40 - 10
Aida - 10
kavics -11
abis - 11
Primmer - 11
Scarly - 11
Sa-ra-ra-ra - 12
Secretdebts -12 (incl self)
MrsJ28 - 12 (incl self)

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD63 isla_red - 50DPO :cool:
CD49 Sammy_Girl - 36DPO :cool:
CD49 mssas - 34DPO :cool:
CD43 Aida - 25DPO :cool:
CD45 TeamLowe - 20DPO :cool:
CD34 Maire1 - 15DPO :cool:
CD35 scarly* - 15DPO :cool:
CD64 i love holidays - 14DPO :cool:
CD? dibdabb - 14DPO :cool:
CD26 Primmer* - 13DPO :cool:
CD28 dundeediva - 13DPO :cool:
CD33 QQuaver* - 13DPO :cool:
CD33 Bigzippy* - 10DPO :cool:
CD55 GorkyPark - 9DPO :cool:
CD23 Gizmodo - 8DPO :cool:
CD26 kavics17 - 7DPO :cool:
CD19 time2deal - 7DPO :cool:
CD19 mrshappy - 7DPO :cool:
CD25 cleofish - 6DPO :cool:
CD17 lulu - 5DPO :cool:

CD82 mssas - Awaiting ov
CD81 Nephthys - Awaiting ov
CD76 Athina - Awaiting ov
CD66 trixietoes - Awaiting ov
CD62 BargainPrincess - Awaiting ov
CD54 AbFab - Awaiting ov
CD50 countrybum - Awaiting ov
CD40 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov
CD39 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov
CD34 Birdie85* - Awaiting ov
CD34 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov
CD32 Lily_the_Legend - Awaiting ov
CD32 Abis - Awaiting ov
CD30 skintchick - Awaiting ov
CD29 Mrs Toast - Awaiting ov
CD29 Fannyanna - Awaiting ov
CD28 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov
CD26 COMP - Awaiting ov
CD26 Sa-ra-ra-ra - Awaiting ov
CD21 2ba3c - Awaiting ov
CD21 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov
CD20 bigmomma - Awaiting ov
CD20 mrsj28 - Awaiting ov
CD18 littleme - Awaiting ov
CD17 MERFE - Awaiting ov
CD17 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov
CD17 Leopardlady - Awaiting ov
CD17 butterfly72 - Awaiting ov
CD16 vesper - Awaiting ov
CD15 mlbarret - Awaiting ov
CD13 Flee - Awaiting ov
CD13 Natterjack88 - Awaiting ov
CD13 Derby2 - Awaiting ov
CD11 tinkwings - Awaiting ov
CD10 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov
CD10 Tea lover - Awaiting ov
CD8 claire16c - Awaiting ov
CD8 zcrat - Awaiting ov
CD7 TTC40 - Awaiting ov
CD7 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov
CD6 Nicki - Awaiting ov
CD6 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov
CD6 mogwai - Awaiting ov
CD6 Candlewax - Awaiting ov
CD6 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov
CD4 Penguin 83 - Awaiting ov
CD4 dizsiebubba - Awaiting ov
CD2 Squ1rrel5 - Awaiting ov

Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)

bigzippy

QQuaver wrote: »

I won't be here until the 16th, so be good:wave:

Good luck with MIL, QQ - hope you manage to reassure her etc

AFM, my MIL is either facing a highly risky amputation surgery, or going home, to "put her affairs in order" and see out her remaining days Hence why I'm so quiet.

I'm trying not to read too much into sore bo0bs/nips (classic for me in 2ww, regardless), constipation (had too many painkillers for the toothache), and being tired (not slept, because of said toothache), but I want it to mean something so much it hurts


:wave: to all, I'm reading along etc and feel for you guys who are going through it, but haven't got what it takes to string much of a sentence together :cool::o

kavics17

Morning,
Have been awake since 2.30 am hence I'm really shuttered but need to go to work in an hour. OH has left, I feel really emotional.

QQ, of course I will test, what a suggestion:eek::D. Hope all will go well with MIL.

Def Blonde, I would stay put:o. But than don't listen to me, I'm way to careful with money, security, etc.

QQuaver

Thanks everyone, will try my best at MILs:wave:

Aida, if it was a mc, I think you can start TTC right away as it was a very early one (chemical). With later mcs, one is advised not to BD/have bath/swim while bleeding(((hugs))).

Primmer

Aida - will be thinking of you today. If it was a mc then I don't think there is anything to stop you trying straight away. Sending big Hugs to you. Remember we are all here for you.

BZ - so sorry to hear about mil's decisions. Try to take care of yourself. Sending big hugs.

QQ - hope visit to mil goes well and that af holds off so that you don't miss next cycle of ivf.

2b - sending hugs, it's such a frustrating process and seems do unfair when others seem to have no problem. Have to believe that our time will come and it will be worth the wait.

Hugs to anyone else who needs one xxx

mogwai

Definitely_blonde wrote: »

Hello, this isn't really ttc related but it is in a way!

I have a bit of a predicament. I don’t know if you remember but at the start of the year I said there was the chance I was going to made redundant this year, well the time has come.
I have the option to apply for voluntary or to stay and try and keep a job (got a reasonably good chance if I decide I want to stay). So I can take the cash (which is a reasonable amount) and leave towards the end of the year or stay.
The issues I have are
· I don’t really like my current role but I have a good overall package
· If I leave towards the end of the year and am pregnant who else will employ me
· Ideally I would like to go back to work part time and my current employer would be supportive of this, if I leave and am trying to get back into work after a maternity break there aren’t many part time jobs in my field

Friends, family and work colleagues are all giving advice but none of them apart from my Mum know we are ttc. Mum’s response is I’ll support you whatever you decide. Has anyone faced this issue before, what would you do?

Hi DF - Will the amount given to you on leaving be enough to see you through pregnancy and maternity? If so, then take the package and see it as a maternity pay, and start looking when you are ready to go back to work? Also, is your OH stable in his job, and can he support you both if nec?

Ok, my news, since I have never managed to catch ov on an OPK, but had ovulation pains etc, this month Im going to start earlier with the OPK - at CD10.

Also, my aptimist came this morning (royal jelly plus pollen and propolis). I had a spoonful yesterday and it was quite strong tasting so am sat here this morning with a spoonful spread on toast, and its not too different from honey, just has a smokier taste.

Good luck with mil QQ - she is lucky to have such a devoted d-il as you!
:T

abis21

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FF put its lines on at last and said I am 3DPO today

Had a big temp shift this morning. Eeekkkk. Sooooo happy. Didn't think it was gonna happen at all. DTD this morning after the temp shift, but had some swimmers in there already hopefully too.

Just need them to meet eggy, fertilise eggy, eggy to implant and we're away. What could go wrong now, lol :rotfl::rotfl:

Feeling so much happier today. Really pleased I went to the docs yesterday as I had been putting that off for such a long time. Feel like a weight has been lifted with that one.

Aida - I hope that you get some answers today. Its awful being in limbo, but like you say once you know whats happened you can then celebrate or start again. Will be thinking of you.

QQ, hope all goes well with MIL and hope AF stays away for you for the right amount of time.

Kavics - hugs for OH being away. Hopefully he will be coming back to some good news

Bigzippy - hope you are ok. Must be very hard having to help someone with decisions like that. Big hugs.

Definately blonde - what is your instinct telling you to do? Have you written all the pros and cons down on a piece of paper? I find it easier once it is written down, as that helps all the thoughts stop whizzing round my head.

Hope everybody else is ok.

loulou123

Hi everyone.

Hugs to everyone who needs them.

My weird symptoms still cont...AF has definately gone, after 2 days max, but I keep getting twinges/cramps in my tummy and I'm SO tired - fall asleep by 9pm and I'm normally a evening person also got lots of clear discharge (sorry for tmi!)

But I don't think I can be pregnant, as test was negative, and AF was fairly heavy for the one day...so confused, think I'll have to get another test just to make sure.