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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • abis21
    abis21 Posts: 1,120 Forumite
    Congratulations Snowy :j:j:j

    I'm still feeling very sad and sorry for myself :o

    No more spotting, and to be fair it was only very light spotting yesterday. I had come to the point where I wasn't dreading going to the loo and finding anything tho, so it was such a shock.

    Did my first response test this morning just in case and BFN :( May as well accept that it isn't going to change this month :o

    It isn't like AF is in full force so I don't feel like I can draw a line under this cycle yet - altho all my hope has now gone :o I still won't be able to bring myself to have a drink tonight 'just in case tho'. Sometimes I wish I wasn't so optimistic about everything as I feel like I have further to fall.

    And now the thinking ahead side of me is thinking I will have no idea what to do next month. I have had a 31 day cycle (started spotting on this cycle on CD28), a 32 day cycle and this one is now a 38+ cycle seeing as spotting has only just started. So I'm now all over the shop with everything and worried that I won't even know when or what to do for the best next month. I know I am just meant to relax and enjoy BDing etc, but I just don't want to miss opportunities and delay having a baby further than we are.

    Fraid I haven't got much of a PMA list today. Everything just seems gloomy in my head at the mo :(:(
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  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    Oh no, seems very gloomy on here today:(. Apart from snowy of course - what fabulous news!!:j Another bfp to add to the list, is that 4 for this month now or have I missed anyone?

    Still no sign of AF but definitely on the way. I'm spotty, my tummy feels weird and I completely bit OH's head off about a fishcake :o. If it's coming I'd rather it just got on with it now, not least as I'm now at the point where I'm too nervous to DTD in case it turns up in the middle.

    Bit of snow here but managed to get home before the worst of it thank goodness. Our road was slippy this morning but the main roads are ok, so should be able to get to the hospital if my dad's able to come home today. Fingers crossed for him!
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Snowy - congrats on the BFP :j wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy
  • Primmer
    Primmer Posts: 2,187 Forumite
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    Zcrat and Birdie - hugs for af

    Tealover - glad you got home ok and hope you dad can leave hospital day.

    Hugs to all who are struggling at moment
  • sexymouse
    sexymouse Posts: 6,131 Forumite
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    Hugs for all feeling down today.

    Congratulations to snowy - have a happy and healthy pregnancy and birth!
    Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things.
    I married Moon 8/4/2011, baby boy born 26/9/2012, Angel Baby Poppy born 8/11/15, Rainbow baby boy born 11/2/2017
  • Flee_2
    Flee_2 Posts: 770 Forumite
    Hugs to everyone.
    TBH I have been ttcing since last August and it is disappointing each month when nothing happens. You feel so positive each month will be your month. I have 2 children and it took less than 6 months to get pregnant with them (one month for my second child) and I don't understand why it is taking so long apart from the fact I have a different partner.
    BUT I was on the pill and this has messed my body up and I think my body is only just starting to recover. So don't give up hope just keep trying. Getting pregnant is like winning something, it is not a certainty that it will happen immediately.

    Congratulations snowy.
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  • tinkwings
    tinkwings Posts: 3,288 Forumite
    Huge Congrats to Snowyz :j Wishing you a happy & healthy PG :D

    So cd5 today and I am getting my PMA back. I want another forever baby, I am a good person and I have the right to try for a baby just the same as everyone else. :o;):p:)

    DH & I had long talk and have decided that another baby is in our future so that is the plan. :T
    If you can think it........it will happen
  • MERFE
    MERFE Posts: 2,133 Forumite
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    congratulations snowyz xx
  • scarly
    scarly Posts: 112 Forumite
    Massive congrats snowyz! Hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy :)

    Also, big ((hugs)) to all the ladies on CD1/CD2 today, I feel your pain (literally...)

    xxx
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    *TTC #1 March 2011*
  • Congratulations to Snowy!!!!

    Cd1 for me - let the clear blue trial commence. Pma list to follow later when I've found some :o
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