Depression

Tiff_2

CCStar wrote:

Thank you

I don't know, my nails aren't that strong so maybe it's all going into my hair. I use a conditioning shampoo and spray on the blow dry lotion to protect it.

Funny only a couple of others have commented, oh well I'll remove them, no-one else obviously bothered about who I am:(

Some are still there, I thought me removing them would remove them all - I don't want them on there now. Can you please edit and remove them Rose. Thank you

I'll just slink away unnoticed...

Hi cc!
There's no need for that hun!

I was about to post that it's been nice to have a little bit of fun on the board... shut me up!:o

It's not a blinking beauty contest angel! (Thank God!:o ) I thought it was just meant as a 'hi - this is me - names to faces' sort of thing.

I thought I had complimented you individually hun. I certainly complimented - and was sincere - all the photos already posted. You said yourself about your modelling - surely you know that you look lovely hun!;)

Also, surely you know by now that you're among friends cc hun? Please don't read things into something that's not there angel.;)
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

afternoon everyone.. I am soooooooo flippin fed up!!

Daughter is being sent home.. which means that her place in the hospital is severely jeopardised, which means its likely that she'll be home for good now, which effectively means my life is over.

I dunno whether to cry, scream or throw meself out the window

I'm so sorry to hear that hun. Her care team must be under obligation to find her an alternative? You cannot cope with that yourself.

Big hugs,
Sazxxx

Horasio

Tiff wrote:

Hi cc!
There's no need for that hun!

I was about to post that it's been nice to have a little bit of fun on the board... shut me up!:o

It's not a blinking beauty contest angel! (Thank God!:o ) I thought it was just meant as a 'hi - this is me - names to faces' sort of thing.

I thought I had complimented you individually hun. I certainly complimented - and was sincere - all the photos already posted. You said yourself about your modelling - surely you know that you look lovely hun!;)

Also, surely you know by now that you're among friends cc hun? Please don't read things into something that's not there angel.;)
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

I am referring to the ones who didn't comment - like I am invisible or something. I have been treated like trash this weekend from one source or another in the real world and thought I might have had some appreciation on here. Thank you for your nice comments:)

Oh well, if I am not acknowledged by people I thought cared, then I will be invisible. I might as well died last Wednesday for all the trashy treatment I have to endure from people (not you or some of the people who I feel are mates on here)

It took courage to post them and feel no-one even noticed I put them up.

I know there are people who are having a really rough time of it all, and not getting into a contest about who is having it worse than each other scenario, but I feel I am getting treated like trash by people in general and I get very sore about it. It is getting me down with the house selling and the crazy people I have to deal with, my family not being really caring enough for my needs and the general feeling of mega frustration at life! It is like Chinese water torture, more constant and more depressing.

Like I say, there is a very urgent case on this thread just now, I had one of my wobblies which is all related to my childhood and the emotional abuse I received from so called mates then, hence my wobblies on here when I feel scared.

It was nice to see you all btw.

Horasio

EthelBloggs wrote:

afternoon everyone.. I am soooooooo flippin fed up!!

Daughter is being sent home.. which means that her place in the hospital is severely jeopardised, which means its likely that she'll be home for good now, which effectively means my life is over.

I dunno whether to cry, scream or throw meself out the window

From what you have said about her behaviour before, she sounds a danger to herself and others (namely you)

EthelBloggs

Sazbo wrote:

I'm so sorry to hear that hun. Her care team must be under obligation to find her an alternative? You cannot cope with that yourself.

Big hugs,
Sazxxx

Apparently there IS no alternative.. social services have already stated that there isn't any othre place geared up to deal with her condition so all she'll get is a bit of community support.. !!!!!! am I gonna do?

EthelBloggs

razorbladekisses wrote:

Oh Ethel hun. Why have they decided to send her home?

Apparently she was messing about on the stairs with 2 other patients and when she was asked what was going on she gave a wishy washy answer.. !!!!!! sort of reason is that??

EthelBloggs

CCStar wrote:

From what you have said about her behaviour before, she sounds a danger to herself and others (namely you)

She is very dangerous, both to herself and to me and her brother and even her grandma if we're not careful, in fact to anyone who dares to contradict her.

I'm really dreading the future now.

Btw CC you look lovely in your pics and your hair is amazing.. you'll have to share your tips with us

Tiff_2

EthelBloggs wrote:

afternoon everyone.. I am soooooooo flippin fed up!!

Daughter is being sent home.. which means that her place in the hospital is severely jeopardised, which means its likely that she'll be home for good now, which effectively means my life is over.

I dunno whether to cry, scream or throw meself out the window

Hi ethel hun!
Omg - they've done it you again!
Ok hunnie - actions!;)
Oh hun, I'm sooo sorry. Well hun, I think you've given them all the chances you can. You can't put yourself, your DS or DD at risk like this can you?
I hope you don't mind but I've just done a Tiff letter. Sorry if I've done the wrong thing angel, but they need to sit up and be serious about helping you. I hope you're not upset with me angel. This is just a suggestion hun as we discussed before.

- Tomorrow a.m., take DD and a suitcase to social services ethel with Tiff letter as follows...copies to everyone involved with DD angel.

Dear Sir/Madam,

I am hereby formally requesting that you take ...DD... into protective care for the safety of herself and other family members.

Inspite of countless professional meetings, with the most recent only being last week, both the social and medical teams have failed to provide safe and effective care for my DD.

It is heartbreaking for me to be in this position, but I have to take the care of my younger DS into account and I have no other choice. He has sustained injuries from regular assaults by DS and has to stay in alternative accommodation sometimes, just so that he is safe.

In addition, DS also assaults me regularly, destroys the belongings in the house and last week, she even started a fire in the home. I am in poor health myself and close to a breakdown. The police and A&E interventions have not been successful. Their facilities are inadequate for my daughter's needs.

DD is unable to maintain the requirements to stay at the clinic she now attends and is regularly sent home, sometimes without medication. This indicates that her needs are not being met and that this placement is not suitable for her.

My DD needs the appropriate help which has so far been unavailable to her. I hope you can understand that as a mother, this is something I really didn't want to do, but I have no other choice.

My DD needs to be accommodated for her own safety, probably in a centre where they can provide high and continuous support. I love her dearly and feel that this is in her best interests because I would not forgive myself if she succeeded in her numerous suicide attempts. I feel I would be negligent to both of my children if I don't follow this course of action.

Therefore, I formally request and require, that you look after my DD, to ensure her own safety and that of others around her.

Yours sincerely,
ethel

Does this help hun?

Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Pink_butterfly_3

Hi all!

Its this threads resident stalker here, lol!!!

I just wanted to thank everyone for their kind words to my post last week! It made me feel loads better xxxx

I love seeing everyones photos!! You all look so different to what i would imagine!

EthelBloggs

Tiff wrote:

Hi ethel hun!
Omg - they've done it you again!
Ok hunnie - actions!;)


Does this help hun?

Much Love,
Tiff xxx

This is a big help tiffy.. I shall do it.... we've got an appt with someone from the CAB tomorrow morning, regarding DLA, I might ask her if she knows of anything we can do too xxxx