Depression

Horasio

EthelBloggs wrote:

She is very dangerous, both to herself and to me and her brother and even her grandma if we're not careful, in fact to anyone who dares to contradict her.

I'm really dreading the future now.

Btw CC you look lovely in your pics and your hair is amazing.. you'll have to share your tips with us

I am very concerned about this Ethel, you are all at risk.

I wish I knew what to say that could help you practically, why are they sending her home.

I worked in a hospital and they tend to sedate any aggressive patients and keep them in the ward, leave alone discharge them into the outside world.

It sounds barbaric but there sounds to be an imbalance and I don't understand why she is being admitted then released. I don't know her history and why she is acting this way but I hope I'm not talking out of turn here, when I was younger and had very imbalanced hormones, I was inclined to be aggressive but managed to keep it within my 4 walls and tended to shout. I was wondering if it was related to hormone imbalance? Did this behaviour start around puberty? I ask this as I had my bits out and feel a whole lot better for it. Some women cannot tolerate certain hormones and being on the pill sent me over the edge.

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

This is a big help tiffy.. I shall do it.... we've got an appt with someone from the CAB tomorrow morning, regarding DLA, I might ask her if she knows of anything we can do too xxxx

Good plan hun. Got everything crossed for you. Someone else on here also suggested having a word with your MP? Forgive me I can't remember who now, but I think that might be worth doing too.

Sazbomberxxx

EthelBloggs

CCStar wrote:

I am very concerned about this Ethel, you are all at risk.

I wish I knew what to say that could help you practically, why are they sending her home.

I worked in a hospital and they tend to sedate any aggressive patients and keep them in the ward, leave alone discharge them into the outside world.

It sounds barbaric but there sounds to be an imbalance and I don't understand why she is being admitted then released. I don't know her history and why she is acting this way but I hope I'm not talking out of turn here, when I was younger and had very imbalanced hormones, I was inclined to be aggressive but managed to keep it within my 4 walls and tended to shout. I was wondering if it was related to hormone imbalance? Did this behaviour start around puberty? I ask this as I had my bits out and feel a whole lot better for it. Some women cannot tolerate certain hormones and being on the pill sent me over the edge.

yeah CC.. I wonder about her hormones too, she's 16 and just started getting periods, which are very heavy and every 2 weeks... but she had some tests and an ultrasound an they said it's all fine

She's also sposed to have an eeg at some point but she needs to go 7 days without meds for it to be accurate and so far that hasn't happened soo..

Apparenlty they've mentioned putting her on diazepam and risperidone, not sre what they are, gonna ahve to check and see..

EthelBloggs

Sazbo wrote:

Good plan hun. Got everything crossed for you. Someone else on here also suggested having a word with your MP? Forgive me I can't remember who now, but I think that might be worth doing too.

Sazbomberxxx

yup, funnily enuff I got a letter off him the other day begging for a vote soo.. it should have his contact details on it if i havent' binned it, lol xxxxxxxxxx

learning_to_drive

Apologies for not posting much recently folks, been busy with social and sleeping, my back is still bad

Lovely pics all of you, really nice to see everyone, we are like a family on here, and it means a lot that everyone has posted their picture, theres a mega post coming

Let_Robinson_Sing

Ethel darling. I am really sorry about this situation. Definitly have a word with your local MP and definitly speak to Social services. good luck

love xx

Sugar_Coated_Owl

Ethel (((HUGS)))

Tiff, that letter was really well written. Lets hope it helps Ethel and her daughter.

Diazepam is for anxiety and Risperidone is an anti-psychotic.

Let_Robinson_Sing

learning_to_drive wrote:

Apologies for not posting much recently folks, been busy with social and sleeping, my back is still bad

Lovely pics all of you, really nice to see everyone, we are like a family on here, and it means a lot that everyone has posted their picture, theres a mega post coming

have you been to the doctors about your back yet? if so what have they given?
its great that everyone has posted there pics :T so well done everybody.

I also remember you mentioning that you are Bradford fan is that right? if so how do rate their chances of survival this season?

also LTD i am looking forward to reading the 'mega post' :cool:

Tiff_2

EthelBloggs wrote:

Apparently there IS no alternative.. social services have already stated that there isn't any othre place geared up to deal with her condition so all she'll get is a bit of community support.. !!!!!! am I gonna do?

Oh yes there is hun!
Just been down into the Tiff archives.....

Hi Ethel hun,
From MIND…
In an emergency
If you feel someone is in real danger of suicide, has a mental health problem and will not approach anyone for help, you may think about contacting social services. Under the Mental Health Act 1983, a person can be treated without their consent. This is, inevitably, a heavy responsibility.
Addressing the underlying problems
Surviving or diffusing a suicidal crisis is one thing, solving the underlying problems is another. The difficulties that nurture despair are usually complex and don’t vanish quickly. It’s essential to address them, however, or suicidal feelings may well return.
Look after yourself
If you are in a close relationship with someone who has suicidal thoughts, you are likely to feel fearful, angry or guilty. You will need to find someone – whether a friend, family member, a professional, or a carers' support group – in whom you can confide your fears. Compile your own support list.
From Papyrus
HOPELineUK
HOPELineUK is a PAPYRUS telephone service providing support, information and practical advice to anyone concerned that a young person they know may be at risk of suicide. Phone 0870 170 4000

HOPELineUK will be launched on 9th September 2005 and will be staffed by trained professionals who can discuss your needs in coping with someone who is feeling suicidal.

Our staff have access to a comprehensive database and can give you contact details of other sources of help should they be required.

The helpline is open on weekday evenings from 7pm - 10pm and during the weekends from 2pm - 5pm.

We also operate a callback service.


SaneLine is a national, out-of-hours telephone help-line for anyone coping with mental illness. Their lines are open from 1pm - 11pm every day of the year. Phone: 0845 767 8000 (local call rate). www.sane.org.uk


Does this help hun? There's much more.;) You don't even have to wait until the a.m hun.
I am a seriously ticked off Tiff! No more Ms. Nice Cat!!!
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

EthelBloggs

I just phoned to see what time she'd be home, and she's taken an overdose and going into A&E so.......... I can't get to the hospital where she is cos it's in another county and i dont have a car.

She's taken

Lorazepan
Olanzepine
Diclofenac/Voltarol
codrydamol? (sp)
paracetamol
an antihistamine.. forgot the name
an anti reflux thing.. forgot the name

about 20-30 of each, seems she's been saving them up