Depression

Sazbo

CCStar wrote:

Why would he feel anxious about me - yes I had health problems in our early days and he wasn't a bit understanding.

He says he cares but when it comes down to it, he turns on me

No not anxious about you, I meant a problem on his side that's affecting his confidence, maybe something he might find difficult discussing?

EthelBloggs

I dunno.. maybe men are the same as women in that they need to feel safe and secure for intimacy to be good? I know in some ways you and he have had a troubled relationship so it could be part of that?

On the other hand, some men just don't want much in that dept.. and sometimes after a few years... things get a bit shabby and need 'perking up' you know.. sexy undies, bit of role play... pinning him down on the kitchen table.. I'm not taking the mickey in case you thought that, I'm being serious!

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

I spose if its the difference between her having permanent damage to her eyes or not.. it's worth it isn't it?

I had an electric shower put in last year.... it's wonderful although I did buy the wrong type and will probly have to replace it at some point, lol

I'm having a cuppa too.. cleaner is here..that woman is a saint!

Oh totally worth it of course. Just hope it gets sorted.

Yeah have been wanting an electric shower for ages. Won't be cheap as have to pay for plumber and electrician, but will def. be worth it I reckon.

EthelBloggs

it wasn't too bad for me, the cold water tank is right beside the bathroom so he just just poked a bit of pipe thru the wall.. b/f ran a wire from the meter i think..... its not big work so dont let them rip you off!

geminilady

rose07 wrote:

TIFF





and for you and the rest of the gang



thinking of yas

just going through a bad time meself atm

just had some very upsetting news too

shame no one about lol

take care all

sweet dreams, hope you can sleep

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Hi,Rose Sorry you are going through a bad time and there was nobody about last night.Hope you are fealing a little better today.Although there maynot be someone on every hour off the day we all read the thread so please post if it helps and i am sure someone will reply.Thinking of you.(((hug)))

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

it wasn't too bad for me, the cold water tank is right beside the bathroom so he just just poked a bit of pipe thru the wall.. b/f ran a wire from the meter i think..... its not big work so dont let them rip you off!

lol ok I'll try not to! It needs to be run off a separate 30 amp thingumy... that's technical jargon innit! :rotfl:

EthelBloggs

yup... 40 is better if u can get one, just gives it a bit more power or sommat - plus in our case the fuse kept blowing so we had to change it.

EthelBloggs

Hiya GL!!

How's you?

Horasio

Had a chat with OH about my feelings

I am haunted by our past, he was horrible to me then and think it will happen again. He is feeling much better now and being much nicer about things, and told him that is what it was. It still takes a while to get the trust back tho'.

I also have a cold this just now and affects me badly in the mornings.

Horasio

learning_to_drive wrote:

Oh an ive gotta get a new mattress cos mine at the minute has sort of got a dent in it where the spring has gone, probably not helping my back.

What type are you getting?