Depression

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Morning guys, quiet pint with a two mates of mine last night, came in and told us that he was splitting with his wife, we were stunned.

We went out and had a few shandies put it that way, not excessive, steady away, no more booze for me for a while now, ive had my blow out after all my issues and im content now. Settling down with the girl and the kid at the min (ppl may be surprised but im not overly fussed!!!) so spending more time wi her, plus i still feel ill.

Had a bit of a row wi mum, kicking off cos she said "i had to go to work etc" which I knew but my back is hurting again, disaster. Just cant be bothered, bit !!!!ed off cos none of my jobs have come off either.

Im always feeling ill at the minute, constantly tired, full of cold / snot etc and generally just nights i dont mind but its the lack of life that really gets to me.

Im slowing my spending right down now, as Ive said Ive had a good few nights out recently but the money isnt there really because its going out to pay debts off etc so in reality I dont have too much!

Just a bit at the minute, Morrisons may have a job on days for me, depends, I need to ring them really.

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Oh an ive gotta get a new mattress cos mine at the minute has sort of got a dent in it where the spring has gone, probably not helping my back.

EthelBloggs

Sazbo wrote:

Morning everyone :hello: Got a guy here seeing to me water works....... :rotfl:

Hope you're feeling a bit better today Tiff and thanks for the good wishes re counselling.

Love to you all. Have a good day,
Sazzyxxxx

ooooh errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr misssis!! lol

you might need the counsellor later to help you get over the shock of having ur waterworks seen to... *runs off*

I am soo bloody knackered!!!!!! every bloody hour all night... fell asleep in the chair about 5ish so I'm all stiff and bleughhh now, lol

Horasio

I have got this really delicate problem which has bugged me for years.

I don't feel desired by my OH - we have been getting along well but when I am in the mood/feel loving and think he is too, he turns me down 9 times out of 10 and not very nicely. I haven't approached him since he has felt better this week but I am scared to. I go back to how he used to be towards me when I felt this way.

It is making me feel sad, I am scared to get intimate with him. I never had this problem before I was with him, so I swear it is him but it does my head in and has bought me down big time in the past. Why is the man I am married to causing me this anguish and why was it no problem before we got married?

Before anyone accuses me of getting in a laver about it, it has happened several times which has got me to this conditioned state of expecting to be rejected each time I feel close to him.

Do men only want women they aren't attached to?

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

ooooh errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr misssis!! lol

you might need the counsellor later to help you get over the shock of having ur waterworks seen to... *runs off*

:rotfl: Yeah ok, it's a rare event, granted! You're just jealous hun!:D

EthelBloggs wrote:

I am soo bloody knackered!!!!!! every bloody hour all night... fell asleep in the chair about 5ish so I'm all stiff and bleughhh now, lol

Can you take a nap later?

Sazbomberxxx

Sazbo

CCStar wrote:

I have got this really delicate problem which has bugged me for years.

I don't feel desired by my OH - we have been getting along well but when I am in the mood/feel loving and think he is too, he turns me down 9 times out of 10 and not very nicely. I haven't approached him since he has felt better this week but I am scared to. I go back to how he used to be towards me when I felt this way.

It is making me feel sad, I am scared to get intimate with him. I never had this problem before I was with him, so I swear it is him but it does my head in and has bought me down big time in the past. Why is the man I am married to causing me this anguish and why was it no problem before we got married?

Before anyone accuses me of getting in a laver about it, it has happened several times which has got me to this conditioned state of expecting to be rejected each time I feel close to him.

Do men only want women they aren't attached to?

I wouldn't say so. Might there be an issue on his side that's causing him anxiety CC? Which results in him pushing you away? Just me thinking out loud, is a bit difficult to say being outside the situation. Maybe something affecting his confidence? Sx

EthelBloggs

Sazbo wrote:

:rotfl: Yeah ok, it's a rare event, granted! You're just jealous hun!:D



Can you take a nap later?

Sazbomberxxx

lol.. uh huh.... just lately it's been a rare event for it not to happen.. having a bit of a rest this week with him being away, lol

I dunno bout the nap.. the drops are every hour until tomorrow morning

you at work now saz? xxxxxxxxxx

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

lol.. uh huh.... just lately it's been a rare event for it not to happen.. having a bit of a rest this week with him being away, lol

I dunno bout the nap.. the drops are every hour until tomorrow morning

you at work now saz? xxxxxxxxxx

Yeah, at work now, oh joy:rolleyes: Feel knackered, but not half as knackered as you, I bet. That does seem unreasonable, expecting people to go without sleep for two days doing those drops?

Am pleased with their work, might have them put in an electric shower for me.

Having me cuppa now:)
Sx

EthelBloggs

I spose if its the difference between her having permanent damage to her eyes or not.. it's worth it isn't it?

I had an electric shower put in last year.... it's wonderful although I did buy the wrong type and will probly have to replace it at some point, lol

I'm having a cuppa too.. cleaner is here..that woman is a saint!

Horasio

Sazbo wrote:

I wouldn't say so. Might there be an issue on his side that's causing him anxiety CC? Which results in him pushing you away? Just me thinking out loud, is a bit difficult to say being outside the situation. Maybe something affecting his confidence? Sx

Why would he feel anxious about me - yes I had health problems in our early days and he wasn't a bit understanding.

He says he cares but when it comes down to it, he used to turn on me