Depression

Sazbo

queensway_boy wrote:

Big HUggy WUggy's to all this monday morning

Thanks qb - appreciate it!

Sazxx

Sazbo

Lexi321 wrote:

Morning all. Hugs to all whether they need or want them or not because I feel like hugging somone and I've no one to hug

Woke up from another weird dream (There were two blind people walking down the road, and one dropped her coat, I went and picked it up and took it to her, and someone started telling me off for it as if I was making fun of her being blind or something, then the next thing I knew I was delivering her baby, or about to) then my alarm went and I dragged myself out of bed, rang up to find out what time mentor wanted me in, she said just come at 12ish. Back to bed I think for me today. Has anyone got any exciting plans?

Morning Lexi :hello:

Nothing exciting planned today, apart from another thrilling day at the office:rolleyes: and counselling tonight. Don't worry, I'm always a grateful recipient for hugs:D Take care, Sazxx

Sazbo

tevangelynne wrote:

thx you tiff i was meant to start a little cleaning job this morning but couldnt go im in tears again and just managed to get kids to school ..i do work full time.. he has done thios before and it affected me really bad last time and i went to see the doc and he gave me anti dep but i didnt take them .

i keep thinking thinking that if he just wanted to go he would just take his stuff and go he knows that im out in morning for at least an hour on school run so he could of taken his stuff he doesnt have that much to take .

he said he wont talk to anyone or go to doc and i said would u rather destroy our marriage than go to doc he said yes,

in bed loast nite he said he feels even worse he feels guilty about being here because of all the things he has said .. but he said h meant what he said .. i cant keep him here so should i just let him go .
thx you to everyone who has taken the time to reply to me if i didnt have my girls to think about i would just want to go to sleep and never wake up but they wouldnt be ok without me would they

tevangelynne, tiffy's right. From what you say, it sounds like he doesn't know what he wants to do, everything's hurting so much. Right now it's probably good to try and keep the communication channel open, keep him talking, try and tease out the various issues. Do see the doc yourself hun, you don't need to struggle on your own. You want things to get better; you're a fighter. Hang in there, we're all here for you. Take care, Sazxx

Sazbo

Tiff wrote:

Good morning guys!:hello:
I hope we all made it through the weekend safe and sound. Got a lot of post to read - you have been busy little beavers!;)
I hope you can all find even just a few minutes, to remember how unique and special you are. No-one can take that away from you. It can really help during those low times when you feel the opposite, if you can try and remember that you are special and that the bad times will pass.
Anyhoo, have a great week everyone! Take care.
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Bless your heart tiff. How's things with you? How's your mum getting on at home? You have a good week too, hun. Thanks for the uplifting message. Much love, Sazxxx

stenny_2

Morning Everyone,

I have overslept again, must get cracking on.
Have a fab day, and big huggzzzzz to all!

Sazbo

learning_to_drive wrote:

Hi guys, big hellos to the team here! PP, Tiff, feelie, CC, szabo etc etc etc

off work tonight, got a swap, couple of interviews this week too so my journey goes onto days! With a bit of luck Uni in September, I've had to seriously look at myself, where Im going, what my ambitions are after all that has happened. Im indebted to my folks for sorting out my loan. So I have a good plan to follow from now on.

I think back to some of my posts on here, I reached a low low point, but whilst everything fell down in one go, everything fell into place when I was getting back up, with regards to the loan, then the car sale (just finance pending now), couple of job interviews too coming up.

I like ASDA, but it was only ever a stopgap, whilst I sorted out my issues, which ive now done, i could have had the best job in the world but I wasnt in the right frame of mind for anything, so my problems were just mounting because I didnt know what the specific issue was.

Keep the faith though guys, its very very hard at times, but there is a light at the end of a tunnel.

Hi LTD - always love to hear positive news from one of our gang! :T Keep us posted how the job interviews go. Sazx

Sazbo

stenny wrote:

Morning Everyone,

I have overslept again, must get cracking on.
Have a fab day, and big huggzzzzz to all!

Morning stenny hun! :hello: Think you'd better make a start on painting my living room...... :D:D

Sazzyxxx

stenny_2

Sazbo wrote:

Morning stenny hun! :hello: Think you'd better make a start on painting my living room...... :D:D

Sazzyxxx

Can you wait till i've done in here 1st, still stairs to finish and got 11 ceilings to do then got mums tiles to put up, then got a job on, awwwww and ethel, you'll be waiting a while to.

Sazbo

EthelBloggs wrote:

howdy peeps

Big welcome huggs to the newcomers

Sorry I've not been around... been a bit of a hectic weekend what with one thing and another but it HAS been the unstressiest weekend i've had in a long time I even slept!!!!!!

Daughter was a delight.. which is a breakthru in itself.. she hasn't done anything to damage herself since last week.. seems something finally clicked and she was a real pleasure to have around

(_|_) was away all weekend, back tomorrow and even he seems to have turned a corner... we shall see...

My arm seems to be starting to feel better and I've started taking omega 3 and vitamin d supplements.. not ted's ones but some i got from holland n barrett ages ago and never bothered taking.. not sure how long they take to work but I do feel a bit better.

megahuggs to everyone.. and erm.. stenny.. when you've time.. could you come down to london and makeover a 3 bed 3 storey townhouse pls

Ethel!!! :j :j Thanks for posting hun - I was also starting to worry a little:) Well, you were long overdue an unstressy weekend, and I hope it continues that way for you, you've had enough to deal with of late. Did you get things sorted at college? Post again soon, we missed ya!

Oh, re Stenny - 'fraid you'll have to wait, he's doing my place at the minute:D:D

Much love,
Sazbombxxx

Sazbo

stenny wrote:

Can you wait till i've done in here 1st, still stairs to finish and got 11 ceilings to do then got mums tiles to put up, then got a job on, awwwww and ethel, you'll be waiting a while to.

Me and ethel pay really good :rotfl:

Sazx