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Silly Dating Q

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  • Teddy_KGB
    Teddy_KGB Posts: 67 Forumite
    ItchyFeet wrote: »
    I'm so angry. I feel like i've just fed his ego by ringing him.

    Don't let it bother you, you did nothing wrong! Just don't it put you off asking a bloke out in future.
  • SandC
    SandC Posts: 3,929 Forumite
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    Holy crap, now that I wasn't expecting! :mad:

    But hey, just goes to show how you should listen to your gut instinct, cos you just had that feeling about him being married or attached didn't you?
  • Look on the bright side, at least he was honest enough to let you know he was married.

    Still sucks though
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    ItchyFeet wrote: »
    Well guys, i rang him.

    He said "i hear from (colleague) that you don't like going out with married men".

    I said "no i don't. Are you?"

    Him "Yes i am married. It would still be nice to go for a drink".:eek:

    What a ******* ******! :mad:

    Thank god it never went as far as going out with him. What kind of a person does that? He definately pursued me.
    Married people need sex too y'know :rotfl:

    And there's plenty out there who won't mind giving it. He was honest and upfront about being married, maybe he is a pig towards his wife, but then again, maybe she knows and OK's it.
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    This is so not where I hoped this thread was going :( Thanks for the update though OP, and I am glad you found out now rather than later :p
  • marywooyeah
    marywooyeah Posts: 2,670 Forumite
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    I bet all those 'some people' would be women because I don't know of a bloke who would think that ;)

    the person I quoted said in another thread that women were a "calculating species", it was a reference to that :)
  • the person I quoted said in another thread that women were a "calculating species", it was a reference to that :)

    If by 'calculating' they meant over thinking, I would tend to agree ;)
  • marywooyeah
    marywooyeah Posts: 2,670 Forumite
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    If by 'calculating' they meant over thinking, I would tend to agree ;)
    haha! no he meant calculating as in evil!
  • yvonne13_2
    yvonne13_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
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    Hun, be proud of yourself, you had a feeling he was involved with someone and you were right. You would have found out sooner or later and better it be sooner.

    I respect women like you whom doesn't go out of their way to wreck peoples marriages. The ball was in your court and you slammed in the back of the net.
    It's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun
  • What did you say to him when he told you he was married?! :shocked:

    ... Maybe he just wanted to make friends *rolls eyes*
    Toto, I
    Don't think we're in
    Kansas anymore...


    ~:heart2:~
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