Silly Dating Q

Yoghurt_Pot

lol i would have left a voicemail saying "just wondered if you fancied a drink sometime?" if he calls you back then its all good, if not then at least you tried

ItchyFeet

Maybe this is why i have trouble getting dates - i never have the good ideas at the right time! :rotfl:

VfM4meplse

ItchyFeet wrote: »

God, when it starts to get like this don't you just wonder is it worth the hassle?

I agree, but find that if you date other men in the interim the time passes far more quickly and pleasantly . Make sure your colleague knows that your social life is rosy too, you'll find it filters back quite effectively if he's the nosey blabbermouth he seems to be.

Of course you could always use the old tactic of hiding the excess stock and asking for a stock review .

ItchyFeet

VfM4meplse wrote: »

I agree, but find that if you date other men in the interim the time passes far more quickly and pleasantly . Make sure your colleague knows that your social life is rosy too, you'll find it filters back quite effectively if he's the nosey blabbermouth he seems to be.

Of course you could always use the old tactic of hiding the excess stock and asking for a stock review .

Lol! I think it might be sorted by tomorrow though. By nature i'm quite a direct person (when not held back by shyness) and i think my short amount of patience with the situation will have disappeared by tomorrow. I'm guessing it will either be a shirty phone call to ask if he wants to take me out or not, or will have decided to leave it alone.

VestanPance

It's 2011, just ask the bloke out.

You may be suprised but most guys would be well chuffed if a woman they liked asked them out.

VfM4meplse

ItchyFeet wrote: »

I'm guessing it will either be a shirty phone call to ask if he wants to take me out or not, or will have decided to leave it alone.

Shirty never cuts it, be your usual charming self!

VestanPance wrote: »

It's 2011, just ask the bloke out.

That's not the issue, it is a q of whether he is married or not.

VestanPance wrote: »

You may be suprised but most guys would be well chuffed if a woman they liked asked them out.

Esp if has a wife!

emsywoo123

ItchyFeet wrote: »

:rotfl:Yes, that about sums it up!

Well, i got tired of thinking about it so did ring him when i finished work but it went straight to voicemail so i think it might have to be tomorrow now after all.

What did you do? Leave a message? Hang up? Will it register as a missed call?!

i am such a drama llama, I love threads like this :rotfl: :rotfl:

scheming_gypsy

why else do you think Facebook was invented?

jenhug

i'd be hunting him down on facebook looking for hints he might be married.

marywooyeah

VestanPance wrote: »

It's 2011, just ask the bloke out.

You may be suprised but most guys would be well chuffed if a woman they liked asked them out.

ooh I don't know about that, some people would say it would be "calculating" of a woman to ask a man out!