OS Daily Thread Monday July 25th

nobodyspecial · 26 July 2011 at 1:51AM

Reverbe wrote: »

Dazi as I said I dont have anything in my life that needs changing. I am quite ok with things and I did also say a big thanks to everyone for their comments/concern which you must have missed.I do not need to seek professional help as you feel the need to comment. I am not mental nor do I have any serious issues.I took offence only on 2 occasions once with aforesaid poster and once with you here where you seem to think I have some deep mental problems.

NOBODY was put down.As for flitting in and out of the daily thread I read it every day but as I dont have a husband, family, kids etc there isnt as much to post about as everyone else here so I dont tend to post much.

Donny girl I have never said I am not a people person.I am very friendly outgoing and selfless. I have said I am not a ppl pleaser not the same thing and the issues with work was with one girl only who was out and out weird and seemed to have a split work personality pretending to be nice to everyone else and in the confines of our room being a workplace bully.I really dont have any aspirations in life. Have never been a dreamer.. lifes too short to waste on maybes..And again only one person on MSE has been nasty and that person is blocked and ignored. The rest of you are lovely people whose posts I love to read.

Reverbe, lots of people have been very concerned about your welfare for more than one year. As far as I recall, you have been sleeping on someone's floor for at least a couple of years. Surely you would like that to change? You have said you might be homeless any time soon for over one year, surely you would like that to change? You have been unemployed for a considerable time too. Surely you would like that to change? You haven't seen your OH in years. Surely you would like that to change? Hard as it may be to acknowledge, there are a few things you seem to want to change. Courage, my friend, look the devil in the eye and resolve these things will change. Whether it be you decide OH isn't worth the effort, ANY job is better than being on benefits with it's associated loss of self respect , a positive attitude is better than wallowing in self-pity, whatever, just decide YOU are in charge of your life

I wish you well, and success if you decide to alter things. You can change your life - you might not get what you want but you can make the best of what you have.