Benbenandme's Next Installment ...

benbenandme

Another week at WW and another 0.5lbs lost, bringing me up to a stone lost so far this year :T (I did actually get past a stone at one point but put some back on, so its nice to have got back to this point again)

Spends at ww = £6.50 on snacks, £1 on the xmas competition and £1 on the raffle, and we won another £5 voucher on the raffle, so used it to buy next weeks snacks, so hopefully next week I won't need to spend anything there

Other spends today = £1.30 on lunch and £2.95 on meal for ds.

Ex wrote to me and to ds today, in my letter he's asked me to write to him regularly to keep him updates with how ds is ... like I have nothing better to do than be his bloody penpal :cool: :rotfl::rotfl:

benbenandme

Forgot to say I also sold a bin on ebay for £3.99. so £4 to be added to the holiday fund :T

skint_spice

:T:T:j:j:T:T Well done on the stone!

Keeping_Motivated

benbenandme wrote: »

Ex wrote to me and to ds today, in my letter he's asked me to write to him regularly to keep him updates with how ds is ... like I have nothing better to do than be his bloody penpal :cool: :rotfl::rotfl:

Did he also ask you to write to him and let him know how you are coping with not having a break from DS for the next year now he is not having him every other weekend? And did he ask you to write regularly to let him know how you are coping with the emotional fall out from this with DS? And did he ask you to write to say how you were coping financially? :cool: Hope so but doubt it He definately has the cheek of the devil.....

benbenandme

Think its finally dawned on him that not only will he not see ds for a year, but that I am the only person who can keep him updated with whats happening in his life. And the benefits for me of doing so are ???? :cool: :cool:

benbenandme

And its nearly friday again :j :j
Another hectic day at work today, nothing major to report though ...

Spends today = £2.16 on postage for the ebay parcel, £3.10 on milk and bits.
Dinners done, now just to have baths and then chill tonight

benbenandme

And tonight I have got in touch with his parents ....
I am pleased I did, I feel much better for doing so I actually managed a good chat with his dad tonight, and have arranged for them to come down the weekend after this one to take ds out for the day on the saturday. We'll see how it goes ....

gilligansyle

Popping by, trying to catch up.

Are all XOH's total muppets? Sorry yours is being silly again, does he not realise what he's put you both through.

Smart_Mart

I cannot imagine not seeing my kids for a week, let alone a year! :eek:

chevalier

Oh shucks what a muppet to expect you to write to him. Honestly. I wouldn't even dignify that with an reply. He should have thought about that before he nicked the money
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