Benbenandme's Next Installment ...

vasseur

This is all exciting stuff! Have a lovely time tonight.

benbenandme

Summer ball last night was lovely but I was too tired to really enjoy it. Got home about 12.30ish this morning. Today we had ds drama lesson, then went to the bbq at dads care home, Mr S arrived with his son about 10 minutes before we had to leave to go to ds drama exam. The 2 boys played footie together and loved it and ds was really annoyed that we had to leave. I didn't get much chance to talk to Mr S while we were there. Then I took ds to his exam which ws all done and dusted in 5 minutes flat, not sure how long it takes to hear the outcome.

Mr S has texted me this afternoon to see what I'm up to and if I fancy meeting up, but I said I must get the flat back under control (its an utter tip), but we have instead arranged to meet up tomorrow morning with the boys for a 2 a side footie game at the park and then we'll take the boys out for lunch I am so excited and just so happy right now :j He's also said about us arranging to go away for a night at a hotel when ds is away

pinkladyof66

oh gosh ben ben fancy turning him down just to tidy up !!!

pinkladyof66

i do wish you the best of luck you deserve to have some happiness for a change gosh i cant imagine what your ex will say if this gets serious and you have to tell him!!!!

benbenandme

I had to turn him down PL, I can't be available every time, that's a mistake I've made before. Also it would still need doing tomorrow and this way I can see him for longer tomorrow than I would have seen him for this afternoon. Plus at some point soon he'll be coming round here hopefully, so at least then I can relax that whenever that time is the place is clean and tidy

And I honestly couldn't care either way what the ex thinks about it. For a long time I thought I'd love that moment when he found out I have someone new, but actually his thoughts and opinions don't interest me in the slightest any more, and I can hand on heart say I don't care one tiny bit However, I will say that I couldn't have asked for a better reaction from ds, he absolutely loves Mr S and keeps asking when we can see him again

pinkladyof66

benbenandme wrote: »

I had to turn him down PL, I can't be available every time, that's a mistake I've made before. Also it would still need doing tomorrow and this way I can see him for longer tomorrow than I would have seen him for this afternoon. Plus at some point soon he'll be coming round here hopefully, so at least then I can relax that whenever that time is the place is clean and tidy

And I honestly couldn't care either way what the ex thinks about it. For a long time I thought I'd love that moment when he found out I have someone new, but actually his thoughts and opinions don't interest me in the slightest any more, and I can hand on heart say I don't care one tiny bit However, I will say that I couldn't have asked for a better reaction from ds, he absolutely loves Mr S and keeps asking when we can see him again

ah thats nice i didnt mean you should be worried about your ex knowing or finding out - i just think it will be hilarious I think he would be a bit put out to say the least. You really do deserve this and it has been a long time coming and i do really wish you luck !

pinkladyof66

have a lovely time today and let us all know later how it went would love to hear from you

pinkladyof66

i am waiting with baited breath to find out how it all went

debtfreefuture

pinkladyof66 wrote: »

i am waiting with baited breath to find out how it all went

Me too!

pinkladyof66

debtfreefuture wrote: »

Me too!

Must have gone well otherwise i am sure she would have been on here and posted ! Hope we get an update this evening
;)