Benbenandme's Next Installment ...

Kittikins

Now missy, it sounds like Mr S wants to respect and woo you, so don't go leaping into the boudoir too quickly (I'm a fine one to talk....) and have a fabulous time tonight

(P.S. Sorry I'm so bossy!)

pinkladyof66

Yes i am sure you would love to jump in the s@ck this evening but play it cool you want him to want you so you might have to wait a little but good luck i am dead jeolous a young toy boy !!!

benbenandme

You may have to wait a bit longer for an update; had a text from him today to say he'd forgotten that he'd arranged to meet a friend tonight so we are re-arranging for another night. I sent one back and then an hour or so later I got another one saying he's really sorry for messing me about, feels bad about changing the plans and that he wants to take me out for dinner (another night I assume), my choice where we go, just let him know where ...

I don't mind where we go or what we do, I just want to see him!! I reckon his mum has told him off for cancelling

Anyway, I replied asking when he meant but haven't had a reply yet, although he can only check his phone when its his break time, so now it will be 8ish probably at least as that's when he finishes work. Will keep you all updated

vasseur

Really happy for you benben - you are long overdue this

benbenandme

Finally got on here to reply after an eventful 24hrs ...

Well, he called me last night to say he'd managed to cut short what he was doing with his friend and did I want to meet for a quick drink; I met him with his family (know them already from the care home) and had a drink, then his family went and we stayed til closing time. I gave him a lift home and we were chatting in the car for about 10 minutes when my car battery decided to die It was 12.30am at this point so I ended up staying the night But ... I was very good and didn't do the deed, was sooo tempted but we chatted and cuddled and stuff all night and it was lovely.

This morning a friend who is a mechanic came and jump started my car and I didn't have time to get home and change, so ended up having to go to work in yesterdays clothes, much to workmates amusement today

Anyway, having only managed 1.5hrs sleep last night I am utterly shattered but must now head off to the showeer to get ready for the summer ball tonight, I have to be out by 6.15 and wont be home til 1ish ... dear god, I'm too old for all this

pinkladyof66

so did you share his bed ? and who was looking after your son ? was there kissing etc ? Tell us more

benbenandme

Lol LP, he hsa 2 sofas, we shared the big one Ds was at Mums for the night as he isnt at school again today so was staying with her rather than me having to ferry him to her house in the morning. Yes there was lots of kissing and *stuff* but we both remained pretty much clothed all night and that's all I'm telling

pinkladyof66

does he live at home with parents ?

Buffythedebtslayer

OOOOOOOOOOOOH

I LOVE this bit. SO exciting!

benbenandme

Yeah he does PL,he had a house with his ex but let her and his son have it when they split up and he moved back in with his mum. He's currently saving to buy somewhere else