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  • Jaspersmum
    Jaspersmum Posts: 86 Forumite
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    Hi
    Glad you have had a nice weekend, I think you are being more than fair when the temptation to tell him where to go must be overwhelming!!

    Anyway I just wondered about changing the drama class to Monday, will it be the same teacher and some of the same children, are you changing now to give DS a chance to try it out with perhaps different people? Its just that my DD takes to some teachers and not to others and your DS may not be as happy with the Monday teacher etc and might want to swap back.
    I would be tempted to put in the letter that he will swap to Monday but if he does not enjoy it as much as the Saturday class then it will be swapped back - after all the crim should have DS's interests at heart and want him to be happy!

    Good luck with your letter.
  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,372 Forumite
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    The wanderer returns ... sorry, been a busy couple of days again.

    Ds has had a very good week so far at school :T :T
    I have posted off the reply to his solicitor tonight so am relieved that thats all done for now ;)

    I saw the ed psych today and it went really well, she thinks ds has aspergers too, finally someone who wanted to listen and to help :j :j she cant diagnose but said to work with him as if that's his diagnosis :)

    And tonight I went to see Dad and Mr S was there, first time I've seen him for a couple of weeks (he's been on nights) and we were chat chat chat for ages :D I told him about the solicitor stuff and he kept asking loads of questions about it all, then when i left he asked me for my name on fb, I said I'd sent him a friend request and he said his account was hacked so he's got a new one and that he'd tried to find me on there but couldn't. He said if ever I want to chat on there he's happy to listen, I promised I'd chat about something other than ranting about my ex :o and he laughed. It was fab, it was that silly kinda .. I haven't seen you for ages so lets just chat about anything and everything even when theres nothing to say kinda chat :D
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  • beanielou
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    Sounding good :)
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  • dangers
    dangers Posts: 1,457 Forumite
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    If ds gets officially diagnosed with Aspergers, is it likely that he can have 1-1 support in school?
  • vasseur
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  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,372 Forumite
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    Yep, i think they might be finally Poles :D Now if only I could stop thinking about Mr S for two minutes :o:o

    Dangers, it wouldn't mean he would get one-to-one support, although they would be able to tailor things more to his needs which would be brilliant :)
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  • benbenandme
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    So he's found me on fb :D:D Please please please don't make any comments about it on there ;) He is 27 after all, not 26, that makes it a bit better doesn't it?? :o :rotfl: :o Had a very quick chat with him on there as he is going out in a bit, I thanked him for listening to me ranting the other night, and he said it wasn't a problem and he has a lot of respect for me :D:D Then we were talking about the party I'm at tomorrow night and I said i wasn't drinking too much as I hate hangovers and he said I'd be no good if I went out for a drink with him :):) I said I have no problem with the drinking its the hangover the next day I hate ;) Chatted a bit more then he said he had to go, but he said again about how he thinks i'm a really strong person and he really respects that a lot?? Thoughts please :):)

    Oh, and ds got full marks on his school chart again which means he's got 38 / 40 for the week :j :j :j
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  • lilmissmup
    lilmissmup Posts: 6,884 Forumite
    Mmmmm he likes ladies and cars? ;)

    Sorry had to be nosey.

    Hes obv interested if he added you hun!

    Oh and being 27 is a good thing.....I am enjoying my last 17 days of it ha ha ha
    Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
  • benbenandme
    benbenandme Posts: 12,372 Forumite
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    LOL Lilmiss :D:D He did warn me about his profile the other day, said he had been hacked but clearly he hasn't tried to remove them lol Like I said before he is sooo not my normal type, but he is really kind :)
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  • pinkladyof66
    pinkladyof66 Posts: 1,829 Forumite
    LOL Lilmiss :D:D He did warn me about his profile the other day, said he had been hacked but clearly he hasn't tried to remove them lol Like I said before he is sooo not my normal type, but he is really kind :)


    is the pic of a man him ben ben ? :D



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