The CSA keeps badgering me to go back to work, but work doesnt pay, suggestions pleas

gillypkk

JamesP1976 wrote: »

You assume this is a UK bank. The account can close and transfer to another account with the same bank.

Why change banks when I can stay with my current one? It suits my circumstances anyway.

you already stated its not a UK bank account where did i disagree?

HappyMJ

Wouldn't the payments the trust distributes to you be subject to child support? I would have thought so it counts as income on a self assesment tax return..

JamesP1976

gillypkk wrote: »

you have 3 kids not 1.

Yes, the mother of the other two chooses not to allow any comminication with me, let alone see them or take them out,

The will grow up and find out eventually. I only need show the bundle when they ask - Daddy, why wern't you around when we needed you?

For this very reason, I kept everything from police records, court cases, the fraud investigation and the content of their mothers phone calls to the CSA. The stuff she plied them was truly amazing.

JamesP1976

HappyMJ wrote: »

Wouldn't the payments the trust distributes to you be subject to child support? I would have thought so it counts as income on a self assesment tax return..

The CSA looked into that and the law says it cannot be used for the purpose of child support or any other creditor making a civil claim against me.

JamesP1976

gillypkk wrote: »

you already stated its not a UK bank account where did i disagree?

you said:

you cant be "passed" on someone elses bank account. you have to be given a new one and the old one changed.

Bank accounts held in certain countries can change names on production of the Grant of Probate.

Transformer

JamesP1976 wrote: »

The CSA looked into that and the law says it cannot be used for the purpose of child support or any other creditor making a civil claim against me.

Okay james but you dont work, you so so love your kids, would you then as such not morally want to offer it for the keep of your kids now, I mean you could get a call that your beloved kids thanks you for something your money bought.

MORALS JAMES
CONSCIENCE JAMES

Must be bothering you to be trying to gain a positive outcome to this thread, rather than just going. Or is it you worry for us james, you worry us hens will miss you:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

No wonder you ex could I suspect never come to mutual agreement with you:cool:

Wonder if you ex found this thread, what she would post?

gillypkk

and you claim to be a good father yet wont provide for them at all even though you are apparently rolling in it.

JSB43

Transformer wrote: »

MORALS JAMES
CONSCIENCE JAMES

If you prevented your children seeing their father, would you have a clear conscience?

Transformer

JSB43 wrote: »

If you prevented your children seeing their father, would you have a clear conscience?

I NEVER HAVE REFUSED MY EX!!!!!!!!!! and we only have ops view of his situation, which appears one sided. He has dosh he has said so, yet says cannot afford a solicitor. That solicitor would get him court appointed visiting if his ex is truly such the ogre he paints.

It appears to not just me that this op is one who likes to moan but not act or perhaps he does not consider the spend on a solicitor worth it!!!!!!

We can only guess.

I personally guess his ex would post a very diff explanation of events on here.

He feels he is not allowed to see them, get a solicitor or SHUT UP. Really cant afford a solcitor would get legal aid!!!!!!!!!!! or at least a free half hour session to know where stands.

If I was nrp I would fight to my death to see them.

Transformer

Remember non resident parents can be female as well as male. I know one very well, she had an affair and her family then left and went to scotland. She chose to stay with new partner in uk. She is only on limited income and her new partner is a retiree who volunteers for a charity.

She travels every other weekend to scotland to see her kids from down south without fail.

She is on limited income and always paid the csa agreed ammount on csa1.

I remember her comming to visit me and telling me that her new partner was happy to pay some of his pension to her to travel by train to see her kids.


As she had the affair I have never once heard her moan about the costs involved in seeing her kids, she is not that type and always accepted she broke her husbands heart.

When the kids were visiting their dad years ago, he refused to return them,despite her being an excellent mum who all along admitted she caused the break up due to well life happens an affair.

She then fought for years to get her kids back which ended up in her losing due to the kids were now settled in scotland due to the long fight. However every fortnight despite costs of travel, csa and solcitors she never moaned one word.

She is a person I will allways respect, her kids now young adults adore her. She made nowt over moving to new home with new partner as he has grown up kids, those kids have the house left to them in the trust when he dies. However her new partner never ever begrudged supporting his new partner to travel to see her kids.

you see new families dont begrudge paying costs for their supposed love to deal with a prior relationship. Those who do are bitter, twisted and sad people who will always hold onto the past for a fight and those who do will have kids who know what they did or did not do, you can say what you want on a forum its open.

But the kids may not ever really give their true opinion of you, but underneath they will grow and hope that when they are parents they either do or do not wish to copy their parents care and attitude wise.

They see and hear all