The Ultimate Incentive Threadies go all out!

zigmeister

clearmydebts wrote: »

I know it riled me too but you should see the post on the last page of it. It is even worse. I think some people insult others because it is anonymous and they have no control in their real life so try to make themselves feel big online.

Thanks for the support on there xxx

I've just seen it! :eek: Jeez, that is unbelievable. Judgemental kn0bheads. I'd like to see them lay their !!!!!! out and see what people have to say. :mad: Especially as you're lovely and would never say something so rude to someone else. ARGH.

Birdie85

Don't you girls have a bedtime?!

What idiots people can be, why they feel that their 'opinion' is worth something I have no idea. :mad:

That's great news about your working hours Wendz, I knew your company would come through for you!

I've got my fingers crossed for your OH CMD, you need some good news right now with all the bad luck you've had!

It's our 6 month wedding anniversary today, OH got up early (for him!) and surprised me with a box of chocolate Crunchy Nut Clusters, which we always have as our 'treat' breakfast! Felt a bit bad that I hadn't even registered that it was out halfiversary, despite only telling someone yesterday how long we'd been married!

clearmydebts

zigmeister wrote: »

I've just seen it! :eek: Jeez, that is unbelievable. Judgemental kn0bheads. I'd like to see them lay their !!!!!! out and see what people have to say. :mad: Especially as you're lovely and would never say something so rude to someone else. ARGH.

Aw thanks Zig. Your so nice!

I resent someone telling me that my children will miss out on things because of 14k debt. I mean, get real. Yes, it is a lot of debt in some respects, but in other ways it will be cleared in about 2 years. Max is so well loved and looked after, gets brought on holidays and gets lovely clothes etc. What else does a 17 month old need - a yacht or a car!

Anyway - I do appreciate you defending me.

clearmydebts

Birdie85 wrote: »

Don't you girls have a bedtime?!

What idiots people can be, why they feel that their 'opinion' is worth something I have no idea. :mad:

That's great news about your working hours Wendz, I knew your company would come through for you!

I've got my fingers crossed for your OH CMD, you need some good news right now with all the bad luck you've had!

It's our 6 month wedding anniversary today, OH got up early (for him!) and surprised me with a box of chocolate Crunchy Nut Clusters, which we always have as our 'treat' breakfast! Felt a bit bad that I hadn't even registered that it was out halfiversary, despite only telling someone yesterday how long we'd been married!

Thanks Birdie. Things do feel like they are looking up a bit. OH's Mum is coming over for a week at the beginning of Sept and my Mum is coming over for a month mid-Sept so things might be starting to turn around for us. Financially I have never seen our bank account so low, but we are due in money from the relocation, work expenses etc and OH is finally getting his act together and has done everything that has been outstanding.

I wouldn't remember my halfanniversary either but so lovely that your OH did. Maybe you could make him a nice meal

wendz86

CMD - that is great news that hopefully your OH can get compresses hours, was definately worth him asking about it then! You look after Max brilliantly and he has everything he needs so those people are just stupid.

Birdie - I actually can't believe you got married 6 months ago! Really doesn't seem that long , time does fly. Bless him for remembering as well!

clearmydebts

wendz86 wrote: »

CMD - that is great news that hopefully your OH can get compresses hours, was definately worth him asking about it then! You look after Max brilliantly and he has everything he needs so those people are just stupid.

Birdie - I actually can't believe you got married 6 months ago! Really doesn't seem that long , time does fly. Bless him for remembering as well!

Thanks Wendz. People can call me stupid etc for having debt. I don't mind that, I was stupid. But when anyone queries that my child will miss out that makes my hackles rise! I'm sure you will be the exact same with Poppy!

N.I.M

CMD, there is 2 words for people like them. Trolls and Bullies. Not worth bothering with.

Cinny91

Urggh. I hate when people on here think they completely know a person because of a few lines of text. I haven't read the thread because I'll just get super defensive of you and the best way to treat people like that is to flat out ignore them. But, in attempt to cheer you up like you asked. These are my kitchen doors but with a darker counter top and these handles

Thats great about your work too Wendz! I always always say it, but they seem bloody lovely

clearmydebts

N.I.M wrote: »

CMD, there is 2 words for people like them. Trolls and Bullies. Not worth bothering with.

Thanks NIM.

And thanks for the lovely post over there Birdie xxx

clearmydebts

Cinny91 wrote: »

Urggh. I hate when people on here think they completely know a person because of a few lines of text. I haven't read the thread because I'll just get super defensive of you and the best way to treat people like that is to flat out ignore them. But, in attempt to cheer you up like you asked. These are my kitchen doors but with a darker counter top and these handles

Thats great about your work too Wendz! I always always say it, but they seem bloody lovely

Love it, love it, love it!!! I have a thing for kitchens!!! It looks really good quality Cinny. When are you getting it installed?

Dinah/NIM - any more photos of the updates on your house?

If/when OH gets compressed hours he is moving back into our old flat and we will be doing it up bit by bit (me remotely from Ireland delegating!). I can't wait to have a bit of a project and the challenge of doing things up in the cheapest (but classiest) way possible.