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Sex with a new partner... turning on the pressure...
QuantumSuccess
Posts: 488 Forumite
When you meet a man and start dating is it considered unreasonable to wait 3 months or so before having sex with them?
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why not add this into your other thread?Drop a brand challenge
on a £100 shop you might on average get 70 items save
10p per product = £7 a week ~ £28 a month
20p per product = £14 a week ~ £56 a month
30p per product = £21 a week ~ £84 a month (or in other words one weeks shoping at the new price)0 -
no, its not unreasonable - no timescale is unreasonable, and everyone has their own time when they feel the time is right.0
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Took me 6 months before I has sex with my partner, we had a long distant relationship for a good few years. I made him have tests (I came with him) Before we even has sex due to past experience. Just be careful when that day comes.
Don't feel pressured, I knew my now husband was a gentleman as he never once came on to me in that way. Still don't (No drive), but that is my own thread. lol0 -
Took me 6 months before I has sex with my partner, we had a long distant relationship for a good few years. I made him have tests (I came with him) Before we even has sex due to past experience. Just be careful when that day comes.
Don't feel pressured, I knew my now husband was a gentleman as he never once came on to me in that way. Still don't (No drive), but that is my own thread. lol
did you have tests as well?0 -
dont feel pressurised just do it when your readyReplies to posts are always welcome, If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you0
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There are no rules on this! You have sex with someone when you both want to not when you feel you should. Whether that takes a day or a year, its up to you. Never do it on someone else's timetable or an imaginary one.0
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Judging from your other thread, he might consider it unreasonable!0
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QuantumSuccess wrote: »did you have tests as well?
I did not need them after I had the all clear from my cancer scare caused by an STD I got given from DD1 sperm donor. I never had sex for nearly 6 years, scared the crap out of me!
DH history was his ex slept around, which meant he may of caught something from her!
And I was NOT going to risk all of that again. Was an awful experience.0 -
QS I have just read your other thread, the man is a total creep, keep your distance!Mum of several with a twisted sense of humour and a laundry obsession
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Having read your other thread I cannot believe you are considering becoming sexually entangled with him.Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.0
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