Stormybay's Thread a bit of comfort in a hard world

beautifulgorgeous_2

Welcome to Emma and others who read this thread are still not able to bring themselves to post, I know that you will get the support and love that you need from the great people who post on here.

emma~~_7

i think GBA gave me strength to write it here,u r lovely ppl,may god bless you...i never had any complain from life,but sometimes i do think that why it happened to me?..i mean i never broke anyones heart,always respected elders, didnt do any sin in life then why is it me?..when bad time comes everything bad comes together and thats why now i m afraid to talk or speak to someone because i think some words which maybe i m not aware of might hurt somoeone..and god would be angry with me,my husband is a muslim,and he always pray and tells me to do the same but he never put pressure on me,i m half muslim(dont have full knowledge),so i sit with him everyday,as much as i can..to become a true muslim,and when i pray it gives me lot of comfort..and my husband is angel itself,i knew him before 5 yrs, and we r married for 2 yrs..

Dumyat

emma you will not hurt or offend anyone here. there is no answer to the "why me" question, but it doesnt stop us asking does it?
sounds like you have a good man there.

I dont know if you have visited a site run by SANDS. they support people in your situation who have lost a baby. you will find people there who have been there and will understand your pain more than we can. http://www.uk-sands.org/

twink

emma i agree with dogrose no one will take offence at anything you say and it is lovely you have such a supportive husband x

babyangel10

Hey guys, slightly off topic here, but you wanna see what someone has said about Emma on the freebies board - absolutely unreal IMHO :mad:

lilmiss

gertybertyangel wrote:

Hey guys, slightly off topic here, but you wanna see what someone has said about Emma on the freebies board - absolutely unreal IMHO :mad:

Me??. I just said she didnt sound American. Now i know it's probably because she just lived there. Hmm, i didnt mean to sound horrible
Sowwie *jumps down a hole*

Dumyat

dont feel bad lilmiss. there are people out there who do post threads to get "attention." I think we should always read things here with a pinch of healthy sceptism. I like to post a reply whether I think they are false or not.
if any poster is not genuine they will either disappear or trip themselves up.

*_ash_*_2

lilmiss wrote:

Me??. I just said she didnt sound American. Now i know it's probably because she just lived there. Hmm, i didnt mean to sound horrible
Sowwie *jumps down a hole*

i think she really didnt mean it,and lilmiss already is sorry..i think she should be forgiven,she is a good girl,and she does a lot of posts as well,pls..i m sorry too on her behalf,she is a good friend of mine..she really didnt mean it,i m sure emma would forgive her as well,she had a doubt she said it,thats all..and in the forum you can write anything u fell like saying isnt it?

nursemolly

hiya, i have been reading this thread and it is amazing what other people are going through. it makes me feel not so alone with my own thoughts.
eighteen months ago i met a wonderful man. he is 49 and with 2 young children and had full custody and was bringing them up alone.
everything was going so well, i got on well with his kids and visa versa.
he went into hospital for a minor op but never made it home.
he had a massive stroke shortly after surgery.
to cut a long story short he cant talk or walk, is fed via a tube in his tummy, and no control over his bodily functions. but he is still all there. he is now in a nursing home over 40 miles away but i go and visit him each week, and i am still in touch with his children.
i love him so much and some days i find it so hard to cope with.
but after reading this thread i don`t feel quite so alone today.
so many many thanks
molly
xx

Dumyat

ash - tell her not to be daft! I often have doubts about people posting online. its very hard to judge people when you cant see them. its not worth get upset about.

hello mollytrundle. thats a hard situation you have to bear there. There are so many people out there struggling with "life". in some ways it is sad...but in others it is positive.