MSE Pregnancy Club 22

Gillyx

I don't think it matters, I'd happily go out in my pj's, the effort to get ready these days just doesn't seem worth it. Hope you're okay pigpen, you're a strong person though, so I've no doubts you'l stand up for yourself.


It's safe to say I am dead, 3 and a half loads of washing, washed, dried and ironed today! All living room furniture pulled out, floors swept, skirting boards wiped, all surfaces dusted, and floor mopped. Finally flopped onto the couch with some apple juice and a choccy biscuit, watching some odd programme about customs officers having to clean drug packages that have came out of someones bum, what have my Saturday nights became?!?!

seafarers_wife

translates as: misses her best friend, hope she's okay and we can talk again soon. Take care sweetie, I think of you.

Piggers he is an idiot! he knows you are vulnerable right now. yes you dont like to admit it because you are stubborn but you are vulnerable and he is taking the micky with this and all the other stuff such as not helping round the house with general housework and not helping out more with squeak and the others.

there is going to be nothing you can do about this as i think he is waiting on you kicking him out as he doesnt have the guts to leave himself, and if you kick him out then he has the excuse to go back to mummy dearest and not do anything wrong as you were the one that "ended it"

you know my feeling though that i would make him pay through the nose one way or another cause i am a vindictive cow and would make sure to hit his "weak" point whatever that may be and to hell with the consequences.

you need to have a good sit down and talk through with someone impartial to get it all out and then you need to decide what YOU want to do. not whats best for you as a family, whats best for YOU.

on a slightly happier note, ive felt baby move today, or at least i think i have :rotfl: felt kinda like a bubbly tummy and thinking i needed the loo but didnt if that makes sense.

AmandaD28

Hey everyone,

Pigpen - I'm so sorry things are sh**ty for you right now its never a good time for things to be bad but its particularly worse I think when you are pregnant ! Sending you big hugs and hope you make some decisions about what is right for you soon I know you haven't got it easy right now !

I dunno how to do the list thing either but could someone please add me to it EDD is 28th Jan 2012 and usure of bump colour just yet will update that bit on wed when we go for our gender scan so excited

Hope everyone else is well labour vibes to those that want/need them and hugs to everyone else that wants/needs them

xx

Gillyx

Amanda are you going for a private scan? I'm only a week behind you and I've to wait another 6 weeks for my scan

AmandaD28

Gillyx wrote: »

I don't think it matters, I'd happily go out in my pj's, the effort to get ready these days just doesn't seem worth it. Hope you're okay pigpen, you're a strong person though, so I've no doubts you'l stand up for yourself.

It's safe to say I am dead, 3 and a half loads of washing, washed, dried and ironed today! All living room furniture pulled out, floors swept, skirting boards wiped, all surfaces dusted, and floor mopped. Finally flopped onto the couch with some apple juice and a choccy biscuit, watching some odd programme about customs officers having to clean drug packages that have came out of someones bum, what have my Saturday nights became?!?!

I've been to a wedding party tonight left just before 10 after hours of complaining I felt ill was too hot etc lol was buzzing before I went too still managed to fit into one of my pre pregnancy size 12 dresses but with a big bump. I've left OH there tho bless him he doesn't get out much and didn't wanna drag him away coz I wanted my PJ's on and a nice cup of choc this pregnancy lark makes me feel sooooo over the hill !! :rotfl::rotfl:

xx

Gillyx

AmandaD28 wrote: »

I've been to a wedding party tonight left just before 10 after hours of complaining I felt ill was too hot etc lol was buzzing before I went too still managed to fit into one of my pre pregnancy size 12 dresses but with a big bump. I've left OH there tho bless him he doesn't get out much and didn't wanna drag him away coz I wanted my PJ's on and a nice cup of choc this pregnancy lark makes me feel sooooo over the hill !! :rotfl::rotfl:

xx

It's turned me into a party pooper at 22. Thank god my OH isn't much of a party animal. I'm over the moon to be laying on the couch, with a come dine with me marathon, even had a nap earlier so I could stay awake to watch it :eek: Possibly the saddest moment of my life

AmandaD28

Gillyx wrote: »

Amanda are you going for a private scan? I'm only a week behind you and I've to wait another 6 weeks for my scan

Yeah we are Gilly originally was booked for 31st Aug but we pulled it forward just because I'm an impatient so and so

20 wk scan is booked for 14th September its booked as a gender scan coz we really wanna know not that I have a preference just wanted to know either way but also think its such a long time between 12 and 20 wks and so many changes happen its exciting to see beans anytime I'm prob a bit sad really lol

We're taking my two boys with us and also MIL who is very excited for the whole thing boys are hoping for a pink bean I think secretly tho I'd rather like another blue one I know what I'm doing with boys now having had 2 already a girl is whole new teritory for me like I say though will be thrilled whichever way we go you get what your given in this game

xx

Gillyx

I'm jealous, I want a scan soon! Saving our money so we can get a 3d scan later on

I'm so excited to find out too, I go through phases where I think it's a girl but then keep having dreams that it's a boy, so really not sure what to think! Doesn't help that everyone wades in with "ooh you've not been sick you'l be having a boy" "oh you're eating gherkins with chocolate (I'm not btw) so it'l be a girl"

As long as he/she is healthy I'l be over the moon. 25 weeks just seems so long away for me, I'm not a patient person at the best of times, my belly should cook faster!

Doglover

Good very early morning everyone! Whilst I am often awake this time I'm never normally this awake. You'd think I've had loads of rest or something because feel as though they physically can't shut! Grrrrrrrr. I think it must be because my due date is looming, I've definitely had a show and all this talk of labour fears.

I'm bricking labour but acknowledge all the sensible things like tons of women have done it and more than once and medication is there etc etc it's just the thought of actually getting this baby out of MY foof isn't a lovely thought. Oh well, I really want this baby and can't wait to meet him so I'm sure I'll cope. I also think it's the not knowing when it'll happen that's weird for a control freak like me!!

Congrats on team pink!

Welcome all newbies! This is a great thread with tons of helpful info and support.

Lirin

Morning all....

Dog, you'll be fine (says the one who was bricking it yestarday).

I'm on my last long day at work- only Mon-Fri to go after this. Wondering why I offered- hips and ankle sore, very tired, and want sleep...................