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Really worried - told lies & now they're getting social services involved

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  • xoxo_2
    xoxo_2 Posts: 889 Forumite
    I think you need to cancel your internet subscription and concentrate on sorting out your mental health problems and hoping your family get through this.
    :j
  • moomoomama27
    moomoomama27 Posts: 3,823 Forumite
    pigpen wrote: »
    if you DID lie to these people then hopefully you will be spurred into seeking help for your problems and if you didn't and it is true then hopefully you will get help for your problems and SS will sort out your family.

    You either have a very serious mental health issue or you deserve every bit of crap that is coming your way.. I'm not sure whether to feel sorry for you or just point and laugh.. you reap what you sow.. and you have just sown a whole heap of trouble for your family.

    I hope to God you are just some crackpot here to cause a stir! (in which case I still feel you need help!).. whichever way it is.. I wish you well and hope you can access whatever relevant help you require..

    She did say she has help for her problems, she also mentioned that she was off medication at the time, and is now on medication.

    I'll take the post at face value, even though it could be someone taking the pee, it might not be.
  • DueMarch11
    DueMarch11 Posts: 685 Forumite
    Your husband will........you on the other hand might have problems
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  • diceydeb
    diceydeb Posts: 158 Forumite
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    All i keep thinking of is that film .... catfish...if anyones seen it they.ll know what i mean
  • jenjade
    jenjade Posts: 8,418 Forumite
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    andreamoss wrote: »
    My husband is aware, he knew before. I've already explained that I have a mental health problem, I don't lie in real life, somehow I got swept away with it.

    My husband is understanding, as I said he did tell my psychiatrist - I also said that I was off meds at the time, and wasn't in control of that aspect. I see my HV regularly and even at that time, they weren't concerned.

    Im not sure why you want crap to head my way, what I did is unforgivable, but is it fair that my family suffer for it - that potentially my children will? It's my repsonsibility, and I'm glad that you've never had a problem where you find it hard to to tell reality from the truth, and even begin to believe your lies.

    the internet has caused you problems because you lie on it if i was you i would sell your oc and cancel you internet then you wont have any problems, put your husband and family first remove the problem
    :j Proud mum to Jade age 10 years and Baby Ellie born Christmas Day:eek: with a broke heart :( Proven to be a little fighter and battling on with her heart condition :j
  • DueMarch11
    DueMarch11 Posts: 685 Forumite
    diceydeb wrote: »
    All i keep thinking of is that film .... catfish...if anyones seen it they.ll know what i mean

    Not seen it, please elaborate :)
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  • andreamoss
    andreamoss Posts: 11 Forumite
    DueMarch11 wrote: »
    Your husband will........you on the other hand might have problems

    Thanks, so basically I'm s***ed, and maybe it would be better if I just went away
  • DueMarch11
    DueMarch11 Posts: 685 Forumite
    andreamoss wrote: »
    Thanks, so basically I'm s***ed, and maybe it would be better if I just went away

    I guess thats a cry for help and you would like me to call someone to stop you doing anything stupid :cool:

    Sorry but no, I suggest you stick around and face up to the situation that you caused
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  • diceydeb
    diceydeb Posts: 158 Forumite
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    Really intriguing documentary about a guy that got chatting to an eight year old girl a fantastic artist and got involved with all her family including falling for her sister ...so utterly convincing as a real family.....went on for 9 months....but all was far from what it seemed.... say no more cos u gotta watch it... just goes to show how people can create a total fantasy life online.
  • kingfisherblue
    kingfisherblue Posts: 9,203 Forumite
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    If the OP is genuine, why is she using a name that could conceivably be her real one? After all, part of the anonymity of internet forums is the use of usernames that are not identifiable. I'm not called kingfisherblue in real life :p
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