Used to be the life of the party but now can't be bothered with people at all really.

YORKSHIRELASS

Yeah another one here. I am happy with my own company. I pass the time of day with people I meet and chat to other Mums quite happily. I just dont feel the need for close friendships.

I dont have a job at the moment as I care for my son who has health problems. I think in a way this isolates me because my life is very different from everyone around me. I sometimes think this should bother me but actually it doesnt. I also have enough to cope with without helping other people with their worries and problems - and I am sorry if this sounds selfish.

A couple of years ago I was working up to 50 hours a week doing a difficult job. I had quite a few work colleagues that I got on well with but I never socialised with them, I just didnt want to be drawn into the office politics and nastiness that went on. It was worse than the school playground sometimes.

I dont do Facebook, Twitter etc, sorry but I just dont feel the need. Maybe I should try but hey I am happy and I live my life the way I want to. Nice to know I am not as strange as I sometimes think though.

Primarni

Just posting to say I've applied for a couple of positions in other companies that would be a step up for me. Maybe I'll find the new people more interesting!

asbokid

would a little bit of weed help? not skunk or anything too strong. just a small joint or a blast on a bong?

Barny1979

asbokid wrote: »

would a little bit of weed help? not skunk or anything too strong. just a small joint or a blast on a bong?

!!!!!!?! Really?

Lumbix

Another one here who totally agrees & understands. I deal with people all day so when I come home I can just about deal with my OH & children & can’t really be bothered with anybody else. Mainly deal with men so maybe that’s it!. My OH goes out once a week for boys stuff & I look forward to this to do all my girly stuff. When it got cancelled one week he knows how much I enjoy my me time on this one night a week so he said he’d stay in the kitchen all night so I could pretend he wasn’t even here!
We’re going out tonight to something we “have” to go to & to be honest I’m more excited about the amount of flowers on my pea plant than going out! I just take it that I’ve grown up & I can’t be bothered to deal with & pretend to like people that I have nothing in common with. FB - no thanks. OH is now going the same way so it’s lucky that we still enjoy each other’s company.

Jacks_xxx

asbokid wrote: »

would a little bit of weed help? not skunk or anything too strong. just a small joint or a blast on a bong?

Well, speaking for myself, I don't think it would make me any more interesting or my friends any more interesting either. It would make me tired and nauseous though, which might stop me going out at all.

Primarni You go girl! :dance::dance::dance: Let us know how you get on.