abortion cost

catfish50

plumpmouse wrote: »

OP I would seek advice in real life from a neutral party to discuss all options and then move forward with your decision in the way you feel best to proceed.

The OP asked a question about costs. The question has been answered. That's sufficient, I would have thought.

plumpmouse

catfish50 wrote: »

The OP asked a question about costs. The question has been answered. That's sufficient, I would have thought.

I appreciate that. I wasn't trying to push her into any decision at all. I was simply saying that speaking to someone in real life would be more helpful than on here.

It's a huge decision to make - I'm sure no-one can disagree with that whatever your views. By saying speak to a neutral party I was meaning she would receive factual information not one with any bias. Cost won't be her only question/worry I am sure. I am not trying to get her to change her decision but simply to gather all the information she needs for the abortion

Sorry if I have come across in a way I didn't mean to OP, I genuinely have not wanted to cause any upset etc

catfish50

plumpmouse wrote: »

Sorry if I have come across in a way I didn't mean to OP, I genuinely have not wanted to cause any upset etc

So why not stop then.

vik6525

leos-mummy wrote: »

the only thing that is barbaric is killing an unborn child. im sure all her doubts would disappear wen she held her new born baby in her arms

ive stayed out of this thread, because I think the OP has had excellent advice, and theres nothing more I can add to help her.

But YOU lady. YOU are an absolutely disgusting human being. Im genuinely shocked at how insensitive, and what a downright horrendous piece of work you really are.

Either man up, and post under your real name, or fnuck off, because you've obviously only joined MSE to spout a load of horrendous nonsense at a person who is obviously quite distressed.

Shame on you.

plumpmouse

catfish50 wrote: »

So why not stop then.

Sorry didn't realise you could only give advice if you have a certain view.


If the OP is asking about cost on here I would imagine that she has not discuss it with anyone in real life. I cannot fail to see how anyone with any sense would not imagine that this should be her next step. She needs support from someone who can help her through this.

Not sure where the upset has come from this advice.

I actually find your attitude disgraceful!! So I will bow out gracefully now and will hit that ignore button to see if it does work

leos-mummy

the only thing disgusting here is people not considering the unborn child. how a mother can b a disgustin human being is beyond me. a figure of love and care to her children. i realise my opinion may not suit everyone but when on a forum were no1 seems to realise the severity of the situation and the childs life and is more concerned about the cost of an abortion then someone has to speak up. i write all this as i watch my 22m old son play with his toys, babble away to me... wot chance wud he hav had at life if i just deemed him a blob of cells and decided to abort him. we have to protect those who dont hav a voice

lauren_1

leos-mummy wrote: »

the only thing disgusting here is people not considering the unborn child. how a mother can b a disgustin human being is beyond me. a figure of love and care to her children. i realise my opinion may not suit everyone but when on a forum were no1 seems to realise the severity of the situation and the childs life and is more concerned about the cost of an abortion then someone has to speak up. i write all this as i watch my 22m old son play with his toys, babble away to me... wot chance wud he hav had at life if i just deemed him a blob of cells and decided to abort him. we have to protect those who dont hav a voice

Difference is you wanted to continue your pregnancy.

Grow up.

thatgirlsam

leos-mummy wrote: »

the only thing disgusting here is people not considering the unborn child. how a mother can b a disgustin human being is beyond me. a figure of love and care to her children. i realise my opinion may not suit everyone but when on a forum were no1 seems to realise the severity of the situation and the childs life and is more concerned about the cost of an abortion then someone has to speak up. i write all this as i watch my 22m old son play with his toys, babble away to me... wot chance wud he hav had at life if i just deemed him a blob of cells and decided to abort him. we have to protect those who dont hav a voice

I don't mean to be rude but you sound extremely immature and unable to see the bigger picture

catfish50

plumpmouse wrote: »

Sorry didn't realise you could only give advice if you have a certain view.

It's good manners not to give personal advice that hasn't been asked for. You could, as someone else suggested, start a thread in the Discussion forum about pros and cons of abortion, and argue your case without referring to, or addressing, an individual. That way, if the OP or anyone else wanted advice, they could read the advice without being made the focus of the discussion.

leos-mummy

only one who needs to grow up are those who take such a relaxed view of an innocent life. i know ther will be plenty of mothers readin my posts who totally agree with everythin i say that are just too scared to say incase of offense.