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  • Dontknowanymore
    Dontknowanymore Posts: 5,522 Forumite
    leos-mummy wrote: »
    how very mature of u 'troll'
    Why don'tyou post under your usual username, rather than hiding behind an AE???????????
  • leos-mummy
    leos-mummy Posts: 398 Forumite
    what do u mean my usual username. this is my username, only one i have
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    leos-mummy wrote: »
    what do u mean my usual username. this is my username, only one i have

    Why am I feeding the troll. Why are you posting. Why do trolls generally post.
    So many questions.
  • Dontknowanymore
    Dontknowanymore Posts: 5,522 Forumite
    leos-mummy wrote: »
    what do u mean my usual username. this is my username, only one i have
    Aye right.
    A new user today, comes straight in and posts in a contriversial topic, excuse me if I'm a tad cynical.....
  • emsywoo123
    emsywoo123 Posts: 5,440 Forumite
    leos-mummy wrote: »
    imsorryismylackof grammar and punctuation annoyingu???eversosorry

    Troll quest-fail.
    You must never deviate from your style of posting.
    Nor should you suddenly be able to spell.
    Disappointing.
  • Dontknowanymore
    Dontknowanymore Posts: 5,522 Forumite
    Anyway, trolling aside.

    OP, I hope things go ok for you.
    A friend of mine recently had a termination and she just phoned the clinic direct as she didnt want it on her docs records. It was done within a week and they fitted a coil at the same time.
  • plumpmouse
    plumpmouse Posts: 1,138 Forumite
    I am what I would call pro life but with an understanding of choice if that makes sense.

    I would like to think that most people who undergo an abortion consider all options and have a full understanding of what they are doing. It must be a distressing and confusing time for someone to go through.

    I have also struggled to have children and had fertility treatment for my second after 6 years of trying. I can honestly say that a child born into a family that doesn't care/love it upsets me more than abortion.

    An internet forum and discussion like this where someone is looking for help is really not the place to argue the choices and options involved It isn't going to help the op in any way during what is probably a difficult/sensitive period for her.

    OP I would seek advice in real life from a neutral party to discuss all options and then move forward with your decision in the way you feel best to proceed.

    I hope everything works out for you and your family whatever your decision
    Give me the boy until he's seven and i'll give you the man.
  • catfish50
    catfish50 Posts: 545 Forumite
    I am yet again using this user name as I don't want to ask this using my normal one.

    You were right. OP, I hope the turn this thread has taken is not upsetting you. It's a vulnerable time, I well remember. If it's upsetting you, you could ask the forum team to block it, surely they would do that.

    Then again, maybe you're made of stronger stuff than I was, and you don't let yammering idiots distress you. Hope so! All the best. :)
  • plumpmouse
    plumpmouse Posts: 1,138 Forumite
    catfish50 wrote: »
    You were right. OP, I hope the turn this thread has taken is not upsetting you. It's a vulnerable time, I well remember. If it's upsetting you, you could ask the forum team to block it, surely they would do that.

    Then again, maybe you're made of stronger stuff than I was, and you don't let yammering idiots distress you. Hope so! All the best. :)


    I may be wrong, but you can also choose to ignore user and not see their posts.

    Obviously you would have to read something they have wrote but you could ignore future posts from anyone who has caused upset and still use the thread for the information that has been useful for you
    Give me the boy until he's seven and i'll give you the man.
  • Miss_Voodoo
    Miss_Voodoo Posts: 65 Forumite
    OP, I hope you get on OK and get the help that you need.

    Of course people have different opinions and feelings about an emotive topic such as this, but I really don't think this is the place to be talking about it.

    OP stated the facts in a calm manner and asked for advice.

    If people want to discuss the rights and wrongs of anything, why not start a new topic in DT, because it doesn't seem appropriate or fair to conduct it here.

    Again - OP, I hope you're OK.
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