The Giving up/ Cutting down Alcohol support thread- number 10

bearacus

:ASchool Night Challenge:A

Bearacus
Caramelcaron
Cheezypeas
Foreverhopeful (sun-Thurs) :)
Mackeroo
Maman
May2013
Shaggy

:A3 nights:A

Fakeplastictwee

:A2 nights:A

Any Last minute takers welcome

bearacus

Evening all,

Maman- Thankyou (i dont know how to quote posts - sometimes it works and sometimes it doesnt :rotfl:)

Foreverhopeful- Ive marked you down Sun - Thurs on the list

Rachel- Do whatever is best for you :A and well done on your AF s xx

1 for Nov please Shaggy and 2 for the snc x

bearacus x

flimsier

My final total for October was 28. I'm AF tonight and pretty confident.

bargainbetty

Thank you all for the kind comments and thoughts. In my heart I know it is up to him to stop, but I am searching for anything that may help. I have removed all the alcohol from the flat that I had - he buys more, but I don't lend him money for booze, I won't provide it and I don't enable him. I encourage him when he is dry and offer support when he feels a bit wobbly. He has asked me to nag him, but Sober Him doesn't always let Drunk Him know that he wanted help.

He's going to lose his job tomorrow. He is on probabtion as a contractor, and his hours are being scrapped due to non-attendance. Less than a week ago he was telling me that he was happier than he has been in years. On Friday he had a job, great mates and this new life on the wagon. Now he has no job, he's driven away a new friend (her, not me) and he's about to make his first visit to his parents since he moved to London two months ago having to tell them what happened since he booked the tickets. I'm gutted for him, and hoped that there would be some small miracle for him. Utterly unrealistic, but you grasp at straws, don't you?

Thank you all again, congratulations on your AFD acheivements and please accept my hopes and best wishes for your own journeys. Very American, but I hope you know what I mean

fakeplastictwee

Day 1 under my belt for November please Shaggy and 2 for the SNC please bearacus x

heath480

Happy November and good luck to all in achieving your targets.

May2013

1st AFD for November please shaggy and 2 for the SNC please bearacus

Thanks
May xx

maman

I know it's late but had to call in and clock up my

1AF for November please Shaggy.

Tonight's been tough. I had a really sh*tty meeting to go to and then the bells started ringing louder than I've heard them in months. I was arguing with myself all the way home. What persuaded me was that I have a wedding to go to in a couple of weeks and I'm determined my dress is going to fit! That and the thought of comng on here and fessing up!:D

So I made do with a couple of large diet tonics with ice and slice.

Oh and that's 2 for the SNC please Bearacus.

shaggydoo

Morning :hello:

AF last night Bearacus.



Happy Wednesday!

Shaggyx

shaggydoo

mrsrainman wrote: »

I've got my xmas job at Asda :j 20 hours a week spread across 4 days/evenings.

Congrats :T:T:T