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The Giving up/ Cutting down Alcohol support thread- number 10

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  • For some reason though I had a bottle and half of wine last night - on a school night - and feel rather grim today at work. I can't seem to stop once I have one and just go for it until I'm a stoopid mess!
    Remember that we deal with alcohol,

    cunning, baffling, powerful!


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  • maman
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    :wave:Posie Flump, I'm so glad you decided to post. Hopefully you're back on the wagon today and last night was just a bit of a blip. I think you've done really well overall for the month and it'll soon be time to start afresh for July. Any ideas on what you hope to acheive?

    I must admit to hearing a few bells tonight. I had a meeting deferred from it's usual Friday and someone said 'feels like it should be the weekend' when we'd finished. That set me off wishing I could go home and open a bottle.

    However, partly the thought that I'm determined to make my target (despite my holiday) and that I'm also getting my diet back on track (and didn't need any empty calories) helped me get past it. Once I'd settled down after supper with a mug of tea I was fine.;)

    Hope all went off smoothly today Mrs Rainman, I've been thinking of you.

    8AF for June please Shaggy and 2 for the SNC Bearacus.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Morning :hello:

    One more SNC AFD please Bearacus.

    happy_wednesday1.gif

    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    June :-

    good-job.gif = 7 days AF

    dance2.gif = 14 days AF

    smiley10.gif = 21 days AF

    Smiley-ange.png = 28 days AF

    pan-10-10-smiley-...-airsoft-1851527.gif = 30 days AF

    :j = target achieved


    Bailey /14
    Bearacus
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    Beckseven 8/10 good-job.gif

    Castri09 /15
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    Fed Up 15/23 good-job.gifdance2.gif

    Flat Eric 5/18

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    Kdenty 28/30 good-job.gifdance2.gifsmiley10.gifSmiley-ange.png
    Mackeroo 14/21 good-job.gifdance2.gif

    Maggie
    3/12
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    Mari
    1/TF
    May 15/15 good-job.gifdance2.gif :j
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    Miss P
    1/20

    Penelopedee 9/8 good-job.gif :j
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    Shaggy 26/17 good-job.gifdance2.gif :j smiley10.gif
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    Sumsup
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    WBF 6/25




    PLEASE PUT YOUR TARGET AFDs IN A BOLD RED FONT and good luck!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    edited 1 July 2011 at 6:44AM
    Roll up Roll up set your targets for July

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • happyshopper
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    21 for June thanks Shaggy. My usual target of 20 for July please.

    Welcome back Posie Flump, hope you're inspired to keep posting.

    hs

    ...nothing to see here...
  • May2013
    May2013 Posts: 423 Forumite
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    Welcome Posie Flump :hello:- it's great to have you with us...

    16 AFD's please shaggy and 2 for the SNC please bearacus.

    I'm away with work now for 2 nights and will be again for another 2 next week ... overnight stays are always such a challenge as everyone treats the evenings as one big party...I'm certainly planning to be AF tonight and will try to do the same on Thursday although I'm not quite so confident I'll succeed :(

    And then on to July's target.....I'll be on my holidays for two weeks so I'm only going to put myself down for 9 for July please shaggy...a bit pathetic but realistic I think :o
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  • beckseven
    beckseven Posts: 877 Forumite
    9 AFDS for me please Shaggy and 2 for the SNC please Bearacus. I'm going to work out how many days af i'm going to have for July. I've still got a week left to be completely alcohol free to complete my 'fat attack' part of my diet and I'm determined to do it. I've got a girls night out tomorrow which I'm feeling a bit anxious about staying alcohol free for especially as the pub is within walking distance of my house! I'm hoping that the great weight loss i'm going to have tomorrow after being alcohol free for a week and sticking to my diet like glue will strengthen my resolve! Have a great day everyonex
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  • Morning all and thank you very much for your welcomes. I've been lurking for so long you are all old buddies in my mind!

    Still on 10 AFDs. BF was having a few beers last night and offered me a glass, which I had and didn't really enjoy. What a waste of a very easily doable AF night. Hey ho. On the plus side - BF has decided to have a week of detoxing, starting today, which will make resisting temptation so much easier. None in the house - none in me!

    Anyhow, a great night sleep does wonders and am raring to go today and full of positivity.

    Hope you are all ok and the sun is shining on your part of the world.

    PF x

    p.s. Shaggy could I please set a target for July of 16 - but hope to exceed this .... and thank you for scoring!
  • penelopedee_2
    penelopedee_2 Posts: 2,698 Forumite
    AF for me last night please Shaggy.

    Can you put me down for 16 in July please.
    This time I haven't smoked since 6th Jan 2014 and still going ok.
    Fingers crossed x
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