Flee's debt destruction plans

brizzledfw

Heres hoping it's the former!!

The weather hardly helps drive positive emotions does it? Oh well enjoy the last few days of your break x

Flee_2

Morning all.

I am back at work (sighs) and missing being at home today. Still feel a bit delicate today and have a bit of a temperature and slight tummy ache still. Hoping it is my body making little changes but not getting my hopes up as my body is very unpredictable.

Heard from my kids yesterday (they are on holiday with their Dad) and they are having a good time. Though their Dad has annoyed me by not being honest with this holiday. He has a female in USA who he sees a couple of times a year. I don't mind this but when he tells me he is taking the kids on holiday on his own, and then the kids tell me that she is also there. He is being deceitful over this for no reason. I think I have a right to know who is going to be on holiday with my kids.
Am I being unreasonable? I only want to protect my kids.

Flee_2

Plan for the week:

1. Pay some money off Credit Cards
2. List some more items on Ebay
3. Tidy house
4. Sort out Direct Debit for Council Tax

Flee_2

Hello.

My stomach is still playing mind games lol. It really is delicate. Going to have to have a detox session this week to clear my body. Luckily I have no appetite at all, so just going to have water for a week. Feel very uncomfortable and hope it is because I am pregnant.

Got to wait until Friday 9th September before I can do a pregnancy test though. Fingers crossed.

Missing my kids like mad today, too quiet without them in the house.

Flee_2

Stomach is still bad and feels like a big beachball. Been 5 days like this and not getting easier. I also feel nauseous and now starting to be very hungry and extremely tired. To top it all I don't want OH to touch me or kiss me atm (just don't want anyone near me either) and feel very hormonal. It is not good at all.
I must be pregnant, otherwise I am seriously losing the plot. My poor OH has to deal with this later as well.

It will be worth it in the end though, and I am being extremely positive atm, hence not biting OH's head off and crying constantly. Though helps when I am at work and he is at work, and he only sees me later when I am too tired to do anything and am in a zombie-state.

Flee_2

Hi all.

Still got stomach cramps, nausea and tiredness. Last night I could not get comfortable and then woke at 5.45am and could not get back to sleep. Today I am feeling pretty much the same and feeling a bit tearful as well.

Going to leave work early today because of working late yesterday, and will be going straight to sleep. I am so excited that I may be pregnant that I cannot wait until next week when I can finally do a test and see if this is pregnancy or something worse. I am 99% positive that I am pregnant, as I know my own body and it is doing something very different atm.

On the money front, I have slipped up again and bought myself a new phone (current one is playing up and needs replacing) to the tune of £166. Though I will try and pay some of this off by selling current phone, worth about £62.

Hope everyone has a good weekend.

FuzzyBear

Hi Flee

Thought I would pop on over to your diary.

What a palaver with the divorce - me and ex have been separated for over 7 years and haven't got around to a divorce yet! We have broached it and it will be a DIY job as all finances and child access is sorted and very amicable but just haven't progressed further. Perhaps I will make that one of my goals for the New Year when the debt has reduced a bit.

Fingers crossed that it is good news on the baby front. My two are at a nice independant age and the thought of another makes me go :eek: but then I wouldn't win any 'mother of the year awards'. My eldest questions why I had a second - I sometimes question why I had the first

Fuzzy B

Flee_2

Lol. My eldest didn't like babies after his sister came along and took up all my time and attention. But he has come around alot and is very excited about a new brother or sister. Both my children have been involved in this decision.
My divorce should be finalised by the end of the year hopefully.
Thanks for popping by.

Flee_2

Weekend almost over with. Budget going reasonably well apart from buying a new phone. But it is needed as mine is switching itself off too many times.

Still have stomach cramps and a swollen stomach. Not feeling nauseous today. Definitely think I am pregnant but got to wait until closer to Friday to test.

Hope everyone has a good week.

Flee_2

Happy Monday morning to all

Had a lovely weekend at home just relaxing and going to take things easy this week until I find out whether I am going to be a Mummy again. Roll on Friday.
Just a feeling of nausea today and very tired.

Going to try and have half a week of NSDs to make my money last longer this month. I have £55 in my purse and want to keep that for at least another couple of weeks.