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  • I think its lovely for a wedding..It may show the legs but the top and arms are covered.This is the kind of thing most people would choose for a wedding!!I went to a wedding last july and had a shortish embellished french connection dress with matching bag and heels and ive got another summer wedding this year and will defo be going for something similar!!!
  • teameffort
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    i think it's a really nice outfit, very vintage and fitting for a wedding. i would wear it with tights but i think it's about right for her age.

    don't really see an issue.
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  • RazWaz
    RazWaz Posts: 1,070 Forumite
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    Personally I think it looks like a glorified t-shirt instead of a dress, I don't think your being OTT. What happens if she drops something - her knickers will be on show when she picks it up!
  • faithcecilia
    faithcecilia Posts: 1,095 Forumite
    How tall is your step-daughter? The dress is 33" long, which on me (5'5) would be well below my 'knicker-line'. I like the dress and have seen a lot of similar styles. I also consider it practical as it could be easily worn again.
  • Ivrytwr3
    Ivrytwr3 Posts: 6,304 Forumite
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    Is this more suitable?







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  • Abbafan1972
    Abbafan1972 Posts: 7,170 Forumite
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    OP - I've looked at the link and that is supposed to be a dress?

    On the model it looks like she's half dressed.
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  • Caroline73_2
    Caroline73_2 Posts: 2,654 Forumite
    As mother of the groom, why is it your concern what the adult guests are wearing?

    As a big busted girl myself I can tell you that it can be really hard to find nice dresses. What fits up top frowns your bottom half. If you are so concerned, take her to a specialist shop like bravissimo and spend £100 on a dress.

    I think that dress from Asos is lovely. As another poster says it will be longer on most people. It would look amazing with black opaque tights and black heels.
  • Emmzi
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    As I posted on another thread, as a scotsgirl at 16 I could have been away and married without asking permission. I don't think it's appropriate to be telling a young adult at 16 what to wear and I have no idea why you and your partner would be fighting over it.

    Step daughter = dad's word is final, not yours.

    It's a frock. It's not sequinned, it doesn't show acres of cleavage.

    Calm down and stop meddling maybe?
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  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 35,912 Forumite
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    Dazi wrote: »
    'Thanks' for the advice, I know if you post you take what you get!

    won't ask again :(

    You just mean that you're upset that the majority of people haven't jumped in and agreed with you.

    IMHO, you DO sound like a biatch and I can't see what it has got to do with you at all what the girl wears.

    *insert shruggy shoulder smiley that was removed*
  • Craftyscholar
    Craftyscholar Posts: 3,403 Forumite
    Yes it is short (on the model anyway) but in the crush of a wedding, sitting at ceremony, sitting at meal, I would be more relieved that her 36ggg isn't going to be on display. Anyway at 16 maybe 'tasteful' isn't at the front of her mind - if she finds out what you have said she might pick something else:eek:

    Also she is your DSD so you will not be blamed fort how she looks so maybe better to back off and just concentrate on your DS.

    I would be more concerned as to why your OH accused you of drinking.
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