Time to get it sorted!

brizzledfw

Thinking of you Bonnington and sending positive thoughts. Have to say you seem to take it all on yourself. I appreciate your partner is ill but surely she knows how impossible it would be if she didn't work? Do you share financial responsibility? If I am honest it sounds like you do it all

I think you need a break. You've been ill and are recovering. Please try and get time and space for yourself too.

Brizzle

grannyx2

Dear dear Mr B my heart goes out to you reading your last post. I hope things calm down for you soon as you appear to have such a lot of stress in your life at the moment.

Lots of love and warmest heartfelt well wishes

Granny x

cazmanian_minx

((((((((((Bonnington))))))))))

Reading back through your diary, some of the things you've written about how your DW has been feeling really strike a chord. I used to get days where I was so down that it would take me 10 minutes to summon up the energy to put one pair of earrings into a jiffy bag. I didn't think it was depression, because I also got these soaring highs when I felt like I could take on the world and win, but then I'd go crashing back down again.

Then I discovered the Harcombe Diet by Zoe Harcombe. The weight I lost on it was almost a bonus side effect (I started it in the 'healthy' band of the BMI scale and still lost a stone and a half), what has really made a difference to my life is that I have tons more energy and I don't get those crashing lows any more. It's certainly in the Highland libraries system, so it'll probably be in yours too - see if you can borrow a copy for her to read. The first five days (phase 1) may well make her feel pretty horrible, but she'll feel so much better once she's done it that it's worth pushing through. After phase 1 it's pretty easy to fit around work lunches and cooking for a family as well.

sweetpea26

Morning Bonnington.

Time is precious isn't it. We always seem to never have enough of it no matter how simple a life we try to live.

Not easy keeping up with everything is it and now with these last few days to Christmas it gets more hectic even if we try and opt out a bit.

Take care out and about today Keep going

grannyx2

Hope your appraisal goes well Mr B and you enjoy your day off tomorrow x

grannyx2

I hope you manage to find some time over the festive break to relax too Mr B x

NorthernLas

Mr B - It is a Christmas holiday for good reason!!! Do what Granny says.

Stay safe, get your list of jobs then do ONLY a couple a day!!!

All the best for a good Christmas and start to 2013

NewLeaf_2

where is the resting in all this

grannyx2

Hello my dear Mr B, I think one of your great achievements this year has been to keep going despite all the set backs you've faced. I hope you have the most magical Christmas ever x

PinotGrigio41

Mr B , sounds like a lovely relaxing day for you yesterday and so well deserved !

Hope you have a lovely time today x