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Am i entitled or penalised???

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  • sillysue
    sillysue Posts: 86 Forumite
    edited 25 May 2011 at 11:25PM
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  • lauzellen
    lauzellen Posts: 328 Forumite
    So you don't have a mortgage to pay? Seem to be very "me me me" "mine mine mine" to me
    Daughters Sealed Saving Pot - start them young :money: £90 :T
  • sillysue
    sillysue Posts: 86 Forumite
    edited 25 May 2011 at 11:25PM
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  • ska_lover
    ska_lover Posts: 3,773 Forumite
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    OP:- If you think long term- you state that you OH's children from a previous relationship are 16 years + then it won't be much longer before he will not have to pay for them at all which I am sure will be a relief to you as you sound very bitter and resentful that your partner has children with another woman before he ever met you..unfortunately it is the way of the world these days and you will just have to get over yourself and mature a little.
    The opposite of what you know...is also true
  • sillysue
    sillysue Posts: 86 Forumite
    edited 25 May 2011 at 11:25PM
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  • ska_lover
    ska_lover Posts: 3,773 Forumite
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    edited 16 February 2011 at 5:53PM
    sillysue wrote: »
    Why reply to posts Anxiousmum if I get on your goat so much...bizarre behaviour!

    I think she was trying to help you, and realised that was not going to be possible, and gave up trying to help someone so unpleasent!
    The opposite of what you know...is also true
  • sillysue
    sillysue Posts: 86 Forumite
    edited 25 May 2011 at 11:26PM
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  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Photogenic Combo Breaker
    People can't judge your relationship without you giving them the information to judge.
    Tank fly boss walk jam nitty gritty...
  • lauzellen
    lauzellen Posts: 328 Forumite
    ok so let me get this straight... you have over 1.8K income each month of your own after tax (I shall discount your OHs income since this is "taken" by maintenance and old debts), the benefit of a company car and no mortgage or rent to pay and yet you are complaining that this isn't enough and you should get more help from the tax payer? I'd have more respect had you paid off you mortgage yourself instead of relying on bank of mum and dad to buy you a house... and before you try the jealous card nope I am not, my parents could more than afford to buy me a house or two but I choose to not accept as think they may need this money in later life and I want to stand on my own two feet.
    Daughters Sealed Saving Pot - start them young :money: £90 :T
  • sillysue
    sillysue Posts: 86 Forumite
    edited 25 May 2011 at 11:26PM
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