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Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! 2

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  • hngrymummy
    hngrymummy Posts: 955 Forumite
    Hello. Just passing through.
    Just in case no-one else has mentioned it, Case Notes on Radio 4 just now was about Morning Sickness and hyperemesis. Might be worth listening to.
    If having different experiences, thoughts and ideas to you, or having an opinion that you don't understand, makes me a troll, then I am proud to be a 100% crying, talking, sleeping, walking, living Troll. :hello:
  • I've had weird dreams too! I dreamt I was visiting the maternity hospital, and someone gave me a baby with a huge blond afro (!!) and said "This is your baby" but I knew it wasn't as I was still pregnant. Very odd.

    I'm still waiting for midwife to get in touch. I phoned & left a message on her mobile yesterday but no response yet :o I'm so impatient!

    Hope you're all well xxx
  • Sequeena
    Sequeena Posts: 4,728 Forumite
    *Twinkle* wrote: »
    been browsing prams today, seen 1 i like, silver cross 3d, with a free car seat included, so if all is well with my scan on thursday i may go get it:)

    I have the silver cross 3d in charcoal, it's lovely :)
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  • ddebski_us
    ddebski_us Posts: 1,107 Forumite
    Morning ladies

    Loving the talk of prams - makes me feel like I'm pregnant!!

    11+5 today. Made it further than last time!!:j:j:j

    However, had a little cry this morning. :( I feel sad for the baby I lost, and pertified of going into the scan room again. The thought of lying there in silence whilst the sonographer looks intently at the screen that I can't see, dreading the words "I'm sorry" again. I can see the tears rolling down my face already, whether it's good news or not. I almost don't want to go. :(

    I just hope it's a better experience this time. Sorry for bringing the thread down.

    xDx
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  • Clarieloo
    Clarieloo Posts: 390 Forumite
    Debs - you're bound to feel like that. <<<HUGS>>> I was petrified at my scan and I didn't even have the past experience you did. I started crying as soon as she said "well we have a little baby". And I think it was tears of relief so either way you probably will cry. Don't be ashamed - you won't be the first and you won't be the last one to do it. Good luck x
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  • Flower08
    Flower08 Posts: 4,771 Forumite
    Debs of course you are going to feel like that - big hugs for you!
    I am sure everything is going to go smoothly for you :D and before you know it you will be walking out that hospital proudly holding your scan picture.
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  • Winnie_in_Pooh
    Winnie_in_Pooh Posts: 1,176 Forumite
    Big hugs Debs xxx Like Flower says, I'm sure everything will go well and you'll soon be showing the world your little pic :)
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    ddebski_us wrote: »
    I can see the tears rolling down my face already, whether it's good news or not. I almost don't want to go. :(

    I cry every single time they tell me the baby is ok.. I've had several m/c's so am always apprehensive.

    Got booking appt today.. 17th March .. which seems AAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGES away.. though I am fully aware it is only 2 weeks. ;)

    I am ringing docs at some point next week for an EPU appt.. I can't stand any longer not knowing how far on things are.
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  • ddebski_us
    ddebski_us Posts: 1,107 Forumite
    pigpen wrote: »
    I cry every single time they tell me the baby is ok.. I've had several m/c's so am always apprehensive.

    Got booking appt today.. 17th March .. which seems AAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGES away.. though I am fully aware it is only 2 weeks. ;)

    I am ringing docs at some point next week for an EPU appt.. I can't stand any longer not knowing how far on things are.

    See, it's when I think about women who have been through so much more than me I feel like I'm being stupid. It's just that wait until they speak.... Hate it.

    Time does drag doesn't it when you're 1st tri - you might be weeks on though - hope you find out next week!!

    xDx
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  • pigpen
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    ddebski_us wrote: »
    See, it's when I think about women who have been through so much more than me I feel like I'm being stupid. It's just that wait until they speak.... Hate it.

    Time does drag doesn't it when you're 1st tri - you might be weeks on though - hope you find out next week!!

    xDx

    The first m/c is the worst.. esp. when you are not expecting it.. bleeding and being scanned you kind of have in your head it is over anyway but when you go in to the booking scan all happy and excited and get hit with the bombshell that is harder.

    I've had 9 children and 7 m/c's and lost the twins to 2 of the children.. 1 came away fully at about 8 weeks and the other stayed embedded in DD1's placenta and bled constantly throughout the pregnancy. I am very numb to m/c now, I have a bit of a blub and move on.. I don't remember due dates or anything.

    And hell yes the time drags!

    I am somewhere between 8 and 11 weeks.. I haven't felt any movement or kicks yet which I usually do by 11 weeks.. though I am so full of wind I probably wouldn't know the difference at the moment.

    And I still haven't told OH... :o
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