Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! 2

skintchick

Well, ladies, after my brown blood the other day, today I've had small clots (teeny tiny) and some pinky stuff when I wipe. Got referred to EPU, who found an irregular-shaped sac ('not good', they said) and tiny embryo which measures 6 weeks when I should be 10 weeks. Too small to see a heart beat at 4mm long.

Doctor said he is 'very concerned about this pregnancy' (he was foreign) and booked me for another scan next week, at which baby is to have doubled in size and developed visible heartbeat, otherwise they will say it has died. And then I guess i have to deal with what I might need to do.

If it doesn;t spontaneously miscarry over the next week.

I have blood on my pad now, although it is more brown than red, and still tiny clots like 1mm across, and some mild cramping like the stretching you get in early pregnancy.

I am clutching at straws and hoping it will be OK, but the reality is I tested positive on Jan 25 with a Clearblue Digital which said 1-2 weeks pregnant, and we only had sex once. So I can;t be 6 weeks pregnant, even with a 35-day, irregular cycle.

Am desperately trying to believe we will get a miracle, and wondering how the hell I will get through the next week without going mad.

pigpen

((hugs skintchick))

What will be will be.. and it doesn't sound promising Look after yourself..

hulagirl79

Ah skintchick I am keeping my fingers crossed for you. I hope it is all ok
xx

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ddebski_us wrote: »

Morning ladies

Loving the talk of prams - makes me feel like I'm pregnant!!

11+5 today. Made it further than last time!!:j:j:j

However, had a little cry this morning. I feel sad for the baby I lost, and pertified of going into the scan room again. The thought of lying there in silence whilst the sonographer looks intently at the screen that I can't see, dreading the words "I'm sorry" again. I can see the tears rolling down my face already, whether it's good news or not. I almost don't want to go.


I just hope it's a better experience this time. Sorry for bringing the thread down.

xDx

dont worry hun thats wat w are all here for, i know how you feel im hving the same thougts at the moment we had the same last time, but im still getting bigger so fingers . x


skintchick, bigs hugs for you hun. dont know what to say but feel for you. x

portsmouthali

So sorry Skintchick, will be thinking of you over the coming week. Take care of yourself and make sure you get lots of extra hugs from your little girl xxx

Debs, I'm exactly the same as you - I dread seeing that black screen at the EPU, and willing them to have made a mistake and to tell me that it's actually going to be OK.

I still haven't heard from my midwife or got my scan date! Will be phoning her again tomorrow if I haven't heard anything by then.

Flower08

Skintchick - I am so sorry to hear what you have been going through, I have got everything crossed for you xxx

Flower08

portsmouthali wrote: »

I still haven't heard from my midwife or got my scan date! Will be phoning her again tomorrow if I haven't heard anything by then.

How far along are you now? Sorry memory like a fish :rotfl:

portsmouthali

Flower08 wrote: »

How far along are you now? Sorry memory like a fish :rotfl:

8+2 - I think! May possibly be 10 weeks as I had very light AF early in Jan which my GP thinks may not have been a period. I had a proper 5 days of bleeding AF mid-December which my GP is counting as my last AF. I think he's wrong, but if I'm further along then great!

ashli_2

Really sorry to hear that Skintchick.


I am amazed that you ha e managed not to tell your OH pigpen, it;s all I can do not to tell EVERYONE. I'm pretty sure I'll tell next week, I have a private scan booked for a week today. I know it's still early, but I actually can't contain myself any longer!

7 weeks now- and on Saturday I will have known for 4 weeks. Only seven more to go! :j

manda1205

skintchick wrote: »

Well, ladies, after my brown blood the other day, today I've had small clots (teeny tiny) and some pinky stuff when I wipe. Got referred to EPU, who found an irregular-shaped sac ('not good', they said) and tiny embryo which measures 6 weeks when I should be 10 weeks. Too small to see a heart beat at 4mm long.

Doctor said he is 'very concerned about this pregnancy' (he was foreign) and booked me for another scan next week, at which baby is to have doubled in size and developed visible heartbeat, otherwise they will say it has died. And then I guess i have to deal with what I might need to do.

If it doesn;t spontaneously miscarry over the next week.

I have blood on my pad now, although it is more brown than red, and still tiny clots like 1mm across, and some mild cramping like the stretching you get in early pregnancy.

I am clutching at straws and hoping it will be OK, but the reality is I tested positive on Jan 25 with a Clearblue Digital which said 1-2 weeks pregnant, and we only had sex once. So I can;t be 6 weeks pregnant, even with a 35-day, irregular cycle.

Am desperately trying to believe we will get a miracle, and wondering how the hell I will get through the next week without going mad.

Oh skintchick I am so sorry, that sounds exactly what happened to me in Dec, I had brown/red spots and the stomach cramps too. I chose to have ERPC the next day as it was on 21st and didnt want to have to worry over christmas. Also during my week wait for the next scan all my PG sypmtoms disappeared. So hoping everything is ok for you.
Hope your scan goes well debski, thinking of you.
I'll be unsubscribing now, so hope you all do ok and have lovely healthy babies. Thank you for your support.