Rudie talk on MSE

savingsgirl

Feelinggood I have pmed you to tell you this thread is not aimed at you. If you disagree with my point of view, fine. However, I have found some posts inappropriate and offensive and i wondered if others felt the same. I have not named names or given links to threads. If you are happy with your posts then thats all that matters.

victory

Good question feelinggood, I bet the answer is not many or none! People tend to be offended, then huff and puff to themselves and not do anything about it!xx

feelinggood_2

Savingsgirl, I appreciated your PM, but couldn't reply as your box was full
Wasn't meant to sound aggressive that, but I am just curious.
I've never had a pm telling me I was being offensive, but if I had, then maybe I'd have stopped all that malarky sooner.
You know what I mean?
I've confused myself, where is my wine??

Loop

I think only a tiny minority would actually PM someone to tell them, they would not want the hassle, most people would not remove it, as they would see no harm and then a fight could erupt publically.

It is better for abuse to deal with it, even if it takes a while they get around to it eventually, and that way it is impartial.

Kangol_Rat

feelinggood wrote:

One thing I'd like to ask (yes I'm back hehe, staying away never works with MSE!) is, how many people who disapprove of the 'rudie' posts, have ever PM'ed someone whose post they found offensive to tell them?

nay! none have offended me, i just think "whoa, keeping out this!":rotfl:

anyway you, I LOVE your posts, so please dont think anyone is aiming it at you (read prevoius)!










bring back the nana!

feelinggood_2

Loop wrote:

I think only a tiny minority would actually PM someone to tell them, they would not want the hassle, most people would not remove it, as they would see no harm and then a fight could erupt publically.

It is better for abuse to deal with it, even if it takes a while they get around to it eventually, and that way it is impartial.

Maybe I'm special then
If I offended someone, I would remove or reword my post, and would be more careful in future.

Kangol_Rat

feelinggood wrote:

Savingsgirl, I appreciated your PM, but couldn't reply as your box was full
Wasn't meant to sound aggressive that, but I am just curious.
I've never had a pm telling me I was being offensive, but if I had, then maybe I'd have stopped all that malarky sooner.
You know what I mean?
I've confused myself, where is my wine??

feelinggood_2

Kangol_Rat wrote:

nay! none have offended me, i just think "whoa, keeping out this!":rotfl:

anyway you, I LOVE your posts, so please dont think anyone is aiming it at you (read prevoius)!

bring back the nana!

Awww thankies sweetie
Hows your hand btw?
I'll be staying as the deep fried pizza eating guy for a week or so, will think about letting the nana back then

Kangol_Rat

feelinggood wrote:

Awww thankies sweetie
Hows your hand btw?
I'll be staying as the deep fried pizza eating guy for a week or so, will think about letting the nana back then

sore, but i did bang it 3 times yesterday!! hhaha!

yay, nana!!!

feelinggood_2

Kangol_Rat wrote:

sore, but i did bang it 3 times yesterday!! hhaha!

yay, nana!!!

Awww thats no fun!!
Hope its better soon, remember - no housework!!
I think the banana was a tad naughty, is there a compromise?