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MSE Parents Club Part 16

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  • Gillyx
    Gillyx Posts: 6,847 Forumite
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    I'd say it's about average then, my close friends little boy goes down at 8 and he's up at 5, then sleeps til about 8/9 again. I think as she gets older it'l gradually get less.

    My other friends girls didn't start sleeping through the night until close to 6/7 months :eek:
    The frontier is never somewhere else. And no stockades can keep the midnight out.
  • Make-it-3
    Make-it-3 Posts: 1,661 Forumite
    Hi to all the newbies here.

    I don't want to disappoint, but a lot of mum's brag about their babies sleeping through. My 10 month old has only slept through on a handful of occasions (most of which are due to sheer exhaustion having had no daytime naps the previous day) and many of my friends are still up 2 or 3 times a night. Yes, some babies do get into a rhythm early on but there are so many things that can upset this - colds, teething, growth spurts etc.
    We Made-it-3 on 28/01/11 with birth of our gorgeous DD.
  • My LO is 3 months old (13 weeks today) and he still wakes once in the night for a feed and thats in addition to a dreamfeed at 10.30/11pm. I am getting sick of hearing friends brag their LOs are sleeping 7 till 7 or even 10.30 till 7, which I would be more than happy with. But he must be hungry as he is draining 6 oz in the night. I guess I just have to wait it out and eventually he will sleep longer.
    Leo James arrived 7 days late on 26th August 2011 by emergency CS :j Such a cheeky chappy now :T
  • gizmodo_2
    gizmodo_2 Posts: 1,859 Forumite
    Ooops hope I didn't offend anyone. I did say I thought I was lucky.
    Baby Giz born 6/2/11
  • wendz86
    wendz86 Posts: 7,171 Forumite
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    Poppy is 7 months and no where near sleeping through. Doesn't bother me as much now though as I think I have just accepted it and she doesn't stay awake long so i still get a reasonable amount of sleep. She will get there when she is ready.
  • wendz86
    wendz86 Posts: 7,171 Forumite
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    Of course you didn't offend Giz as you said all babies are different ! Don't want those mums whose babies who don't sleep through to think they aren't normal.
  • Doglover
    Doglover Posts: 1,024 Forumite
    I don't normally do dream feed at 10.30 as seems to make no diff but he seemed restless last night so I did. He only managed about 2/3 of his bottle then when he woke usual time of 2 ish he only had about his bottle. I think I'll stick to avoiding it unless he actually wakes.

    I'm happy with my lo's sleeping pattern because although he wakes once that is a massive improvement from not sleeping at all!

    He's currently napping in his big cot in his own room! Trying to get him used to it
  • jenjade
    jenjade Posts: 8,418 Forumite
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    i love the sleep conversations my DD1 is 9 YEAR old and she wakes up loads in the night and always has. now she goes to bed at 8pm falls asleep at about 8.30 then gets up for a wee a couple of times and is wake reading books in bed by 6am! she has always been an awful sleeper! but we have learnt to live with it
    :j Proud mum to Jade age 10 years and Baby Ellie born Christmas Day:eek: with a broke heart :( Proven to be a little fighter and battling on with her heart condition :j
  • Make-it-3
    Make-it-3 Posts: 1,661 Forumite
    I agree, it seems logical to us to do a feed just before we go to bed to make them sleep longer, but I found it made no difference either and so dropped it quite early on. I guess its possible that even stirring them to dream feed upsets their normal sleeping pattern.
    We Made-it-3 on 28/01/11 with birth of our gorgeous DD.
  • <peers in> hello? anyone here?
    ;) Working hard in the hopes of being 'lucky' ;)
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