"Your life is an occasion. Rise to it"

ZTD

Karmacat wrote: »

Underlying issues, Z, is all. But thank you!

:grouphug:

I just hope the underlying issues aren't causing you to beat yourself up about doing things which are unrealistic to do. I know it probably isn't appreciated in the age of the car, but twenty five miles on foot is a long way.

Karmacat

Thanks for that! The websites you unearth are fascinating

Pippilongstocking

ZTD wrote: »

:grouphug:

I just hope the underlying issues aren't causing you to beat yourself up about doing things which are unrealistic to do. I know it probably isn't appreciated in the age of the car, but twenty five miles on foot is a long way.

Aint that briliant? Ta!

We all need to be thankful we aint a penguin they walk 60-70 mile for each go at getting food................blimey

(hope that made you giggle):T

MrsMoo2U

Ah, KC have another hug love.

Normal is different for everybody. As Cheery says find your own normal. We all compare ourselves too much to others I think. What plans do you have for this weekend, I hope it involves something you love to do such as Egyptology.

Karmacat

Thanks for the hug! :kisses3:

Thats what I'm saying, MrsMoo, at the top of this page .... the October weekend *was* my normal, this summer again. And now its suddenly not, which feels pretty bad.

I think I need to go back to "onwards and upwards" :j

MrsMoo2U

Karmacat wrote: »

Thanks for the hug! :kisses3:

Thats what I'm saying, MrsMoo, at the top of this page .... the October weekend *was* my normal, this summer again. And now its suddenly not, which feels pretty bad.

I think I need to go back to "onwards and upwards" :j

To infinity and beyond KC.

Normal changes for all of us all of the time remember. I mean I "normally" used to see my friends every week and my brothers twice a week. Now I "normally" see them every few months.

Go with the flow.

turfy6

Whatever you decide to do KC have a fab weekendand look after yourself too hugs:beer:

youareallhelpingme

Evening KC, I have been around lurking and reading, sorry to hear things are off balance for you.

One thing that stands out was that you said you arm was so painful it felt like it was broken and the tshirt hurt the swelling - please please go back to your consultant as that is not at all right. They need to sort your medication, pain makes life very miserable. It drains you completely and I can see that it would knock the life/confidence/energy out of you.

Once the pain is sorted you wont be "afraid" of the winter and its "effects".

I know there may be other factors that you dont want to go into on here, but start by fixing one thing and the rest will follow xxxxxx

Pippilongstocking

To infinity and beyond indeed - morning lady have a great great day.

gilligansyle

Pippilongstocking wrote: »

To infinity and beyond indeed - morning lady have a great great day.

:T:T

Everyone has a different normal, at the moment 'normal' for me involves driving a couple of hundred miles a day. My sister thinks anything more than a 5 mile journey needs a Sherpa guide!

Work with it, find the balance that's right for you, but don't worry about it, as I think its the fear of being ill that is crippling you at the moment.