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  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Triciaxx wrote: »
    I'm so glad you've got your balance back. It may sound strange to you but I follow you as one of the most balanced posters on here. It's a wake up call for me that the balance can be so fragile - I 'knew' it but had got complacent.
    cherisong wrote: »
    I think that Tricia just made me understand why I love coming to read your diary.

    This is so right. You are always so calm and collected. So a little blip is a bit of a jolt. I forgot to say also, please dont go anywhere.
    Lula-Hula wrote: »
    That's more like it :D Karmacat,

    I'm a bit concerned that you're experiencing tough times - agree with how Tricia put it.

    Permission to leave denied :p.

    How lovely :kisses3::kisses3::kisses3: And thank you again to everyone who posted :o Odd to think of myself as balanced, but there you go :o

    I did indeed have a lovely day yesterday - buying kitchen tiles and whatnot for my sister, I had a helpful convo with the people there about the mould I found in the bathroom, then a lovely day at her, with both her kids ... reminiscing about the past, plotting for the future :D especially Norfolk and the summer in general :) it was great.

    Today, after I've more or less got my act together, I definitely need to do stuff in the garden - plant up that mint, for instance? That would be nice :rotfl: and some weeding. I have bush that might be blackcurrants :o which I really had better pick ... more raspberries ... what a very nice little garden I have :)

    Then shower off all that pollen and off out to a Games Evening, which I adore :j I have a bottle of wine already, on a Sainsbo deal, so its just a single train ticket and then a walk to the house ... wearing something *pleasant* from my wardrobe, not something I've thrown on cos its easy :j

    Off for a canter around the diaries, while Gok is teaching a former beauty queen to love herself again :)
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    Sounds like a lovely day & evening ... all the better for some wine too :D

    xx
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    I just lost a huge post! Bother! I basically came on to prattle, and went into a metaphysical land of the positivity I'd learned from mse, in place of the relentless self-examination/diving into the dark that I'd been living in. Possibly the universe just rescued me from being too specific on that :rotfl:this is a wonderful place, you know!

    Anyway, prattle beckons: I realised I didn't need to live with the choices made by the previous inhabitants :D in the garden, and have been chopping away at a particular plant that I really quite dislike, as well as seeing to more of the dratted sedge. And I've been weeding, and doing more widening of the border, so I can plant my stuff.

    Came inside to get away from the sun and snack :D and investigated the rest of the oven instead, now the door is clean, thats possible. I thought it was going to be as bad as the door, but its not :j all that needs hard cleaning is the door ledge and the shelf supports, which means I'm nearly done :j:j:j the inside really didn't need much of a clean at all :)

    So now, a bit more lolling about, I'll go plant a few things, then go soak in the bath *properly*, in celebration, and preparation for tonight :)

    You lovely lot :kisses3::kisses3::kisses3:
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • Lula-Hula
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    Oooooh bizarre,

    I often do long rambling & very self indulgent posts ... only to find I lose my connection or similar. I think it is the MSE guardian angels who think "oh no, she'll really regret posting that lot so I'll just dissolve it into the ether " :D.

    Been building a wardrobe for DD. It's only 6 mnths since i bought it & it has been in boxes against the wall in her room ever since :o.

    Just bashed my nail with a hammer & yelled out a profanity so have been sent out to cool down & watch tennis for a while.

    Time to break open the cider me thinks ;)
  • Triciaxx
    Triciaxx Posts: 659 Forumite
    ZTD wrote: »
    Some Americans did a study on this (who funds these things?), and pretty much reckoned it was about 24 hours before anything crawled/grew on it.
    Well there's a relief. When I was studying Public Health, we took swabs from 'clean' plates and it put me off eating out in restaurants for quite a while :eek::eek: I think/hope standards have improved.

    If you're laid low by bacteria from a nominal healthy workmate, then your immune system needs to go on a Jane Fonda Workout (other exercise regimes may be available). Agreed!
    Karmacat wrote: »
    and went into a metaphysical land of the positivity I'd learned from mse, in place of the relentless self-examination/diving into the dark that I'd been living in.
    LOL :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: That does sound like the pronunciations which are improved by some wine/beer/cider/tipple of choice

    You lovely lot :kisses3::kisses3::kisses3:

    And back to you. :kisses3::kisses:
    But how can you know what you want till you get what you want and you see if you like it?
  • Karmacat
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    Hi there! Ah yes, the language studies as she relates to alcohol :D much better! Bit early right now, especially as I'm drinking tonight :D but I'm almost ready to go out, just hanging out now - planted the mint I brought with me in a pot (finally!!!) but I'll need to do some watering before I go out tonight...

    :kisses3::kisses3:

    Tricia - I found where I got the thing about Wharfedale from - its this:

    http://www.zoence.com/article/the-continent-of-europe

    The one I was referring to is the second map down on the right entitled Mercury: The Grail Land - the map expands. I had it in a booklet, and its online now, of course. The booklet actually sounds a bit potty now, but it made sense at the time :)
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    Sounds like you've had a very productive day in the garden and that you've a lovely evening planned
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    Thanks Taxi! Shutting down now

    xxx
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • MatyMoo
    MatyMoo Posts: 3,176 Forumite
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    Hope you have fun at the quiz :)
    :j Proud Member of Mike's Mob :j
  • gilligansyle
    gilligansyle Posts: 4,124 Forumite
    Hope you had a lovely evening and got to wear something 'planned' rather than just something that was *there* or *clean*.
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