Weekly Flylady Thread 27th December 2010

juliejim

Quillion wrote: »

He has already promised to tell Jake what i am like !!!

Well if he was telling him what you were like he would be telling him what a wonderful mum you are!

JennyJewell

Hmm see I would be very tempted to just try and find a way of taking Jake now hunny x Love and hugs to hun x
Jen x

Quillion wrote: »

Thanks for the hug i need it.

Jake is 5 he says i did not tell him i was going away of course i did tell him.

He has since text back and said he will have him but i am thinking he will wait till sunday and not be there when i drop him off.

I thought he would enjoy a week with his son silly me !!!!

He is working but his girlfriend does not work and her daughter is in the same class as Jake so she can take them both to school.

He just keeps saying i am an unfit mother and will use this against me in court i know he will. He has already promised to tell Jake what i am like !!!

mummyroysof3

Dustykitten wrote: »

If you loved the dog and the peg bag thread and want a giggle then try the caravan thread

was late putting the kids to bed as i was reading that:rotfl:

Quillion

juliejim wrote: »

Well if he was telling him what you were like he would be telling him what a wonderful mum you are!

in his eyes i met another man and left him which is the truth. before he knew about my man he told me he was leaving me and moved in with my best freind but i am a slag according to him.

a bit more complex than that but you get the picture.

Maxonian

Mumof2 wrote: »

Well, the visit to the GP went really well. I showed her my list with all my thoughts/feelings on and she didn't turn a hair - it's all classic depression. She's changed me to a different antidepressant, reassured me everything is perfectly normal, and I'm to go and see her the week after next. She reassured me everything will be fine and was genuinely lovely. DH was in with me and is being so supportive - I really am very lucky.

Kids in bed, I'm about to sit down and knit some more.

Quillon, so sorry to hear your ex is being such an idiot. Hope you can resolve this. Big hugs xx

Glad it all went well. Having supportive people around you is always a bonus.
x

seafarers_wife

what a muppet quillion. you are best shot of him, hope you manage to sort something out for Jake.

well ive started my list. i have hoovered the kitchen, hoovered the hall, picked up my washing and done a bin bag dance. my list for tomorrow since its now to late to hoover (out of consideration for neighbours of course :rotfl:)

clean outside windows providing its dry
hoover living room
hoover stairs
mop downstairs
plump sofa
hoover sofa
do ironing (think pigs may fly)

JennyJewell

Quillion it sounds like he is saying these things to get to you - don't let him win hunny x Don't ever show him emotion either - anger, hurt, tears - none of them, just smile sweetly and be polite no matter how much it hurts you - he won't have anything on you then love and he will show his true colours in front of others. It will frustrate him that he isn't getting to you and I promise you you will be on top hunny x
Jen x

Maxonian

JennyJewell wrote: »

Quillion it sounds like he is saying these things to get to you - don't let him win hunny x Don't ever show him emotion either - anger, hurt, tears - none of them, just smile sweetly and be polite no matter how much it hurts you - he won't have anything on you then love and he will show his true colours in front of others. It will frustrate him that he isn't getting to you and I promise you you will be on top hunny x
Jen x

Wise words.....

skylight

Quillon Sorry about the EX. Some of them are idiots. Let him threaten all he likes - how can he use him refusing to have his son so you can go on holiday against you? A bit delusional (like my ex!!)


Right - I have done my ironing!! The bag has been sat there for two months so after the decs being put away I have done the ironing before New Year!! And washed the floor in the front room. I haven't ever done this much work in one day; then again I haven't joined a flylady thread and listed what needs doing before either!

JennyJewell

Thank you Maxonian x
Jen x