Cross Stitch Cafe 2011

catchooky

Hey everyone hope you're all ok
Haven't been doing much stitching at the moment cos my hearts not really in it cos ive been a bit down

My man's been lovely the last couple of weeks, really affectionate which is rather out of character for him hes usually rather reticent about how he feels, have been so smiley about it, but the past few days he's been a bit moody - when I've asked him what's up he sys nothing hes just tired. BUT when i logged onto facebook this morning he's says he 'wishes he could just sleep his troubles away'
Have texted him asking what's up as i dunno what to do, i cant help him if he wont talk to me, but yet his mates on fb (who are almost all girls btw) seem to know whats up with him? If i ask him if its me he gets annoyed that I'm asking and tells me no - aaaaaaaaaaaaargh its making me so stressed! We're supposed to go out to dinner tonight to a big fancy meal (his treat as he said i deserve it for everything i've done for him) but worried that him being down will mean i end up nagging him about whats up n I'll spoil it grrrrr


sorry for the rant peeps just at a bit of a loss

chickywiggle

catchooky wrote: »

Hey everyone hope you're all ok
Haven't been doing much stitching at the moment cos my hearts not really in it cos ive been a bit down

My man's been lovely the last couple of weeks, really affectionate which is rather out of character for him hes usually rather reticent about how he feels, have been so smiley about it, but the past few days he's been a bit moody - when I've asked him what's up he sys nothing hes just tired. BUT when i logged onto facebook this morning he's says he 'wishes he could just sleep his troubles away'
Have texted him asking what's up as i dunno what to do, i cant help him if he wont talk to me, but yet his mates on fb (who are almost all girls btw) seem to know whats up with him? If i ask him if its me he gets annoyed that I'm asking and tells me no - aaaaaaaaaaaaargh its making me so stressed! We're supposed to go out to dinner tonight to a big fancy meal (his treat as he said i deserve it for everything i've done for him) but worried that him being down will mean i end up nagging him about whats up n I'll spoil it grrrrr


sorry for the rant peeps just at a bit of a loss

<<hugss>> I know what I'd be suspecting if it was me but I don't really want to say, although am sure the thought would have crossed your mind. Reallly hope its just work problems or something tho and you can work through it.

love that dinosaur *louise*

well i don't know what time hubby roled in last night (he wasn't home at 11.30 but was when i fed tiny at 2.30). he choose to sleep downstairs again and do you know what........... I don't care!!

chickywiggle

ooops i caved and it's all across town stitchings fault!!

just bought boofle bbq mini kit for my daddys birthday card

and peanut christmas stocking

catchooky

thanks chicky, had a wee chat with him this morning and he explained he was just really tired so feel a lot better about that

Am feeling positive that we'll have a lovely evening so think we can have a good chat tomorrow which should go well *thinking positive thoughts* gotta run off to get ready and pack before meeting my counsellor today - have a good day peeps xxx

Observer

Hi Catchooky -

EDIT: Cross postiing I think - ill change what I put to say that I'm glad that he has put your mind at rest. Try and concentrate on having a lovely evening and hopefully it will help you both xx


Chicky thats nothing to cave in about - its only little and oh so cute lol!

Louise I love that dinosaur - Where abouts in Scotland is the museaum? Is it any good?

mrs-moneypenny

catchooky hope you have a lovely evening
dinosaur looks great louise perhaps you could feed the 'friend' that trashed your boxes to it!
23rd glad you got all those mags- such a bargain

weather lovely so looks like well all be outside stitching. i will now ironing mountain is tackled

have a good weekend all

*Louise*

Observer wrote: »

Louise I love that dinosaur - Where abouts in Scotland is the museaum? Is it any good?

It's on Chambers Street Edinburgh. It is great, massive inside -



We didn't get round the whole place because it was so busy and the younger ones were getting cranky but definitely going back another day. (Hubby and I might go by ourselves actually, get peace to actually look at things):D



Best thing is...it's a free day out :money::money::T

Flat_Eric

I sorted through my mags this morning and dug out all the xmas themed ones. So when I get bored of stitching the mouseloft kits, I can find something else festive to stitch :rudolf: :j

I have just been browsing on sew n so for a 60th themed birthday card - found nothing yet but did see this - card? but wonder whether this would be too big to fit in a card ? and whether this is too over the top ? I like simple easy to stitch designs..... what do you think ?

Ruth_honey

There must be something in the air making men act up at the moment. I ended up storming out last night & going for a late night walk after finding out for the 3rd time in a fortnight, my disgusting hubby had forgotten to flush the toilet. :mad::mad::mad: I'm getting really sick of it and he doesn't seem to listen when I tell him how vile it is. Anyway, I wandered around the streets for a while until I calmed down. Saw a hedgehog outside our house, which was nice.
He's being extra nice today, and brought me a cup of tea when I was in the bath. Would much prefer it if he'd just remember not to do things that make me mad in the first place, though.

Did a little bit of stitching on my Dictionary Of Cakes yesterday. I am desperate to start a new kit/chart, but must actually finish something before I do. Got Princess Palace & DOC all gridded up & not sure how long you can leave the lines on the fabric before they no longer wash out. They were fine after 6 months when I stitched Dictionary of Bras, but I'm sure it's been almost a year with these 2 WIPs. At least.

Observer

*Louise* wrote: »

It's on Chambers Street Edinburgh. It is great, massive inside -



We didn't get round the whole place because it was so busy and the younger ones were getting cranky but definitely going back another day. (Hubby and I might go by ourselves actually, get peace to actually look at things):D



Best thing is...it's a free day out :money::money::T

Well although I don't live near Edinburgh it is nearer for me than London!! Soooo am def going to try plan a trip sometime soon to this new museum as I love things like that but we don't have these things near me in south Cumbria And freebies are all the better!! I could easily get a train up for a night with a friend so I think I need to get bribing