Weekly Flylady Thread 25th October 2010

kazwookie

Hex~ hope it heals up soon, ice lollies are ment to help the swelling go down.

OH is upset atm, alomst in tears, it seems his son has set a date for the wedding, early Dec ie 5 weeks away, BUT I am not invited, now I really don't mind, spending the afternoon at a very small wedding with his ex is NOT me, but for some reason he seems very upset by it, I didn't go to his grand children's christening etc and that didn't bother him, I really don't know what to say to him, as he snaps at me when I say anything, thank goodness it is nearly bed time.

Shysarah

Tuesday ~ Kitchen and Dining area
Level One
Sweep and mop the floor - End of week job
[STRIKE]Clear and wipe worksurfaces
Shine the sink![/STRIKE]
Level Two
[STRIKE]Wipe fronts of appliances and units
Get out your toothbrush and scrub the grout and taps!
Wipe table and replace cloth if needed[/STRIKE]
Level Three
[STRIKE]Clear and wipe window sills
Clean the oven and hob..
Scrubbing of the fridge[/STRIKE]

Extras
[STRIKE]Sort the childrens undies.. what needs replacing/flinging/hitting with a stick? [/STRIKE] N/A
Wipe skirtings
wash windows
[STRIKE]Thoroughly clean out the jars and spices and cereal shelves[/STRIKE]

Wednesday - Master bedroom & landing
Level One
[STRIKE]Strip and wash sheets
Vacuum and turn mattress before replacing clean sheets[/STRIKE] Done last week (done once a fortnight here)
Level Two
[STRIKE]15 minutes floordrobe clearance[/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]Wash windows [/STRIKE]- Did the other week and still shiny clean
Vacuum floors - End of week job
Level Three
[STRIKE]Dust and deweb
Wipe paintwork[/STRIKE]
Sort through a cupboard.. make it neat and tidy and get rid of what you no longer wear/need/use - Maybe at the weekend my whole wardrobe needs a proper overhaul.
Extras
[STRIKE]Sort through a box of junk fom the landing [/STRIKE] N/A
[STRIKE]Binbag dance [/STRIKE]
[STRIKE]Collect all the dirty laundry from upstairs! [/STRIKE] N/A
[STRIKE]HHI or half hour doing something that needs it! [/STRIKE] Off to do this now..
:T:T
Yay, its amazing what you can do when you get going..

Valli

kazwookie wrote: »

Hex~ hope it heals up soon, ice lollies are ment to help the swelling go down.

OH is upset atm, alomst in tears, it seems his son has set a date for the wedding, early Dec ie 5 weeks away, BUT I am not invited, now I really don't mind, spending the afternoon at a very small wedding with his ex is NOT me, but for some reason he seems very upset by it, I didn't go to his grand children's christening etc and that didn't bother him, I really don't know what to say to him, as he snaps at me when I say anything, thank goodness it is nearly bed time.

perhaps he sees it as a slight to him, IYSWIM...as though his son is saying he wishes things were different. Or he feels guilty, that if he had handled things differently you would have been accepted into the family? That would explain the snapping at you, maybe?

(just guessing...)

msgnomey

nite all
xxx

ajmoney

froddington wrote: »

When I had to have a new windscreen, I had to pay the excess on my policy but it didn't count as a claim or affect my no claims. I have a crack in my windscreen now that will be sorted in the next few days.

Yes, we found out the repair guy had been fibbing just after I posted that!

I have been decluttering a lot of bartering skills this afternoon, I just bought a new car!

mummyyof5

AARGGHH...repair man been today to fix DW...was told to put it on an empty cycle first...which i did and the same error has occured...despite him changing heater element and 2 other parts...another phone call to declutter in the morning..thank goodness its under warrenty.

I have terrble earache so off to declutter some parrots.

I really believe LOs can help with jobs...suitable to their age of course...my 15 month old grand daughter loves to help tidy away her toys...4 year old son takes things to the bin, tidies away his bits and pieces...will fetch nappies for LO etc.

Love to all ...will try to catch up more tomorrow but have relatives visiting and need to fly into Valliland to pay rent and pick up Daily Mirror...for Lego xxx

Willow92

Evening all!

Back after a week at the flat ^-^

Haven't done a lot really but my fiance and I cleaned the bathroom as best we could. It's damp coz the landlord hasn't put in any air vents or anything, ceiling is dripping with condensation. Got dripped on while having a wee last night...

toottifrootti

AnW'sMum wrote: »

This pc has been acting up again I really need to get a replacement sorted in the next couple of weeks, I know DH would just say 'get a new one' but there is so much emotion tied up with this one which has stopped me before now. It's times like this I miss him more than ever. He could be quite a good flyboy on occasions too.

AnW'sMum good to hear the day out was so :money: I think it adds to the enjoyment! bad news about the pc - but just think what DH would have said -might go something like this "dont be so soppy its only a pc -get rid -its now useless and anyway you used it more than me! get a new one that will make your life easier -you are not chucking me out just the pile of junk - I am still in your heart"

sockdrawer thats great about the windows - its coming together for you - glad you had a nice holiday - keep up the good work:T
cycling sorry its a bit late but a very HappyBirthday to your DD - hope you got out for the meal thats another milestone in her progress:T:T
msgnomey am keeping everything crossed that the swelling will disappear very soon and you will feel more comfortable - watch out with bending over for some of the jobs on your list - might be uncomfortable? (((hugs))) for a better recovery from here on xx
MrsChaos you are on holiday so allowed to be a little (I did say a little) lax but you have to keep in mind your plan. And BE IN BED BEFORE MIDNIGHT!!!!!!
LW hope your migraine doesnt develop

sexymouse didnt see it yesterday but will check now - thanks honey (((hugs))) ETA no sign of a pm?

hex - ouch:( not good -big squishy hugs - hope the mouth feels less sore tomorrow xx I would like the diabetic fruitcake recipe if you have a mo please?
Kazw hugs for you both - i guess he is upset because you are not getting the recognition you deserve as his partner - he obviously wants you to be with him and must feel that its a snub- and maybe he is snapping because you arent upset IYKWIM? - hope you can work it out (((hugs)))
mummyyof5 hope the earache goes away soon - very nasty!! (((hugs)))
aj congrats on the new car
xxJoxx says 'Hi' to everyone and sends her love - she has no internet at the moment so feeling strange without it! but hopefully she is getting loads done as she is at home for the school hols with her LO.

you have all been working hard on your lists - well done!

been a horrible day - weather really bad and lots of frustrations

hopefully tomorrow will be better as so far I am not achieving what i wanted to before sunday.

love and hugs to everyone especially LadyL and Diva

toots xx

sockdrawer

Pigpen~ imo only, you're doing the right thing letting them make their own minds up. My children haven't seen their.... (and I was about to say dad, but he isn't really-my dh is, and he has been to all intents and purposes been their dad for years ex doesn't deserve the title) for about 10 years (eldest is 22 now) and the eldest two (22 & 17 ) made their own minds up about it all a long time ago based on their own experiences at his house. The two younger ones wouldn't recognise him in the street. Children will make up their own minds about these things, so <<hugs>> It's really difficult I know, but you seem to be doing everything you can hon. x
Hex2~ hope the tooth feels better soon, and it's not too miserable for you.
kazwookie I hope OH calms down. I have to say I would feel the same if DH wasn't invited to something family orientated, but it's good that you are fine with it. I hope he sees that, and that it gives him strength. It would be far worse for him if you were raving and getting mad about it. I agree with some of the other flyladies. He may be being protective of you...x
Mummyof5~ "I have terrble earache so off to declutter some parrots." Not logical.... drink some wine, yes, hold hot waterbottle to ear... yes, eat chocolate..... yes. Declutter parrots...... confused (I'm a bear of little brain)
Vanilla <<hugs>> hope it went well today with school. x
Toots~ lots of love and hugs just cos xxx
Valli I find ctrl ++ helps my reading skills a *lot* :rotfl:
Off to bed now, and will fly more tomorrow.....Sweet dreams xxx

toottifrootti

sockdrawer 'parrots' is flylady speak for paracetamol! xx