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  • omg all morning trying to get phone line fixed...trying to do online shopping...phone battery flat. gggrrrrr.
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • CathT
    CathT Posts: 7,133 Forumite
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    Another busy day ahead then. Hope baby starts sleeping better soon. DD is getting up far too early and it's since the clocks changed.
    June 2025 - part 1 - £19,145 part 2 - £21,973 Total - £41,118 29 months to go!
  • earthgirl
    earthgirl Posts: 3,762 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Hope your littlies are feeling better, the attacks must be scary. How are you getting on with the painting?
    15/5/12 Paid off Mortgage 1 (£220k) Bought Dream House:www: Dec 13 - Mortage 2 -£116,508. 15/7/18 Mortgage Free Again :j

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  • Thanks guys. Baby was fine until the clocks changed, too.

    Earthie I am more supervising the painting than doing any! It no longer looks like our kitchen (yellowed and tatty) and now looks like what Beeny would call a "bright contemporary living space"!!

    So...am I right in thinking that if we have a Baptism party at home, then SIL can see (and be derogatory about) the renovations and so absolve me of the need to ask her here at another time?

    Also she hates dogs...
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
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    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • pavlovs_dog
    pavlovs_dog Posts: 10,215 Forumite
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    Also she hates dogs...

    I'm sure if you ask Chelle nicely she'll lend you Murphy for a few hours :D

    families can be such a minefield can't they.

    is it jealousy that causes SIL to be like it or is she just a sourpuss in general?
    know thyself
    Nid wy'n gofyn bywyd moethus...
  • Brodiebobs
    Brodiebobs Posts: 1,032 Forumite
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    I hate people like that, is there a reason or like pavlov said is she a general sourpuss?

    I'd take the high road and ignore it... annoys them more i think. We have someone in our family who likes to put everyone down but i know at half her age i have more than she'll ever have ;)
  • I'm sure if you ask Chelle nicely she'll lend you Murphy for a few hours :D

    We have a bouncing (sometimes richocheting) full grown labrador pup so that's taken care of!

    families can be such a minefield can't they.

    is it jealousy that causes SIL to be like it or is she just a sourpuss in general?

    Well I've been reading the thread on narcissism...
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • Brodiebobs wrote: »
    I hate people like that, is there a reason or like pavlov said is she a general sourpuss?

    I'd take the high road and ignore it... annoys them more i think. We have someone in our family who likes to put everyone down but i know at half her age i have more than she'll ever have ;)

    Thing is she's quite plausible on first meeting...

    Well I have a date for it now and we've agreed Godparents to ask and guests (only about 25 including us).

    One of my friends says to send out the invitations very close to the day (:rotfl:).
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • CathT
    CathT Posts: 7,133 Forumite
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    Why are some family members a nightmare??? At least it's not a huge audience for her to be offensive in front of. Get your puppy involved in things as much as you can!
    June 2025 - part 1 - £19,145 part 2 - £21,973 Total - £41,118 29 months to go!
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