MSE Parents Club Part 15

got-it-spend-it

It's so quiet on here tonight.

I'm just doing my BP posts, but to be honest I am about ready to go to bed. I didn't even get up until 9:30 today so I am properly pathetic.

I keep checking to see if my ASOS orders have despatched but none of the have yet.

ladybirdintheuk

I'm jelous of the ASOS orders - someone yell at me next time BP were done this morning. Between there and swagbucks I think everyone is getting their christmas presents from amazon next year

kitkat5566

searching_me wrote: »

((hugs)) kk ... dont know what else to say but ((hugs)) and i just popped the kettle on if you fancy a brew x

Thanks a cuppa sounds great, I had one earlier that went cold and I accidently spilled it all over the coffee table and it went all over my digi cam :eek: but it seems to be working...

ladybirdintheuk wrote: »

Thanks for that. It is just a phase, it is just a phase, it is just a phase.... how long does this phase last then?!

Kitkat :grouphug:. Can you talk things through over the phone while he is going? I find that we often make up far better sending each other texts after a row - no-one can hang up on each other or walk out in a strop that way (plus I at least am a bit more careful with how I word things when I'm writing them down... not that I say cross things that I don't mean, but I don't word things well enough for what I mean and what I say to be the same thing)... we start off with cross texts that get less cross until we start appologising to one another

Re the midwife thing, a few others have done it from here, so I'm sure someone will be along soon. I've not felt the need, just cause although I was a bit tramatised by mine, it was "just" that I tore quite bad, rather than medical intervention. It is not something where I feel that talking through why things turned out the way they did would help. My worries were more with "never being the same again" which is more just something you have to come to terms with iyswim. Talking on here (and to a sympathetic doctor) has been everso helpful. Just reading back, and that wasn't meant to sound like it wouldn't be useful to you.

Good advice, I live in a hole LOL so theres no signal here (ok not literally a hole but in a valley!) but OH has taken his laptop and did say he would try talking to me on skype, I have never used it before but am sure i can get the gist! Texts r better, discussing stuff on the phone I to am carp with words and always end up getting a bit too emotional

Thanks for the advice on the Mw thing, I think I just need to discuss it, I am having real problems coming to terms with my birth and why things went how they did, I did worry things would never be the same, but I know things are the same but its just stuff going on in my head if you get what I mean... I don't even understand!

CAFC: good idea about next weekend, I have already told him that we will decline guests. I think the problem is the little time we have together there is always his family/ friends here so we never had alone time anymore. I might trying writing things down as theres a few things we rowed about that kinda spiraled out of control. With his job he cant really request work away less as it was part of his contract, but he didnt think it would be so often. Your not being harsh at all!

Thanks MDF, SS, Pink; everyone you have been great

Thanks also GISI, I shall google now! I just cant think what else to do, so hopefully discussing it might help me

SugarSpun

Inane bingo posts - check.
Swagbucks - sulky face, boogers never let me win ANYTHING - check.
ASOS orders - check check check check check check :j
List made for tomorrow - check

If you see me faffing about here or on FB in the morning will you tell me to get my act together please? I need to get out and get stuff done.

searching_me

kk little info for you .. as long as the cuppa hasnt got sugar in it it wont harm electricals x

aless02

DH gone to bed early again, so watching crap TV again tonight. Blegh, tomorrow's Monday...I don't like the rut of dreading those again!

ladybirdintheuk

SS my winning searches on SB recently have been all about industrial lettings or commercial lettings in whatever town/county pops into my head. Might be worth a try? It did have a keen interest in knitting for a while too.

MadDogWoman_2

KK - I know of a very shy lurker that wants to give you a big ((HUG))

My_Fathers_Daughter

Just checking in to make sure everyone here has access to the Facebook MSE PT group. If not just shout and someone will send you an invitation.


...not that I am suggesting any of us share our information or anything...

kitkat5566

searching_me wrote: »

kk little info for you .. as long as the cuppa hasnt got sugar in it it wont harm electricals x

Thats an intreging fact, why is that?! I am so curious! But unfort I do have 1 sugar in my cuppa

MadDogWoman wrote: »

KK - I know of a very shy lurker that wants to give you a big ((HUG))

Aww thanks shy lurker :)