MSE Parents Club Part 15

Evansangel

SusanC wrote: »

I read OH's text messages - he's not organised enough to go through deleting them so I do it for him when we're on car journeys. I don't think it's unreasonable to check for evidence before saying anything if you already suspect something.

I agree, and that is how i found something on DHs phone which caused our massive arguement. But its ok now i guess

GISI, ((hugs))

CAFC, i hope your ok? ((hugs))

Em, test again!

I've forgotten the rest and i need to go now to look at a new laptop, plus Lily keeps pressing the keys on this one and screwing the whole laptop up.

weezl74

hammyhunter wrote: »

Oh OH OHHHHHH! Weezl. Fantastic! I love it - thank you! It is perfect! Thank you!:D

no worries I feel like I'm working for them, as I also made aless get one for finn's crimbo!

GISI and Keely, hugs for you both.

Buttonmoons

SusanC wrote: »

Grrr :mad: We need an extra mad smiley to express my outrage. I know it's probably ignorance and lack of understanding on his part but it really annoys me when people make fun of that kind of thing and act like it's as simple as just deciding not to do it. If someone suffers a bereavement nobody would tell them to just decide not to be sad because everybody knows it is not that simple so I don't see why the same doesn't apply to this kind of thing.


I have a RL friend who is like that - she was ill the night before my wedding because she was so nervous about being bridesmaid. We ended up with me helping her to get ready in time. :rotfl:

I have tried to explain it to him before, and his suggestion was "Can't you be sick out of the window so you don't stink up the toilet" Yes how helpful, how about I barf on your head, it will surely smell better than your scalp

The thing is, he wants to get back together and I'm like noway, he can't seem to understand that I don't want to be with someone who makes fun of my issues, who is lazy, and seriously, when I'm away or at my mums etc, all I ask him to do is feed the cats and do their litterboxes, he makes out like its a MASSIVE EFFORT on his part, when I came back from my mums last week (the day I was robbed) I walked in the door and he'd obviously done a last minute clean up, and split the bag and just left it (I scoop the dirty litter into scented nappy bags as the amonia makes me gyp) So anyhoo, I walk in and there is THREE cat craps and soiled litter all in the cats tiled floor AND my hallway carpet, they were dried up but STILL, and he was like "Oh just leave it and help me in the with the shopping bags, I dont want to put it away myself"

:mad::mad: LIKE IM GOING TO LEAVE FAECES ON THE FLOOR!!!

He sent me a FB message asking when I'm home as all he had for dinner last night was a pot noodle :(:(

COOK SUMMAT YOUR BLOODY SELF!!!

See his plans is to move into a 4 bed house with 2 people from work, party pad he's calling it, I told him he better wear condoms, as party pad is really *SEX* pad. Hey ho, I told him though that if he wants to do that he better make a safe environment for when he has Keira, as if I find out there is a party or anything vulgar going on if she is staying over, I'll stop access. I'm not having her around slob lazy, sex obsessed young men.

We shall see anyways, I have a feeling that he will enjoy his new found freedom and end up cancelling weekends etc if there is a party. Shall see shall see......

I just need to find me a 16hr job, that I can do with juggling Keira and childcare and we are all set.....

He tells me "oh its not that hard to find a job" Yes it chuffin' is if you can only do X hours at X times and havent worked in 7 years (god that sounds bad lol)

I suggested (I didn't mean it at all though I wanted to just suss him out) that he can be full time carer of Keira since he has established himself within a company and has a good salary etc - OH I CANT DO THAT WITH MY JOB, I CANT JUGGLE NURSERY OR ANYTHING.

Oh yeah but I have too, chuffin douche

SusanC_2

Buttonmoons wrote: »

Even if I had £3000 pounds I woudn't spent more than £15 max on a handbag, Im just tight tho', I'd go to disneyland though

Me neither. I may have spent more than that on a stamp album though.

SusanC_2

Evansangel wrote: »

I agree, and that is how i found something on DHs phone which caused our massive arguement. But its ok now i guess

:grouphug:

Buttonmoons

SusanC wrote: »

Me neither. I may have spent more than that on a stamp album though.

That's all good though as it's something you get enjoyment from, a handbag is just to carry "stuff".

I wish I had a hobby, I couldn't collect owt though, it would get lost in my hovel of a house.

CAFCGirl

i'm so sorry everyone...

my "i give up" was because shoddy internet was refusing to post my long winded self indulgent rant.....

i was then going to post te above explanation but it went totally belly up so i went out.....and bought a terry chocolate orange all for myself!

tried telling DH last night and got "i think thats just what being a new parent is like"......... and "i dont think you are"

Hes been much better this morning (wonder if he googled it!).....

SusanC_2

Buttonmoons wrote: »

I have tried to explain it to him before, and his suggestion was "Can't you be sick out of the window so you don't stink up the toilet" Yes how helpful, how about I barf on your head, it will surely smell better than your scalp

The thing is, he wants to get back together and I'm like noway, he can't seem to understand that I don't want to be with someone who makes fun of my issues, who is lazy, and seriously, when I'm away or at my mums etc, all I ask him to do is feed the cats and do their litterboxes, he makes out like its a MASSIVE EFFORT on his part, when I came back from my mums last week (the day I was robbed) I walked in the door and he'd obviously done a last minute clean up, and split the bag and just left it (I scoop the dirty litter into scented nappy bags as the amonia makes me gyp) So anyhoo, I walk in and there is THREE cat craps and soiled litter all in the cats tiled floor AND my hallway carpet, they were dried up but STILL, and he was like "Oh just leave it and help me in the with the shopping bags, I dont want to put it away myself"

:mad::mad: LIKE IM GOING TO LEAVE FAECES ON THE FLOOR!!!

When he shows so little respect for you it should be blindingly obvious why you won't get back together with him.

hammyhunter

SusanC wrote: »

It lasted for two months but doesn't seem to have had any lasting effects. (Aside from the occasional fake cough to go with the "I can't do [whatever she's just been told to do] because I've got a cough.")

:rotfl:

EA ((HUGS)) I hope you are OK now

Buttons - you deserve someone to treat you much better than Idris does

Oh, and I keep forgetting to say Hi Wilma

Buttonmoons

hammyhunter wrote: »

:rotfl:

EA ((HUGS)) I hope you are OK now

Buttons - you deserve someone to treat you much better than Idris does

Oh, and I keep forgetting to say Hi Wilma

He has it good points and to be fair to him, I wasn't such a crazy crank when we first met, but they say girls change from ages of 18-21, so it's just bad luck he got me knocked up at 17 :rotfl: