MSE Parents Club Part 15

wi3adora

Thank Flek it's Friday! I feel I do more in my 4 day week than if I worked full time.

Had a lovely conversation with Daniel this morning about his friends Marni (Armani) and Leelee (Lilly) he adores them both, they are other children that the CM looks after

got-it-spend-it

OMG I feel totally sick. I think my husband is having an affair . There, I've said it. I've been a teeny bit worried for a while, but a few things have happened in the last few days that make me even more so. I am such a rubbish wife and now I just want to cry.

But I have to go to work so can't even talk to husband until later.

aless02

oh, gisi i really hope it's not what you think...have some major hugs from me...i wish i could do something.

got-it-spend-it

Thanks Aless. I hope I'm wrong too, but there seem to be too many 'indicators' at the moment. OH is totally not the type though, so maybe I am wrong but I feel pretty rubbish about it at the moment.

wi3adora

Oh Gisi have some hugs from me too xx

You are not a rubbish wife at all, hope it's not what you think it is, I'll be thinking of you today xx

aless02

got-it-spend-it wrote: »

Thanks Aless. I hope I'm wrong too, but there seem to be too many 'indicators' at the moment. OH is totally not the type though, so maybe I am wrong but I feel pretty rubbish about it at the moment.

:grouphug: GISI :grouphug: . In the nicest possible way, I hope you're just being paranoid. Also, I think it's important you take today before you see to really think it through and make sure that confronting him is the right decision. Do you have someone you can talk it through with maybe to get a clearer head's point of view?

Becles

got-it-spend-it wrote: »

OMG I feel totally sick. I think my husband is having an affair . There, I've said it. I've been a teeny bit worried for a while, but a few things have happened in the last few days that make me even more so. I am such a rubbish wife and now I just want to cry.

But I have to go to work so can't even talk to husband until later.

*big hugs*

Sorry to hear that. What's happened and what makes you suspect that? Stop thinking you are a rubbish wife, as that is not true. If he is, he's the rubbish one for not realising what he has at home and looking elsewhere!

I do cuddle Charlotte before she goes to sleep. At bedtime she likes me to take her up and we have a cuddle in her bed and a chat about random things (aeroplane exhaust fumes last night). I give her a kiss and say night and leave and she's usually asleep within a couple of minutes.

It's if she was messing around and deliberately not going to sleep to make me stay in her room with her, that I'd get cross and tell her off.

She's playing on one of those magnetic drawing boards at the moment. She keeps "writing" messages. I liked the one that apparantly said "get more ham Mam" as I said I needed to remember to buy more when I made the boys packed lunches :rotfl:

ladybirdintheuk

Oh GISI big hugs :grouphug: I hope it isn't that. You know where I am if you need me!

got-it-spend-it

Thanks guys . The advice is good.

It's a few things, Becles. He' changed a lot since this person joined his team at work- been more tetchy at home, working later, having to 'pop in' on his days off. He also goes out with this girl when they are off work (with the children, she has a baby who is 4 months older than H), but only when I'm not around and never with anyone else even though several people at work have children of the same age. When I suggest inviting this girl and her husband and baby over he always makes excuses. She is always first to like his comments on FB, and comment. But recently I've noticed her comments have been deleted (you can see where other people's comments refer to them). Whited out due to embarassment: :ofter OH being three hours late home for two days running (and with no real reason when I asked him why) I just had a look at his phone. I know it was a stupid thing to do, but he's always really open with phones/emails/FB but has been less so recently. There are some texts on there that make me very ..


Anyhow, off to work now so I can stew on it all day....

pinkpig08

Oh gisi (((hugs)))
You most certainly are not a rubbish wife - you go to work, look after the home and do the MOST important job in the world which is looking after your beautiful baby. I hope you're suspiscions are wrong and that your husband wouldn't do that. I know it's impossible but try and focus on something else today until you get chance to speak to him tonight.