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○•○•○ Weekend Chatty Thing 9/10th October ○•○•○

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  • tenmah
    tenmah Posts: 2,209 Forumite
    Scaredy I don't seem to have you on FB anymore? I am sure I did once! Have you deleted me?
    OD [STRIKE] £2600 [/STRIKE] £0 :j Loan [STRIKE]£9500.00[/STRIKE] £0 :j Car [STRIKE]£3150[/STRIKE] £0 :j Moving Costs [STRIKE]£1300[/STRIKE] £0 :j Savings £1150 :j

    Everytime I hear the 'dirty' word Exercise, I wash my mouth out with chocolate!
  • clairewop
    clairewop Posts: 8,007 Forumite
    Dh has nearly finished the kitchen :) a row of tiles need a second coat of paint then its finished :)
    Boiler pot £30.92/£1000
  • Belated Happy Birthday Gemzie.
    I'm a scorpio too Scaredy.
    Just aged 10 years in an hour - the most dreary church service in history.
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,672 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Oh dear Bookie.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • scaredy_cat
    scaredy_cat Posts: 7,758 Forumite
    tenmah wrote: »
    Scaredy I don't seem to have you on FB anymore? I am sure I did once! Have you deleted me?

    you're still on my friends list, tenmah.
    Cats don't have owners - they have staff!! :D:p
    DFW Long Hauler Supporter No 150


  • I need some advice.

    How do you help some one who has been betrayed?

    I just became VERY bitter and haven't had a proper realtionship since I was cheated on so I don't feel I am in the best place to offer advice. I know you have to work it out yourself but I just feel like I am not offering any thing positive.

    any suggestions?
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • beanielou wrote: »
    Oh dear Bookie.

    It's very worrying Beanie. Here we are doing a musical to attract people to find out more about the Gospel and a Jesus who loves us and life with all it's joys and fun. Then they walk into a service and POW! All wasted. :mad:

    'The opinions voiced in this comment are mine and not necessarily those of this forum/thread. There are other beliefs available'. :rotfl:
  • tenmah
    tenmah Posts: 2,209 Forumite
    That is weird Scaredy, because you don't seem to be on my friends list! Your first name does begin with N doesn't it?
    OD [STRIKE] £2600 [/STRIKE] £0 :j Loan [STRIKE]£9500.00[/STRIKE] £0 :j Car [STRIKE]£3150[/STRIKE] £0 :j Moving Costs [STRIKE]£1300[/STRIKE] £0 :j Savings £1150 :j

    Everytime I hear the 'dirty' word Exercise, I wash my mouth out with chocolate!
  • tenmah
    tenmah Posts: 2,209 Forumite
    Buffy, that is a really difficult situation to be in and to help someone else with as well. Nothing you say will be wrong but be prepared for the person not to listen to anything just now, as they will be hurting so much. It really is a question of time, as we know, but you don't believe that at the time.

    I still hurt over something that happened to me many years ago - it is always there sadly.

    Sorry, not much help but good luck and just be there for the person to rant and rave!
    OD [STRIKE] £2600 [/STRIKE] £0 :j Loan [STRIKE]£9500.00[/STRIKE] £0 :j Car [STRIKE]£3150[/STRIKE] £0 :j Moving Costs [STRIKE]£1300[/STRIKE] £0 :j Savings £1150 :j

    Everytime I hear the 'dirty' word Exercise, I wash my mouth out with chocolate!
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,672 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Sorry Buffy Im in the same boat.
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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