The Memorygirl Matrix

greenbee

Triker wrote: »

Greenbee and MG and others that struggle to 'sell themselves' would this idea help?

Imagine yourself on tv, presenting your very finest performance ever, articulate, confident and oozing with charisma....your words are flowing, just pouring out of your mouth....

I'm watching that same tv and want to know more so I ask you to describe her.

Now I'm asking you about her, that person, i.e. YOU on the tv, I'm asking these questions,


Who is she?

What does she do?

How does she do it?

Why is she an expert?

How can she help me?

How do I access her services?

What else do I need to know about her expertise?


Now answer all those questions about you on the imaginary tv and then tweak your script and away you go....


Now get out there and SELL YOURSELF....obviously not in the biblical sense.:D x

Ever thought of mentoring or life coaching as an option Triker?

cazmcf wrote: »

Well done EH:j:j

Today I went to the parent teacher meeting and turns out DD1 is doing pretty darn good. She's catching up more and more as the months go by. I think the teachers remark that if she doesnt work harder she will get left behind was meant that she will get behind that day, not overall.

Anyway he was showing me her english book and what was in it .... A mind map!! OH was well impressed that I already had Mg's book and I think the teacher was quite impressed that I knew what a mind map was!

So I told DD that I saw her mind map and her reply, 'Yeah they're easy to do.':rotfl: Kids, you gotts love em.

Feeling much more positive today and am proud to bits of my darling daughter.:heartsmil

So pleased to hear that caz :T:T

Memory_Girl

greenbee wrote: »

Can someone just teach me how to talk people out of their bank details?

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I memorised Mr French Mentors credit card numbers last night - Wahayyyy!!! kids, there will be a Christmas :rotfl::rotfl:

MG

Triker

greenbee wrote: »

Ever thought of mentoring or life coaching as an option Triker?

Would love to, just not sure how or which direction to go in....I really would love to though.:o

greenbee

Triker wrote: »

Would love to, just not sure how or which direction to go in....I really would love to though.:o

Sounds like you need to start thinking about how to go about it then... you'd better shift over to the matrix forum and see whether you can get some advice over there

lav1979

Evening All

Though I have been MIA, I have been thinking of you all and lurking.
MG - GO GIRLY!!! - Hope the school saga is resolving and have found a way forward with the masterplan.
FANTASIA - Thanks Honey
GREENBEE - Did you love Hong Kong ? Have my sympathy with OH troubles, we went through it last week so much so DSD is now living with us. This is why I was MIA, but you know finding a way with a few deep breaths and a large vodka.
EH - Congrats on 1st client.xxx

Off to other forum

Love Lav xxxxxxxxxx

fantasia322

Totally irrelevant, but some of my favourite sayings, anybody relate?
Whether you say you can or you can't, both statements are true - Henry Ford.

When the student is ready, the master appears. ~ Buddhist Proverb

The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, not to worry about the future, or not to anticipate troubles, but to live the present moment wisely and earnestly. -- The Buddha
...
Just do it!

I'd rather regret doing something than regret not doing something.

Success is something you attract by the person you become. Jim Rohn
If you don't design your own life plan chances are you'll fail into someone elses plan and guess what they have planned for you
NOT MUCH!!

PROFITS ARE BETTER THAN WAGES
Wages make you a Living
...Profits make you a Fortune
Formal Education will make you a Living
Self Education will make you a Fortune.

I can choose to be happy or unhappy each and every day. My happiness depends on me, on my attitude about everything and not on forces outside of me.

You are the only problem you will ever have and you are the only solution you will ever be.

Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today !!

Making these my Matrix Mantra's

groatie_queen

Fantastic quotes, fantasia - thank you!

We are finding all sorts of links between each other aren't we, it is so good. For example, when Triker said she had found an expert doctor for her lyme disease I realised it must be the same person I am with for another rare condition - and yes, bingo! In the whole of the UK that is quite something.

Unfortunately Kits for Kids is not getting the energy from me that I would like to give because I'm in a prolonged dip just now, with no way of knowing when I'll come up for air. I had 3 days away in Sept, the first break for 4 years - but it was too ambitious for where I am with treatment. Ah well, lesson learned and all that.

My priority has to be managing my health in order to continue to work part-time - as a single person I need to pay the bills and also pay for, and cope with the (non NHS) treatment.

But I have much to be grateful for and the forthcoming OU course will help deal with the cabin fever! And in the meantime here I am happy to chip in when appropriate.

Well done EH on your good news, and MG, no disrespect to anyone working in Tesco's but there is a world out there who needs your particular talents - so go get 'em girl!

Bitsy_Beans

greenbee wrote: »

Thanks guys... I know this was aimed at MG, but it is just what I needed to see to help me deal with my presentation stress. I know that I know my subject, and I'm passionate about it. I have a reasonable speaking voice (luckily for me, the more stressed I am the lower it gets, rather than getting high pitched... OH finds it very sexy which can be a problem if we're presenting together ), know that I put plenty of expression into my presenting (I'm so glad I did all those reading prizes at school, and drama, and reading in school assemblies and church... the only problem being that I really don't need a microphone ), I move around a lot on stage, wave my arms and when I'm doing workshops I do lots of listening (well, I might as well make someone else do the work and rest my own voice!).

Can someone just teach me how to talk people out of their bank details?

I feel LOADS better now so I'm off to ruin someone else's day be reviewing their work :cool:

I don't see that as a problem. I loathe presentations where the speaker mumbles and you can't hear them. Loud and proud - bit like me when I've had a wee tipple
I am at the thought I might have helped you.

I was enthusing to a friend today about mind maps, she's 3 months pregnant with her 3rd child, exhausted and has an exam next week that she feels totally unprepared for. She's done the revision but lacks the confidence of her abilities. Cue me wittering on about the Secret and attracting negative thoughts and mind maps for her revision I fear I come across a leeeeeetle too evangelical :rotfl:

I am interested in becoming an offical Matrix member but I am worried that I might not have the same amount of time to commit to it as some of you Am I being daft cos you're all so lovely here

kavics17

Memory_Girl wrote: »

greenbee wrote: »

Can someone just teach me how to talk people out of their bank details?

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I memorised Mr French Mentors credit card numbers last night - Wahayyyy!!! kids, there will be a Christmas :rotfl::rotfl:

MG

Do you want to share it with us:D;):rotfl::T?

ClootiesMum

Just a quickie as tonight has to be a TADA night - timer is ready & I need to tidy (not clean) house so I can be ready & eager for overtime tomorrow....

EssexHebridean - brilliant news on your client :beer:

MG - what can I say - posh hotel & French mentor :j but while I'm on the subject

I memorised Mr French Mentors credit card numbers last night - Wahayyyy!!! kids, there will be a Christmas

Although I admire your style

*I do know you're joking but if you're not can I have a 3DTV for DH?*

MG, Groatie Queen & fantasia - WE MUST GET TOGETHER SOMETIME :beer:

As a wee aside - I got another of the Asda £40 gift books today which I won't use before the 14th - if anyone wants it, PM me your address & I'll post it on.

Anyhow - 15 minute TADA calls