Is your heating ON or OFF?

bertiebots

I turned our boiler down to summer setting a few days ago as it had appeared to get a bit warmer and after an hour of ch heating being on we were all too warm! Now the temps have dropped back down to below freezing so the boiler setting has had to go back up:mad:.
At least the heating only needs to be on for a few hours in the evening and once the rooms is nice and warm it goes off. the room retains the heat really well with our thermal curtains :A.

mrsr

A lovly day sun kept the house warm all day.Put the heat on for a hour this evening .OH came home sat in his T-shirt and moaned he was cold so switched back on ,stiil he wont be here long i have just found out hes having a affair so i will soon be saving on heat.

Caterina

mrsr, sorry to hear about your cheating OH - you sound very calm about it, hope you can resolve this in the best possible way.

Justamum

mrsr wrote: »

A lovly day sun kept the house warm all day.Put the heat on for a hour this evening .OH came home sat in his T-shirt and moaned he was cold so switched back on ,stiil he wont be here long i have just found out hes having a affair so i will soon be saving on heat.

Sorry to hear about that. You're much calmer than I would be about it. If he'd been mine I'd have thrown him out in his t-shirt!

mrsr

Thank you. Not calm really just putting on brave face and all that.Got him to sort his draws last night and throw away old T-shirts thought it will save him a lot of work later .

guccigoo

mrsr wrote: »

Thank you. Not calm really just putting on brave face and all that.Got him to sort his draws last night and throw away old T-shirts thought it will save him a lot of work later .

sorry to hear that mrsr, does he know that u know or are u simmering at the moment and reaching boiling point later;)

Westywoodpecker

mrsr wrote: »

A lovly day sun kept the house warm all day.Put the heat on for a hour this evening .OH came home sat in his T-shirt and moaned he was cold so switched back on ,stiil he wont be here long i have just found out hes having a affair so i will soon be saving on heat.

You do sound very calm. I respect you but hope your OK in yourself. What you have found out is a huge thing, I hope you have friends you can confined in & get the support you deserve.

Lots of love x

mrsr

guccigoo wrote: »

sorry to hear that mrsr, does he know that u know or are u simmering at the moment and reaching boiling point later;)

He has no idea i know.Its murder trying to behave normally,especally when i know he's not going where he says he is .He's not very good at it i dont think men realise how we pick up on things ,i think he thinks hes being so clever.Still turned heat off this morning he wont have nice room bathroom to shower in.

mrsr

Westywoodpecker wrote: »

You do sound very calm. I respect you but hope your OK in yourself. What you have found out is a huge thing, I hope you have friends you can confined in & get the support you deserve.

Lots of love x

Thankyou .I have two wonderfull daughters that i can talk to .Just waiting to get up some legal advise about house and set up a bank account in my name,then i can make sure my wages are paid into it before i put him out.Oh what i shock he's going to get.

missychrissy

mrsr wrote: »

Thankyou .I have two wonderfull daughters that i can talk to .Just waiting to get up some legal advise about house and set up a bank account in my name,then i can make sure my wages are paid into it before i put him out.Oh what i shock he's going to get.

I'm so impressed. It is 14 years now since I discovered my husband was having an affair, but I was so angry I told him to get out immediately. I wish I had been able to keep quiet and plan more carefully.

Don't put the heating on to keep him happy - make him freeeeeze!