Double Trouble but twice as nice

mooomin

moo2moo wrote: »

I hope you won't abandon diary land altogether but if you feel the need I hope you'll keep in touch with the many friends you've made here. Our lives are better for having you in them.

What Moo said.

You can always PM any of us if you need a chat, and you already know that I spend more time on Facebook than is strictly healthy so feel free to grab me for a "chat" if you need me.

I hope you don't stop posting, but fully understand the reasons if you do. Xxx

se999

Hi DT, sorry to hear about this new situation.

Basically I agree with what Moo2moo said.

My only extra input is that a lot is said about how we have to let our children be independant as they become adults, but there's the otherside that they have to learn to accept that their parents are increasingly independent too and can make their own choices, we are people with needs and feelings too which they have to increasingly learn to respect and accomodate, as well as still being their parents but in a changed relationship. I doubt if your daughter would appreciate you saying who she could and could not talk to or communicate with.

Do feel free to PM.

gingernutbizkit

Thinking of you x

Double_Trouble

OK just to be really awkward I have decided to revert to being DT my alter ego just wasn't sitting comfortably with me trouble is my name and trouble is my nature :rotfl:and I wanted my diary back

So for all those that are confused if it is any consolation so am I

Well I know this is supposed to be my positive diary but I have to say life is a pile of poo at the moment we are in the process of moving our little girl on and its just pants I am being expected to do stuff which I don't believe in and I am doing it because I want to give her the best possible start to her new life. Trouble is in the last two days both the paedatrician and the health visitor have expressed their views to me that this is wrong and will damage her which only reinforces my feelings and makes it so much worse meanwhile those who must be obeyed want me to agree with them that this is the best thing for her which I cant and want to keep talking to me about it which just gets me upset so I have told them to leave me alone.

I am managing on a day to day basis normally and the visits with the new parents are going well it is just when the professionals get involved they get me upset and then I am in bits.

Nothing anyone can do but needed to share

Thanks

DTxx

mooomin

You're back

I always felt you were trouble too :rotfl:

*great big hugs from the internet*

Sorry there's nothing we can do, but we love you so rant away!

taka

((((Hugs)))) DT

se999

Pleased to see you back as you.

Saddened to hear that things aren't going well for little girl, it must be awful for you and your family. At least it sounds like the new parents are nice and hopefully you'll be able to keep in contact with her.

How is your DS? I spotted on I think Macgirl's thread that he's going through a rough patch too. What the family's been going through currently and recently must be so unsettling for him too.

Hope the 'light at the end of the tunnel' gets brighter soon :grouphug:

boredofbeingathome

Weird thing is life- just when you think you get it sorted something crops up to leave a nice brown Mr.Whippy on your doorstep.

I can't imagine the emotions you must be experiencing at the moment, but it is nice to have your self back here although i was enjoying the -" It is I... Le Clair! " bit...

ref to Allo Allo there for some who may not know.

Double_Trouble

flying_fresian wrote: »

You're back

I always felt you were trouble too :rotfl:You are so right

Sorry there's nothing we can do, but we love you so rant away! TY

se999 wrote: »

Pleased to see you back as you.

Saddened to hear that things aren't going well for little girl, it must be awful for you and your family. At least it sounds like the new parents are nice and hopefully you'll be able to keep in contact with her.
There are no guarantees about future contact and even if they agree now a few months down the line they may feel very different:(


How is your DS? I spotted on I think Macgirl's thread that he's going through a rough patch too. What the family's been going through currently and recently must be so unsettling for him too.

Day off school today so all well trouble is we have no idea what is at the back of it could just be normal or a reaction to what has happened in the last few months:o

Hope the 'light at the end of the tunnel' gets brighter soon :grouphug:

boredofbeingathome wrote: »

Weird thing is life- just when you think you get it sorted something crops up to leave a nice brown Mr.Whippy on your doorstep.

I can't imagine the emotions you must be experiencing at the moment, but it is nice to have your self back here although i was enjoying the -" It is I... Le Clair! " bit...

ref to Allo Allo there for some who may not know.

Your TV watching habits are scarily like ours

DTxx

Karmacat

DT! Hello again! Exactly what Fresian said, exactly the way she said it :rotfl: haven't watched Allo Allo since the original broadcasts so can't do a Bob